Some people say that "women are emotional animals, men are rational animals", I believe many people agree with this statement, so the relationship between men and women is easy to diverge. Earlier, a female gentleman posted in the media platform discussion board about her difficulties with her boyfriend, she said that she was originally a person with no sense of security, very much in need of boyfriend initiative care, but unfortunately not long after the relationship encountered the epidemic, she and my boyfriend are relying on telephone information communication. Girls like to talk about the phone, but every time they call their boyfriends, because the other party's noise is very heavy, it is suspected that there is a problem with the headphones, and the boys have repeatedly indicated that they do not like to talk, the two gave up the phone chat and have only used information to contact.
The girlfriend network said that every time she feels wronged, she will also want to talk to her boyfriend on the phone, and just want the boy to simply coax her a few words, but every time he will not comfort her. "Whenever I'm hurt or sad and want to go to him for comfort, he'll just talk about things or laugh at me. It's like I'm wearing new shoes and my heels are worn out, and my boyfriend's reply is, "It's an exaggeration! Is it a greenhouse flower?' She also revealed that her boyfriend not only did not have a word of comfort, but also often felt that she had a problem, and often said that "I just won't comfort others." The boyfriend also said evil words from time to time: "This situation is caused by you, do you want to comfort you to say less next time?" 」 But the girl did not fight back, and even continued to beg for her boyfriend's comfort: "I know it's my fault, but I'm sad now because of my own fault." 」 But the boyfriend actually asked rationally: "Next time do you want to remind?"
The girlfriend posted several screenshots of the message with the boyfriend, saying that she had explained to the boyfriend that she was very sad to be bullied, but the boyfriend actually replied that it was fun to bully her, but the girl stressed that she had always missed her boyfriend and hoped to ask the other party out when the epidemic slowed down, but the boyfriend did not care at all, and indicated that he was lazy and did not want to go out. At present, the girl does not want to break up, and how to run into it, so she asked the netizens on the discussion board if they could provide some suggestions, which caused everyone to discuss hotly, and unanimously disagreed with the boyfriend's statement.
Some online friends said: "This is not like a boyfriend at all, like a male friend." Don't break up yet, I really can't stand it, I feel like you're having fun too! Some netizens also pointed out that they could not see that the boyfriend was rational at all, thinking that there were many different ways of talking, and it was very problematic to use such a way of speaking, and suggested that girls should take the initiative to break up. Some online friends sympathized with the girlfriend's suffering, leaving a message saying that "new shoes grinding feet are inevitable, what is the relationship with greenhouse flowers?" What does it have to do with right and wrong? Although you are not planning to break up now, it is still recommended that you break up, after all, what he can give and what you want looks like there is a gap, and may not be able to run for a long time", praised by many netizens.
In addition, some netizens believe that the boyfriend is not rational, but white-eyed, a person who does not understand the situation, does not recognize and talks randomly, but also pretends to be smart, and unanimously believes that there is a problem with the man's character. Many netizens bluntly said that they saw that his girlfriend was still angry with him and seemed helpless, and everyone thought that the girlfriend should not associate with him anymore, because the situation would only become worse. There are also online friends who said that they have also had such a boyfriend, and only after breaking up did they get real happiness, calling on the landlord to break up as soon as possible.
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