Amin and Ah Hua have only been married for half a year, and it is reasonable to say that the honeymoon period has not yet passed, but recently they have a small quarrel for two days and a big quarrel for three days, and the marriage is like a boat in the wind and waves, fluctuating. The reason is that Ah Hua often chatted happily with male girlfriends on WeChat, and once went out with male girlfriends for a day trip. Of course, Amin can't tolerate it, but Ah Hua said: You are so busy at work, there is no time to accompany me, my male girlfriend can accompany me to chat and relieve boredom, go out and protect me, I am only mentally related to him, and we have not crossed the line.
Is there really a pure friendship between Ah Hua and the male girlfriend?
After Lu Xiaoman and Wang Geng got married, Wang Geng was very busy at work and did not have time to take care of Lu Xiaoman, who lived his life alone every day. So Wang Geng introduced Xu Zhimo to Lu Xiaoman, so that when Lu Xiaoman was bored, someone could talk and chat with her. Wang Geng also did not expect that Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo had been together for a long time, and their feelings grew wildly like weeds, and the two people quickly changed from friends to "girlfriends", from girlfriends to lovers. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman came together in this way, and Wang Geng and Lu Xiaoman divorced and became passers-by.
Just like in the movie "When Harry Meets Sally", when Harry and Sally first communicate, they begin to discuss whether there is a "pure opposite-sex friend." At the end of the discussion, Harry said, "There is no such thing as a friend of the opposite sex, either you want to sleep with each other, or you just use each other as a spare tire." ”
Theoretically, a male girlfriend is a very close male friend who girls talk about, and can chat and play together, but they are not lovers. But Lao Liu believes that there is no pure friendship between men and women, even if there is friendship, it will eventually become a lover, and some people just borrow the name of male girlfriends to engage in a grandiose affair. Lao Liu advised the sisters not to find any male girlfriends, so as not to affect the harmony and stability of society. Of course, the husband can not be busy with work every day, often drinking and eating outside, and ignoring the presence of the wife.
Male girlfriend, if you can exist like a god, can take the initiative to reject those desires that cross the line, and clean yourself, then naturally it is another matter.
Male girlfriends can give girls warmth
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But the husband does not approve of the male girlfriend