01.
Gu Yan said: You have to believe that in this world, there will be so-called "soul mates".
He resonates with you on the same frequency, he is separated from you, but one day he will meet.
Suddenly remembered, a dating software a few years ago, the name is called soul.
On this software, you don't know what the other person looks like, you don't know the identity of the other person.
Just because of a few labels, random matching, you can find the person with similar souls.
If a soul mate really exists, he should be someone you can talk to.
In the movie "Mr. and Mrs. Smith", Smith and his lover are actually undercover.
The main reason why the original opposites can become husband and wife is that there are many common topics between the two people.
They know each other's work and emotions too well, so they naturally become each other's soul mates.
In fact, a person's life is so long, if you can't live with someone who can talk about it, then what is the point?
Choosing a soul mate is an important thing, and the first step is to determine whether the other person is your soul mate.
Interacting with people is nothing more than talking and chatting.
Then the person who talks for a while and makes your heart move may really be destined for him.
So, the soul mate that moves you can see it from the chat.
02.
"Soul mate," as it literally means, wants to understand your soul.
What does a person's soul look like?
The question is very abstract, if figuratively:
On the one hand, it refers to the personality of the individual, and on the other hand, it refers to the person's three views.
Two people with similar personalities, their interests in the most likely thing will be the same.
And the topic of discussion, there is more common language.
Two people with the same three views often have a lot of recognition for each other, so they can talk about a piece in all aspects.
In the entertainment industry, Chen Kun and Zhou Xun are a pair of soul mates.
Although the two have a lot of gossip, they still communicate innocently.
In an interview, the two people cooperated very tacitly, and they clearly understood each other's likes and dislikes.
Today, although they are not together;
But still a soul mate, keeping the right distance and living a life of contentment.
Therefore, people with similar personalities and the same three views will confirm that the other party is their soul mate in every word.
03.
When talking to a soul mate, it always feels very moving.
An important reason is that the two can resonate with each other.
There is also such an effect in psychology called the "familiarity effect."
That is to say, people are often very fond of familiar people and things.
In this way, when you chat with someone with a similar personality, you will inexplicably have a sense of familiarity.
It is also the guiding effect of this sense of familiarity that makes your heart move.
For soul mates, familiarity is the most normal feeling.
When you're with him, you'll even feel like you've known him for a long time.
Just like in the TV series "Qing Yu Nian", Fan Xian and the "chicken leg girl" Lin Wan'er identified each other when they first met.
They simply asked and answered, and they were very compatible.
After solving the misunderstanding, the two sides were even more excited.
It's not just that chatting makes each other more intimate, but also that familiarity brings the two closer together.
So, when you have someone you're interested in, try talking to him more.
If you are in the process of chatting, you can't help but be impressed by each other.
That means that the two of you are likely to be each other's soul mates.
04.
Finding your soul mate is not an easy task.
Sometimes, it's up to you to feel.
Feelings, feelings, are themselves emotions that move because of feelings.
Therefore, after chatting for a while, you will feel that he is often the soul mate you are looking for.
As the saying goes, "It takes no effort to step on an iron shoe and find nowhere to go."
To find a soul mate, it is necessary to spread outward from one's own circle.
After all, familiarity is the person who is closer to himself.
Her girlfriend has been single for many years, and she always hopes to find her true soul mate.
Her family advised her to give up such ideas and find someone to live with.
But Xiao Xiao only believes in love, and she always believes that there will be a soul mate.
After several years of going around, gradually giving up, and just this year a member of the opposite sex appeared, attracting a small eye.
Men don't stand out much, but when chatting with Little One, it always makes her feel very attractive.
Xiao Xiao was fascinated by him, that is, he found his own soul mate.
So soul mates do exist.
All you need to do is wait for him, accompany him, and feel this true and steady love.
All in all, the soul mate is the one who keeps your heart pounding in the process of chatting.
He will talk to you and imagine the future, but everything is related to you.
He gives you so much familiarity and security that you're obsessed with him and everything is moving.
Perhaps such a being is the true soul mate.
At the end of the day, everyone will encounter the half of their destiny.
Whether you are a true soul mate or not, know how to cherish.