Good afternoon, Lao Yu recently saw such a rather lamentable news.
Mr. Zhao of Tengzhou, Shandong Province, happened to meet a homeless man while shopping, and he found that the man talked a lot, and out of curiosity he chatted with the homeless man.
Later, after many verifications, the tramp was Chang Xuefu, the leader of the 97th college entrance examination in Runan County, and graduated from Chinese University. He went to Weihai and Beijing to work, and later started a business in Shanghai, engaged in computer service work.
Later, he gave up his company in Shanghai and returned to his hometown and began to start a fruit shop. During this period, she also got married and had children, and later divorced, and her daughter lived with her mother.
After half a life of ups and downs, he said he wanted to live a new life, pursue new beliefs, and then threw away his mobile phone and began to wander.
Facing the photographer's lens, he is very calm and says that he enjoys his current state.
Outside the camera, Chang Xuefu's family missed him very much and hoped that he could go home to see.
Some people say that Chang Xuefu's wandering is a choice to look down on the world after experiencing the ups and downs of life, and some people say that he is an act of escaping a frustrated life, and can only say that he respects blessings.
In fact, it is not uncommon for such high-quality students to finally "disappear into the crowd" story, once in Jianning County, Fujian Province, xiaoye, who was the winner of the college entrance examination, suddenly disappeared in the second year after being admitted to Zhejiang University, and neither went home nor continued to go to school.
Parents searched for a son for 10 years and finally found their son, at this time Xiaoye has been picking up scraps near the Hangzhou Railway Station for a long time, and the reason why he did not dare to go home was only that the final exam hung up several doors and did not dare to face his parents.
It sounds bizarre, but it's real news.
There is also Liu Qi, a graduate of Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics who once scored 645 points in the college entrance examination, who repeatedly went home and went home to eat the old for 9 years after graduation, and was almost sent to a mental hospital by his parents.
People always have to learn to grow up, these once proud children, when they face failure after escaping the comfort zone of the school, they all choose to retreat, and even it is difficult to support themselves, pitiful and sad.
In addition to the reasons for the old parents' own reasons, the attitude of the parents is also a certain influencing factor.
These children have learned well from an early age, and in the first 20 years of growth, they have been praised by everyone, and parents have also regarded their children as hopes for the future, hoping to change their fate and get out of poverty. When children enter society and find that sometimes failure is the norm, they simply withdraw.
Instead of letting the child become the "hope of the whole village", it is better to let the child become "his own hero". The hero is not allowed to fail, but can stand up firmly after failure. It is not a perfect child who is considered the pride of his parents, and he is not a hero who stands in the light.
There was a boy who was a "special hero."
"Born bare-handed and empty-handed, why fear the pain of adversity," is a sentence written by Yang Mengheng on social platforms.
He is well known, perhaps for his 18 years of motivational speeches, or perhaps for the video of him walking in a Cambridge University bachelor's uniform.
When he was 7 years old, Yang Mengheng was stripped of his arms by the high-voltage electricity of the voltage apparatus while playing in the countryside.
As his body slowly recovered, he sensed that everything around him had changed, and he could not take care of himself even the most basic walking.
At this time, the most painful thing was his parents, who knew that if they did not do something some time soon, the pain would become hundreds of times more passed on to their son.
The parents began to try to let Xiao Yang Mengheng write with his feet, and no matter what, he had to let the children learn how to survive.
At first, he couldn't write a few words and wanted to give up because his ankles and toes were sore.
The mother did not urge him not to scold him, but silently took off her shoes and socks and picked up her pen to practice with the child.
Toes cramping and blood blistering are the norm, and it is normal to wait until the scab is over and over again.
After being discharged from the hospital, Yang Mengheng began to attend primary school. His life has begun [Top Hardmode]
Because he has no arms, he will be ridiculed by his peers, dare not bother others, and go to the toilet to go home.
But he also began to appreciate his parents forcing him to write with his feet, because many of the children in the class did not write as well as he wrote with his feet.
Slowly, Yang Mengheng was able to walk steadily, but the family felt that it was not enough to walk, and the parents began to consciously exercise their son's physical fitness.
At the age of 11, Yang Mengheng joined the Kunming Disabled Athletics Team after two years of independent training.
At the age of 14, he was already able to run 56 seconds in the 400-meter event.
However, due to the IAAF's change of rules soon after, Yang Mengheng's level of competition was cancelled, and he was no longer eligible to participate.
Later, he changed to swimming, countless times choking, thousands of sit-ups a day Yang Mengheng insisted on coming over, but the fate was ruthlessly tricked, the 2007 Paralympic Games was also a crucial Olympic selection competition, a month before the game he injured his right foot affected the state, and finally participated in the competition with an injury, the sixth in the country.
This devastated him, and he was decadent for many months...
His parents once again stood up and pushed him, and when the athlete's path did not work, he changed the most solid path - to continue to go back to school after retiring.
Yang Mengheng, who returned to school, scored the bottom of the whole grade in the first exam, and his English score was only 20 points.
He was not willing to let go of the opportunity to study, and studied desperately.
After half a year of bad supplementation, the English score rose to 120, from the third to the bottom of the whole grade to the third in the grade.
In the 2010 college entrance examination, he scored well in answering questions with his feet, and became a liberal arts champion in Yiliang County, Yunnan Province, and was admitted to Sun Yat-sen University. He himself joked that it was the biggest victory in his life in 19 years.
Accidentally lost both arms, wanted to become an athlete helpless to retire, wrote with his feet to become a county leader... The sufferings and setbacks encountered in the past 19 years have become the sharp edge for Yang Mengheng to continue to cut through thorns in the future.
After walking out of the small county through the college entrance examination, Yang Mengheng found that people with better conditions than himself and working harder than himself abounded.
During his college years, he gave more than 300 speeches, using his personal experience to encourage more people to obtain the qualification of Yunnan University and continue to study. At the same time, while studying, I quietly saved up money to study abroad.
In 2016, Yang Mengheng, who had saved enough tuition, went to Cambridge for further study. In 2018, he successfully graduated and married his girlfriend who had been in love for many years.
Yang Mengheng is unfortunate and lucky, and his parents have insisted on planting him the seed of "anti-setback" from the beginning, which has taken root and sprouted in more than 20 years.
He recalled that when he was a child, when he was reluctant to make any attempts, his father took him to the steepest slope nearby, where there was not much to walk, full of shrubs and trees, and his father carried him and dragged him all the way to the top of the mountain. Just like this, his father encouraged him to become an athlete, to study in a different place, to live his own life.
"The sky can't always be dark, it will always be bright", this boy who lost his arms, with his own efforts and persistence, walked out of the shackles brought to him by disability and became his own hero.
Yang Mengheng's parents gave their children the education to encourage him to accompany him in the face of setbacks, don't give up, stick to it to find their own way, and teach children how to survive and how to stand on their own.
Praise for such parents, but also for Yang Mengheng's courage and struggle!