I have played well with all kinds of girls since I was a child.
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The answer is no.
It's all just a sign that you're not interested in a particular female friend.
After getting along for a long time, one party will definitely have "crooked thoughts".
This then evolves into the following scenarios:
1. One party confesses, together, and has always loved each other
(Ideally, I haven't seen it yet)
2. One party confesses, together.
Love is selfish, it is demanding, and it is not as easy as ordinary friends.
Do ordinary friends are magnified advantages,
When couples are closer, they amplify the disadvantages.
Then start arguing, complaining to each other, disappointed, breaking up.
None of my friends had to do it.
3. One party confesses and is rejected.
Then it becomes the most familiar stranger.
4. One party confesses and is rejected.
Then the two politely said to continue to be friends.
But as soon as the window paper is broken, it will certainly not go back. Awkward, alienated.
Although there will still be contact, but the frequency will be lower and lower.
5. Two people one to kill not to say, one to pretend to be stupid to the end.
Do not cross the thunder pool one step. You can continue to be open friends.
It is easy to kill and not to be broken, and it does not take much effort to pretend to be stupid.
So.
When you meet someone you like, don't think about what to do first as an ordinary friend and then turn into a boyfriend and girlfriend.
Long operation time, high difficulty coefficient,
If you are moved by a person at the beginning, you must take the posture of falling in love to get along,
Heartwarming, hinting, ambiguity, holding hands, hugging, kissing...
And ordinary friends who are not moved, don't stick too tightly,
Keep your distance appropriately, play together,
If it shouldn't be there, don't look for something to stick together.
To put it bluntly, it is not to play ambiguous with ordinary friends of the opposite sex who are not moved,
Don't make everyone around you think you're in love
You two are also stupid enough to say that you are just friends, but in fact you have crossed the line.
Don't have large-scale physical contact. There is no pure friendship between men and women.
Either the friendship is good enough to become love,
Or one step away from love becomes ambiguous and then becomes dog blood,
Or just sustain it without confessing and one without debunking.
Either, the friendship is too shallow to develop into either of the above.
That's not really friendship, it's just friendship.
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I met a girl. Just start chatting,
I had an idea: "No matter who you are friends with in the future,
Or the relationship between male and female friends, in short, we can't turn into an awkward relationship.
It doesn't matter what kind of relationship with her, I definitely can't contact her abruptly anyway,
Scare people away, just keep in touch. ”
None of us had any ambiguous words, only the joy of communication.
She became my best friend.
Later she became my girlfriend.
I have a lot of female friends.
First of all, I will look at these female friends from the perspective of appreciating women,
Sometimes I will be more beautiful, good-looking, talented, and attractive.
But none of these female friends and my friendships could match my girlfriend's.
My best friend is my girlfriend.
Pure friendship between men and women occurs between male and female friends.
It was my girlfriend who purified my relationship with other female friends.
The thing I regret the most is that I was once with my best female friends.
Soon it was divided,
Being a friend and being a girlfriend are two completely different concepts,
So I advise you to think twice.
I've heard a saying that is —
Our mutual dislike is the key to maintaining our friendship for many years
Recently, there has been a strong feeling that this is indeed the case.
There's a movie called When Harry Meets Sally.
It explores whether there is pure friendship between men and women.
Personally, I used to think that there was pure friendship between men and women.
After watching the movie, I was very impressed with one of the lines.
I can't remember the original words,
The gist is "we are not attracted to people we consider unattractive".
Ordinary friends don't talk about it. If it's a real good friend,
Then there must be something attractive to you in her/him,
There must also be something in you that attracts him/her.
Two people appreciate each other's special points and have a good feeling for each other.
That's why they become good friends. And whether it will/can develop into a romantic relationship,
That has to do with a lot of factors. But this friendship is still impure,
Neither side has any idea at all.
So I don't think there's such a thing as pure friendship between men and women
Why am I against people in love and friends of the opposite sex
Keeping excessively frequent and individual contacts?
It's not because I think so dirty.
I believe that there is pure friendship between men and women,
But between pure friendship and making love,
Often the difference is only a few glasses of wine,
A quarrel with the incumbent, a lonely holiday...
So after falling in love,
Please consciously keep your distance from friends of the opposite sex who are "pure friendship",
Truly pure friends of the opposite sex,
It is also impossible to understand the concession of this friendship to love.
One kills to death, one pretends to be stupid to the end,
That's it.