I thought I could sleep well, but I didn't expect to sleep for a short time, and woke up the rumbling sound of the truck downstairs, why don't I sleep like a pig. Or which one is renovated again, and you can't get into the truck during the day. Well, bear with me.
One night the other day, I received a phone call from an elder, who said: Another relative of the older generation was very ill, fell at home, shed a lot of blood, stayed in the hospital for a few days, people were not awake, they pulled the infusion needle to go home... We'll see her tomorrow, maybe it's the last time we'll see her... Listening to the cold, a very good elder, who has suffered a lot, has no culture but is very kind, has a compassionate heart, a wise old man who does not understand philosophy but sees human nature very thoroughly. As far as I know, none of the people I know have said that she is not good, and in the difficult times, she has done her best to help many people. Now ninety-one years old, living alone, with several children, but unwilling to live with any children, the reason is probably to take into account the living habits of the elderly, eating habits are different from young people and so on. Some things, perhaps it is good to be taken care of by people on their own initiative, and it may be difficult to ask others to do something, and they are afraid that they will not get a response. The next day, when I went to visit her with some relatives, I came in the door and asked her who I was, and she said she didn't know, but immediately remembered. People are thinner than when I went to see them in the first two or three months, with decent spirits, clear brains, awesome! It turned out that she was too old, she couldn't do things herself, eat casually, in the long run, severe malnutrition, anemia, said that she fell at four o'clock in the morning, broke her head, shed a lot of blood, fortunately, her eldest daughter came to see her at six o'clock, and only then did she know that something had happened. Moreover, the physical function is good, see it is relieved, it should be no big deal, but she is very happy to see us, we are her mother's family, she cried and said, thinking that I will never see us again, as soon as I heard this, my tears came out... Thank you so much for her care for me! I hope that her children will take care of her more, and will live longer than her mother in the future (103). Life is really a lot of times, have to face alone... For example, aunts, such as many elderly people who have lost their wives. Old, sick, with no one to take care of, unimaginably desolate! I vividly remember seeing an old man on the street on crutches who moved step by step to the vegetable market to buy vegetables, and I didn't know how much time it would take and how tired. My heart was very uncomfortable. Some people, the family takes good care of, such as my grandmother, although there is also brain degeneration, but the family still takes good care of, otherwise, really dare not think. There is also a movie that I just watched, "Still Alice", a college professor, only in her fifties, with brain degeneration, and if she did not have the love of her family, she did not dare to imagine her future life... These, or all depend on luck. Yang Dai was glad that Qian Zhongshu had gone early, otherwise if he had left him, he would really not be sure what would happen to the incompetent children of life... Things are uncertain, who knows who can meet whom...