Libra people tend to look more gentle and easy-going, and their hearts seem to be more hesitant, affected by many things, and it is undeniable that Libra is indeed a dexterous person.
However, they may not be so easily affected by others, they are actually cold in the bones, and at the same time the willpower is firm, it can be said that there are very few people who can really influence them, so let's go and understand it together.
01 Most people do not know that Libra's emotions are difficult to be influenced by others
Libra people are often a person with a clear mind and good at seeing through illusions, but their hearts or feelings seem to be a bit "slow and half-beat".
Because Libra is difficult to let themselves quickly go to the heart, they are a relatively cold person in the bones, therefore, in life or feelings, it may take a lot of enthusiasm or a long time to pay, in order to really touch their hearts, and even some people around them for a lifetime, may not let their cold, melt a little.
This is not a sensational thing, but to say that Libra itself is a person who has no desires and no needs, it is difficult to be particularly attached to something, they actually look at people and things relatively lightly, the so-called "people go tea cool".
They see the warmth and coldness of human feelings more thoroughly, which also stems from their ability to withdraw their feelings and maintain an objective posture, so Libra's emotions are difficult to be affected by people, and many things are not enough to shake their hearts.
If they are stable enough in their hearts, then no matter what the outside world says, they basically will not pay attention to their hearts, they love someone, they will be more obedient to their own hearts, even if many people are not optimistic, but they still have their own persistence.
In many things, Libra will not cling, but if one thing or one person enters the heart, they can easily get into it, but this is too rare.
Their coldness is not a kind of desperation, but an objectivity, a stable mentality, but if their hearts are dug into a small hole and a crack appears, then it is more "fatal".
02 Libra's mental stability, what are the embodiments?
1, can maintain a normal heart for anything, anyone
In fact, it is easy for Libra to maintain a normal heart, and they are not used to commenting on others behind their backs, or making blind statements about some things and judging them in vain.
This is not because Libra prefers to hide and speak and do things cautiously, but because they really don't pay special attention to it.
Many people and things are not enough to make them feel angry, excited, or happy, they can also start from the cause, to understand that everything has its objective laws, there is nothing to care about, this kind of ordinary mind is not only their cultivation, but also a kind of wisdom.
2, good at "dodging" or transferring problems
Many times, Libra has a tendency to procrastinate, not because they are lazy, but because they think things very well, but like to wait and see.
In life, Libra is often good at avoiding or transferring problems, and when something happens, they are not in a hurry to solve it, or even just want to save themselves a little trouble, so that their hearts do not fall into trouble.
To this end, they will take the initiative to avoid some risks, or put some things "behind", temporarily replace with other things, they feel that many things, over time, naturally have a solution, and it can be said that they are a person who truly practices "the ship to the bridge is naturally straight".
3, the way to resist negative emotions is to backlog
Many times, the Libra mind has a tendency to be hindsighted, and they don't know where this feeling comes from for emotions and emotions, because they are used to backloging something rather than solving it.
They also rarely analyze the source of a certain feeling, and it has to be said that Libra is a rational and calm person on the outside, and an inevitable emotional person on the inside, but they do not like to let themselves fall into the emotional gain and loss.
Therefore, many of their feelings are like rootless grass, unable to find the source and direction, they will often be inexplicably sentimental, but not because of the current people and things, but the result of a long-term backlog.