After Anna's emotions are out of control – Anna's inner growth

Although Xuan Xuan is only a second-grade girl, her weekends are very busy due to her parents' problems. Even now with the "double subtraction" is very busy.

Yesterday was Sunday, and after she got up at eight o'clock in the morning, she began to complete some punch-in homework at nine o'clock and prepare for what she would learn next week. At 12:30 p.m., she attended a rehearsal (ad hoc event, which was supposed to be her nap at this time) for two hours. After that, she took a weekly dance class and spent more than two hours of intense intensity.

In addition, Xuan Xuan usually sleeps late at night, and the seven-and-a-half-year-old child sleeps less than nine hours a day. As a mother, I was very worried about her body, so I discussed with Stone, the father, that I would take a leave of absence if I wanted to take an interest class at the art teacher's house at night. Stone says I think so too. As a result, I took a leave of absence from the teacher so that she could adjust at night, review her homework a little more, and then go to bed early, most importantly, to sleep a little more.

Xuan Xuan had learned so much, although she was very tired, but she liked it all. Especially painting, we lied to her teacher that she had something to do today and couldn't go to class. You rest once in the evening. Otherwise, after she finished class, at 8:30 p.m., she helped the teacher clean up, and at 8:45 p.m., Stone also occasionally took Xuan Xuan to a small supermarket, returned home at 9 o'clock at night, and then packed her bags, checked her homework, took a bath, and slept until more than ten o'clock. The cycle of life is definitely not good for the growth of second-grade children.

Xuan Xuan heard me say that he was not happy not to go to class. Especially when she heard that she couldn't go to the supermarket, she was very unhappy. Before I took Xuan Xuan home, I confirmed with Stone again, so that he would tell the child directly that he would not go to class or go to the supermarket, otherwise there would be no point in asking for leave.

When he got home, Xuan Xuan pestered Stone and said that he was going to the supermarket. Stone unequivocally rejects Xuan Xuan and drags her along. At one point, xuan xuan said that he was moving, telling me that he planned to take her to the supermarket and go back quickly. I was actually instantly moved, but considering Xuan Xuan's sleep, I still refused!

As a result, Xuan Xuan refused to cooperate with doing anything else, and I began to criticize them a little out of control. Because Stone is a peer, I can only focus on criticizing Xuan xuan. Then Stone couldn't see me treating Xuan Xuan like this, and quarreled with me again. The scene was chaotic for a while...

Xuan Xuan was heartbroken to see Stone treat me like this, and began to "criticize" Stone again. I thought of parents arguing so much about their children's education, and I chose silence. Stone listened to Xuan Xuan's analysis, and then communicated and reflected with Xuan Xuan.

After that, I chose to give up spending time with my children and lay in bed by myself. Xuan Xuan quickly packed up his school bag, took a shower, slipped into my quilt, and carried me to sleep. It was 8:30 p.m. Xuan Xuan slept until seven o'clock the next morning.

And I don't like to argue with Stone in front of my children, get out of control, and feel that I am not a good mother, a good role model. But at that time, I didn't control myself, I felt sad and guilty. But I just lost my temper at that time, and I wanted to take care of my emotions, just didn't want to be a good mother.

Stone, as xuanxuan said it, was said by me, and felt that it was not right for him to be indecisive, and it was not right to lose his temper with me. After that, it kept coaxing me.

What am I trying to say about this? It's actually a change in my heart.

(Assuming a child beats up a parent, will the parents still be able to hold the child in fifteen minutes?) No, so children love their parents more)

In fact, I have another reason, these two days because of my mother's body, the mood has been bad, very irritable. So

Is this the end of it? No. The next evening, our couple took my mother and Xuan Xuan to the school to pick up Xuan Xuan from school. Then we went to a special ramen restaurant for a quick dinner, and took Xuan Xuan to a small supermarket. Because everyone is in a bad mood, they are all scattered. In addition, since we know that the child loves her parents so much, we still have to make up for the child's hurt heart, meet her careful wish to go shopping, and let her feel the love of her parents for her.

Maybe I'm not a good mom, but I'm willing to learn and change. I believe that every study, every reflection will help me and my family!

In fact, in this story, there is a lot of privacy (because Stone is engaged in legal work, for security reasons, he does not like me to disclose too much privacy, but he also respects my decision), we also have a lot of shortcomings, not as good as everyone thinks, and even some negative energy. But I still want to share it with you, because if you can find resonance in the story and feel the changes in growth, then my sharing will make sense!

Let's cheer each other on the road to becoming competent parents!