The variety show "Brother With Thorns" has attracted much attention since it was broadcast, especially led by the brothers in the "Greater Bay Area", and the laughter has been praised by netizens.
Many people were warmed by Huang Guanzhong's seriousness and sense of responsibility for the stage after watching the show. Huang Guanzhong, I believe everyone is familiar with him, the lead guitarist and lead singer of the rock band Beyond.
Of course, he also has an identity, that is, Zhu Yin's husband.
After the two broke out together that year, they were not optimistic by many people, and even the Hong Kong media once called this relationship Zhu Yin's "marriage".
In fact, not only the media, but even Huang Guanzhong himself thinks so. He once bluntly said on a variety show that he did not deserve Zhu Yin.
And why everyone, including Huang Guanzhong, would have such a thought, probably because Zhu Yin was really beautiful back then. In that era when there was no beauty and no Ps, Zhu Yin's purity and agility can be said to be a goddess in the minds of a generation.
Someone on Zhihu once asked, why can Huang Guanzhong marry Zhu Yin?
Someone gave a sweeping but accurate answer:
1, you have good character
2, you have a certain potential, that is, the attitude to work
3. Respect for women
Whenever talking about Huang Guanzhong, Zhu Yin's face always hides happiness, some people think that Huang Guanzhong looks ugly, she immediately retorts and confesses: "I feel that he is super handsome"; someone asked Huang Guanzhong whether he is the hero in your heart, and she certainly did not hesitate.
Someone asked, why did you marry Huang Guanzhong? Zhu Yin said the sentence that poked herself, and I don't know how many people broke through the defense in an instant:
"He made me feel dignified."
Many people don't quite understand what self-awareness is.
Consciously noble, it is the love of the other party that makes you feel that you are so beautiful and you deserve to be loved.
At the end of the three-year underground relationship with Xingye, Zhu Yin at that time understood that "smart women, of course, still choose to love themselves more." ”
When she met Huang Guanzhong and chose to be together for a lifetime, Zhu Yin at that time understood, "Not hiding is to have dignity and enough love." ”
Wrong love often makes people humble and cowardly, low to dust, and even lose themselves; but a good relationship, on the contrary, it can really bring warmth and bravery to people, and in an instant, it bursts out the most powerful force. Even, lingshi favored her.
Zhu Yin has always been the TOP1 of Huang Guanzhong. Huang Guanzhong said, "I have to work very hard, because I am not very lucky, and all my luck is used to meet Zhu Yin." ”
Zhu Yin has always been wrapped in Huang Guanzhong's emotional value, which has brought her a very real feeling of love, so she has the courage to say that women look in the mirror to see if they are beautiful or not, and they know that they are happy or unhappy. And she is the one who has been exaggerated more and more beautiful.
So Zhu Yin said: "If I go back to the age of 20, I will definitely go to my husband Huang Guanzhong first." ”
Many girls are willful and sensitive, in fact, not temperamental, just a layer of their own protective color. They are afraid of putting into the truth but being disappointed, afraid of using all their strength is only regret.
There's a confession in When Harry Meets Sally: "I love that you'll catch a cold in the warm weather, and I love that you'll have to spend an hour ordering." ”
Watching Edward Scissorhands many years ago, I also heard the best feelings: "I love you not because of who you are, but who I can be in front of you." 」 ”
Between liking and loving, what crosses is a process of acceptance. People who like you value your strengths, but people who love you are willing to accept your shortcomings.
You have to believe that there is always someone who can see the real and lovely you, and he will say to you, "Just be yourself, I like your temper." ”
You are you anyway.
There will always be someone who will like you completely.
In this world, there is always a person who will spend a lot of good luck just by meeting him.
But you see, one day, it will still be returned to you in another way.
I want you to be with people like this: because you are pampered, you feel extremely noble.