Many people ask: "During the relationship, should I spend my boyfriend's money?" ”
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Xiao Li is 27 years old, graduated from graduate school, and works as a staff member in the company; Xiao Hu is 23 years old and still in graduate school. It's been a year and a half together.
The two got along quite happily at first, but the boyfriend was very picky and always loved to keep accounts, because this matter often contradicted.
The two are still classmates, both majoring in science and engineering. However, Xiao Li's major is biased towards mathematics, is sensitive to numbers, and likes to get pleasure in bookkeeping.
At first, Xiao Li would take the initiative to spend money when chasing Xiao Hu; but after determining the relationship, his girlfriend always took the initiative to ask for money to buy things.
Although Xiao Li will buy it for his girlfriend, he has a habit: he loves to keep accounts.
He likes to write down every expense, even if it's just 1 dollar of water.
This made Xiao Hu feel very uncomfortable: thinking that her boyfriend was just slamming the door, feeling very stressed, and whether she planned to keep all the expenses in mind and settle accounts later.
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Once I wanted to eat potato chips, I originally wanted my boyfriend to buy a bag, but the other party calculated that after most of the day there, he thought it was more cost-effective to buy a large bag;
When we went on a trip together, we wanted to buy a bottle of mineral water, but my boyfriend calculated that it was cost-effective to buy a large bottle. So the two climbed the mountain, and the boyfriend carried 3 liters of mineral water alone.
Xiao Li felt that her boyfriend was too picky and felt very faceless. And coupled with her parents' opposition to the field, she was also a little shaken.
Because she is an only child, everyone in the family lets herself, and usually what she wants at home will be satisfied, and the boyfriend should also do it, spending some money is normal.
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Xiao Li felt very wronged, he had just come out to work for a year, and he did not want to ask for money from his family, so he wanted to be frugal.
Keep down every account, so you know where to spend your money, so you can plan. And he didn't treat his girlfriend badly.
For Xiao Li: he likes this feeling of saving money, which makes him feel happy, rather than slamming the door.
He also felt that there were some things about his girlfriend that made him very uncomfortable.
For example, in order to ask for money to buy new clothes, the girlfriend deceives the boyfriend and says: If the girlfriend wants to get married, she must go with the money;
On the day of 520, when I sent a red envelope to my girlfriend, because I didn't step on the whole point, even if I sent 520 yuan, my girlfriend was still very angry.
He felt that his girlfriend was not good at cheating, and he also felt that some things were too real and tired.
It was quite happy to take the initiative to give money to the girlfriend, but now that the girlfriend takes the initiative to ask for money, she feels that she is a passive expenditure.
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Falling in love always avoids the economy, should the girlfriend spend her boyfriend's money?
Regarding money, I think: it is better not to spend it.
Two people in love, if you want to get equal status in the relationship, even if you can't do personality independence, at least you must be financially independent.
Spend as much as you want, and don't spend what you can't afford.
Your position among lovers depends largely on your own state.
No one should pay for you, not even a boyfriend.
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Of course, there are also men who like to get into relationships with money.
For example: he may not have much time with you; he may not know how to chat and send money directly;
Even for him, he likes to spend money for you, and only when you "receive a gift" does it feel like you have not been rejected.
If your boyfriend likes to spend money for you: to prove his worth, or to express his heart for you.
He offers to spend money for you, which is acceptable.
In short, if you can't give the other party a certain future, it is not recommended to spend the other party's money, especially more expensive things.
It's one thing for the other person to be willing to spend money for you; it's another thing to reach out for money yourself. #Emotional Review Awards ##Emotion##情感事务所 #
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