Known as the "Apocalypse of Nature", Bambi is a children's novel written by the famous Austrian writer Felix Chalting.
The story tells the story of a deer, Bambi, who grew up from birth to adulthood. The author uses gentle tone and anthropomorphic techniques to describe a beautiful and real forest world: sometimes the sun is bright and quiet, sometimes the lightning and thunder are stormy and stormy; sometimes you help me to help harmony and friendship, sometimes you peck me to bite the weak and eat the strong; sometimes the birds and flowers are at ease, sometimes the guns and bullets are scattered and scattered... Animals live tenaciously in the forest according to the laws of nature and human intervention, and Bambi slowly grows up in such an environment and becomes the new generation of "deer kings" in the forest.
The novel has always been filled with a warm atmosphere, but also contains endless love and strength, is a good choice for children to read. But at the same time, it is also a successful parenting textbook, suitable for adults who are parents to read, and perhaps learn the lessons of parenting from Bambi's growth experience.
As a child, Bambi received the meticulous love of her mother.
Bambi was born in the expectation of his mother, and in the face of this beautiful child, his mother took care of him to an incomparable degree: feeding Bambi with sweet milk and letting him grow up healthily; licking Bambi's body with a warm tongue and letting him enjoy the touch of love; singing to Bambi in a gentle voice to let him listen to the beauty of the world; mother alert against the dangers around her, building a seat belt barrier for Bambi...
Bambi's mother uses her love to meet the physical needs, safety needs and love needs of her child at the beginning of life, providing the most fundamental guarantee for him to grow up healthily.
As a teenager, Bambi received a full range of skills training from her mother.
Bambi grew up healthy under the care of her mother. His mother taught him to know the deer roads and learn the skills of escape; took him to meet new friends to meet his social needs; let him see animals fighting each other for food, and understand that the jungle is not all harmonious and beautiful; let him understand that the bright green grass has hidden killing machines, and the cold of winter is difficult to forage...
Mother Deer teaches Bambi various survival skills through words and deeds. The ancients said: "The love of parents and sons is far-reaching." "Isn't Bambi's mother planning for her child's future survival?" On the other hand, many of our parents in human beings either take the child's small age as an excuse, or use the child's busy learning as an excuse to ignore the cultivation of children's life skills, so that the child's ability to do it is poor when he grows up, and the happiness index is reduced.
In Bambi, when she was an adult, all her mother could do was let go and be perfect.
Bambi, who grew taller than his mother, woke up one day to find that his mother was missing, and he searched around, so that the anxious people shed tears, and the mother did not appear in time because of the child's crying. After her mother left more and more times, and the time to leave became longer and longer, Bambi slowly learned to live alone, to cope with various challenges and dangers without her mother's protection, and took an important step towards becoming the "Deer King" in the future.
The last time Bambi saw her mother was when she was hunted by humans, and she gave her life to protect Bambi... Since then, her mother has completely faded out of Bambi's life.
The deer mother is undoubtedly wise, she left decisively after teaching the child the ability to survive, let the child go through the wind and rain alone, she only paid attention to it from a distance; when the child was in a difficult situation and was at a loss, she sacrificed herself to save each other, protected the child thoroughly, and the selflessness of maternal love was fully displayed in her. It is the mother's letting go and fulfillment that Bambi's social value value can be revealed.
In the book, Bambi's mother and "father", the old prince, played different roles in Bambi's growth process, and the division of labor was clear. If his mother raised Bambi physically, the old prince gave Bambi strength psychologically and spiritually, setting an example for him to grow into an extraordinary deer.
When Bambi first met the old prince, he was still crying and crying for his mother, and when he heard the old prince say, "He is so tall, he always cries and shouts to find his mother, you don't feel ashamed of yourself", he really felt a little ashamed, so he decided to be strong, and since then he has become a brave and independent deer.
Bambi had great respect for the old prince, who was equally in love with this strong and intelligent descendant. After many misunderstandings, contacts, and exchanges, this old man and young man became close partners. The prince used his rich forest experience to help Bambi defuse the traps set by humans; despised Guo Bo for being captive by humans, and clearly told Bambi that running freely was the greatest glory of being a deer; saving Bambi from danger, guarding his well-being, and using actions to make Bambi understand that living in the forest is never an easy task, and it is necessary to practice strength in tribulations; finally, he retires and calmly goes to death...
The old prince's education of Bambi is always outlined and raised, pointing out the direction of his life from the right path, not sticking to the details, not entangled with the love of his children, asking him to have a broad mind and a sense of responsibility, and finally cultivate him into a generation of "deer kings".
"There are always many crossroads in the road of life, and there will always be someone to accompany you on a journey, but the only person who will go down in the end is yourself." There will always be times when we wave goodbye, there will always be times when we are alone... So, learn to be strong. This is the monologue of the old prince after bidding farewell to Bambi.
Yes, parents and children, we will eventually be separated, but as parents, before separation, we must teach children the ability to survive, and then let them live on their own. When a child has the ability and dignity to live in this world, it is not worth it for you to take him to this world for a trip. So, Bambi's upbringing is a successful format for our human parents.
Then read Bambi with your own children!