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Do men who cheat in marriage love Xiao San? This question has always been discussed, but there has never been a standard answer.
Some people say that they don't love, because if they really love, why don't they want to divorce and marry her? Some people say love, because if there is no love, there will be no little three. Some people argue that you see how good he is to his extramarital lover, there are endless love words every day, and it is to give money, and to meet various needs, if you do not love, how can you do it?
According to me, the cheating man is very selfish, and he always wants to satisfy his own selfish desires. There is a wife at home who takes care of everything, takes care of the children, cleans up the house, lets him struggle without worries, and when he is tired, he will have hot rice and hot dishes when he comes home, how good.
However, just having a wife and children hot kiln head, but also can not satisfy his desires, not to mention with his wife for a long time, there is no passion at all. So in order to satisfy his desire for passion, he cheated on his wife behind his back.
Zhang Ailing said in "Red Roses and White Roses": "Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two." Married to a red rose, over time, the red became a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, the white is still 'the bright moonlight in front of the bed'; married to the white rose, the white is a rice stick on the clothes, and the red is a cinnabar mole on the heart. ”
When he married the red rose home, he was always worried about the white moonlight that he could not get. The difference is that some people just keep it in mind, while others turn him into an extramarital lover. Here is enough to see the selfishness and greed of men.
A woman who is a little third for a married man, as long as she moves her heart, she will always wonder whether this man loves himself or not, how much he loves. While they believe that the other person loves themselves, they can't help but doubt it. Since you love, why don't you divorce and marry yourself?
What are men who cheat in marriage thinking? How much do they love Little Three? There's a movie that perfectly illustrates the dark side of a cheating man's heart, and it's called "The End of the Race."
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"The End of the Race" is a movie starring the widow Scarlett, in which she is a frequently frustrated actress Nora, she loves acting, but repeated auditions failed, so life is very gray.
The male protagonist, Chris, like her, has great ambitions in her heart, but she is always joked by fate. Although fate closed a door for them, it opened a window for them, and they were each looked at by a pair of rich brothers and sisters.
But because neither of them came from very good backgrounds, it was a bit difficult to integrate into such a rich family, and Chris was fine, because tennis was well played and very popular. Nora is more miserable, she is not liked by her boyfriend's mother, and she has been trying to break up.
Chris is with his girlfriend Chloe, but is fascinated by Nora's sexiness, he finds various opportunities to hook up with her, and the two secretly have an underground romance.
In the end, Chris married Chloe and lived a life of glory and wealth. Nora, on the other hand, was forced to break up. Chris got married and always had a crush on Nora, and when they met by chance, they were together again.
Chris is very infatuated with Nora, and every day he will squeeze out some time to meet with her privately, and he is absent-minded about his wife. He enjoyed the life until Nora got pregnant and he wanted her to beat the baby off while she insisted on giving birth. He immediately changed his face, and the man who had once been gentle and affectionate to Nora was gone.
Nora forced him to divorce and marry her, and he did not want to divorce Croy at all, even if the life with her was very plain and passionate, he did not want to divorce, he did not want to lose this rich life.
When he was forced to be anxious, he actually killed her directly, the woman he said he loved, he killed her so cruelly.
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The film shows the dark side of a man who plays with extramarital affairs naked.
While enjoying the high society life brought by his wife's family, he complained to his lover that his wife had no passion and only wanted to get pregnant and have children, and he was very unhappy with her.
This is the true idea of many men who play with extramarital affairs, they have a lot of dissatisfaction with their wives, but they enjoy the stable life that the other party brings to themselves, let their bodies have a place to live, and then go outside to find passion.
The women outside always bring a sense of freshness, because there is no need to live with each other, just need to take a little time to date each other every day to satisfy physical desires. For them, the extramarital lover is a snack outside the meal, and they don't need to eat it all the time, and they feel very satisfied when they eat occasionally.
They are not satisfied with their wives, but they have never thought of divorce, because they are selfish, they want both red roses and white roses, and they just want to maintain the balance between family and extramarital affairs.
As long as there are no accidents, they will continue to live like this. But it is difficult to maintain a balance in this relationship, because women outside of marriage will not be satisfied with this, they will want more and more, want more time today, and want marriage tomorrow. When she starts wanting marriage, the balance he craves is upset.
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Breaking the balance between them is that Nora is pregnant, because she has had a fetus before, so she cherishes the arrival of this child, and she only wants to marry Chris quickly and let the child give birth smoothly.
It's just a pity that the lover's pregnancy is the mirror of the cheating man, no matter how good he is to you usually, how much he loves you with his mouth, you know that he is a man or a ghost when you are pregnant.
Nora must have imagined that a person she trusted so much could be so selfish and cowardly, that she just wanted a marriage and that she would be killed.
After Nora's death, Chris is called to the police station as a suspect, and he tries to get rid of his relationship with Nora, claiming that the promise he once promised was Nora's fantasy alone. When I saw this, I felt very ridiculous, this is the real face of a cheating man after the adultery was revealed, and he was not even willing to admit his relationship with the other party.
Most women who are lovers of married men fantasize about the other party being able to divorce, fantasize about the other party coming to marry themselves, and take themselves to a beautiful new life.
In their eyes, this man is so perfect, how much he loves himself, how happy it would be if he could be with him forever, get married, and have children.
But they never thought that since he would betray his wife today, he would one day betray them as well. Don't feel that you are the special one, don't feel how much the other party loves you, you never know what kind of ghost idea this selfish man is playing in his heart, this is the most terrible place.
Men who play extramarital affairs, which is so good. I think everyone should think differently, if he is really so good, why would he betray his wife and do something to hurt each other? From here, it can already be seen that this man is actually very scummy and very bad.
Girls, cherish life, starting with staying away from married men.
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Illustrations in the text | Stills from "The End of the Race"