Some people are very eager for love, and the way they express love is also very warm and straightforward, hating that everyone can't know their love.
But some people are introverted, and before those unclear emotions can find the exact direction and reason, they will be able to control themselves, and they do not want to make a wrong choice because of a momentary impulse.
Because you can live a good life alone, don't make up two people, so that the days will only get worse and worse.
Such people are very cautious and have a very serious attitude towards love, but people who are in love are often unable to see clearly.
Many times, starting with their deliberate avoidance, it means that they have already "deviant" and are no longer friends.
Office romance is a taboo thing in many units, for Xiao Zhang, it is really not easy to find the job he has now, although it is not a great group, but it is very stable, he is very satisfied and cherished.
The company does not explicitly stipulate that colleagues cannot be together, but from the perspective of the attitude of superior leaders, this situation is still not very welcome.
Because not long after he arrived, his superior asked Qin Jie to help take him, although Xiao Zhang had a Qin sister, in fact, the other party was only two years older than him.
The personalities of the two are very different, Xiao Zhang is somewhat introverted and shy, while Qin Jie is enthusiastic and lively, a bit of a feeling of whimpering.
Usually there is nothing to joke about Xiao Zhang, saying that he is not old and old, but he is very serious at work, and he also pours out his money, Xiao Zhang is very grateful for this, so sometimes, he will bring her a milk tea, and occasionally the two of them will have a meal together.
The company is so big in total, usually the little thing between who and whom, basically can't hide the next day, so everyone will also see all this in their eyes.
At a company dinner, everyone teased the two people about these things, joking that Sister Qin's old cow ate tender grass, and Sister Qin was not angry, but on the topic of others, they said that they had eaten what they were eating, and they didn't have to eat it.
Having said that, both of them also realized that they might really get closer to each other, especially Xiao Zhang, who would deliberately keep a distance from Sister Qin in the company.
Sister Qin did not take the initiative to chat with him as before, and nothing seemed to change between the two sides, but it was as if everything had changed.
Originally, I thought that such a life was what I wanted, but after a long time, Xiao Zhang felt that something was wrong everywhere, and it seemed that something was missing.
He didn't know why he was so depressed, he wasn't interested in anything, even if his brother told him to play games, he didn't want to go.
Until he saw the roses on Qinjie's table that day, he suddenly felt sad and lost, only to find that he had already unconsciously fallen in love with Qinjie.
People are like this, once they fall in love, they will be led by love by the nose, Xiao Zhang can no longer manage anything else, and confessed to QinJie that night, and Qinjie also accepted.
As for the roses, it was not given to Sister Qin by others, it was given to her girlfriend by Sister Qin, but fortunately, thanks to this bouquet of roses, the two of them broke the last layer of window paper, and the lovers eventually became dependents.
In fact, things like this in life are not uncommon, and many people will realize the intimacy of their relationship with each other because of their jokes before their feelings are clear.
But because they are not sure of their own and each other's intentions, they will deliberately avoid and distance themselves, but the more they do this, the more they can prove that they are no longer friends with each other.
If you really think of each other as friends and don't have any other ideas, then no matter what others say, everyone will not put it in their hearts.
Because you know that you are not moved at all, nor are you emotional, the so-called "body is not afraid of the shadow oblique", naturally will not be afraid of gossip.
On the contrary, it is precisely because their feelings for others are not as simple as friends, and complex feelings are not clear for a while and a half, they will want to deliberately avoid and worry about being seen through by others.
But to fall in love is to fall in love, it is impossible to deny their existence by avoidance and distance, and the most uncontrollable thing in this life is emotion.
If emotions can be controlled at will, then we can choose who we like and hate, and there will be no such idiots.
People have to be honest with themselves, love has no traffic lights, will not tell you when to go, when to stop, can only go with intuition and courage.
Maybe the road ahead will not be very smooth, and there may not be the result you want, but the process is beautiful and sweet, and love is sometimes more important than the process of experience.
If you simply abandon this process and want to continue under the premise of determining the outcome, then you lose the meaning of love and life becomes boring.
Although sometimes, love is only sad at the end, but when we recall many years later, it is these unfulfilled love that makes our lives sparkling and unforgettable.