Outside the operating room of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of Peking Union Medical College Hospital, a young man in his twenties stood in the doorway, pale and with tears in his eyes. Nurses passed by him and gave him sympathetic glances, knowing that his wife would most likely not be able to get out of the delivery room alive.
Finally, the man collapsed, he sat on the ground, holding his head and crying, crying while crying: "I said don't be born, if you leave, I will jump off the bridge." "What the hell is going on here?
Paralyzed at the age of nine, he was constantly improving himself
Tan Yiling was born on September 20, 1985 in Luchuan County, Yulin City, Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region. Tan Yiling is the first child in the family, so her parents have placed high hopes on her since she was a child.
Later, Tan Yiling's younger brother and sister were born, and as the eldest sister, she began to help her mother take care of her younger siblings very sensibly.
Tan Yiling was young, she was able to take care of her two younger siblings when her mother was out, and she could also finish the housework at home, and her parents were very pleased to see such a capable and sensible Tan Yiling.
Tan Yiling's younger siblings also like this sister very much, and the relationship between their three siblings is quite good.
When Tan Yiling was 7 years old, she often coughed and sneezed. Her parents thought Tan Yiling was sick with a cold and took her to a clinic in a small town near her home to get cold medicine.
However, the cold medicine was all eaten, and Tan Yiling's condition did not improve, she still coughed often, and even coughed up her throat.
Tan Yiling's parents felt that it was not a problem for the child to cough like this, so they took her to the pediatric department of the local county hospital for examination.
At that time, the medical level was not developed, and many medical equipment in the county hospital was not complete, so the doctors did not find the problems in Tan Yiling.com.
In desperation, Tan Yiling's parents can only find home remedies everywhere to treat cough. After a while, Tan Yiling did not cough anymore, and her parents were very happy.
Although Tan Yiling does not cough, she often feels chest tightness when she sleeps at night, and sometimes feels a bout of pain.
Tan Yiling felt that this might be the sequelae left by the intense exercise when playing with her younger siblings during the day, so she did not tell her parents about her physical condition.
Moreover, Tan Yiling felt that her parents had spent a lot of money and thought a lot for herself, and she didn't want to cause trouble for her parents anymore.
The sensible Tan Yiling insisted on this for 2 years. In the second grade of elementary school, Tan Yiling was 9 years old at this time, and the class organized a sports activity and asked the whole class to participate together.
When a group of children were bouncing around, the teacher keenly noticed that something was wrong with Tan Yiling, who was uncoordinated and struggled when she exercised.
Therefore, the teacher informed Tan Yiling's father and mother of Tan Yiling's situation and reminded them to take the child to the hospital for examination. Soon, Tan Yiling was taken by her parents to Luchuan County People's Hospital for a detailed examination.
After the doctor's diagnosis, Tan Yiling was diagnosed with a spinal cordoma, which would be life-threatening if it was found later. After Tan Yiling's parents heard about their daughter's situation, they cried bitterly and regretted that they did not pay more attention to their daughter.
The doctor told Tan Yiling's parents that Tan Yiling's condition was very serious, even if she had surgery, her body could not fully recover, her lower body would lose consciousness, and she could only lie in bed in the future.
Not only that, because it was discovered too late, Tan Yiling had to undergo another operation every two years until she fully recovered. In order to save their daughter's life, Tan Yiling's parents signed the surgery sheet after a short struggle.
Since then, Tan Yiling has only been paralyzed in bed, unable to take care of herself. Tan Yiling, who woke up, found that she had lost the ability to walk, and she was extremely negative for a while.
Later, with the encouragement of her parents and the company of her younger siblings, Tan Yiling was able to regain her strength. Because of physical reasons, Tan Yiling could not go to school again.
Lying in bed, she begged her parents to teach her to read, and even if she could not go to school, she could not be illiterate. Tan Yiling's parents feel that their daughter has finally found sustenance, so they will teach her to read and write whenever she has time.
Later, Tan Yiling's father bought her a wheelchair. Tan Yiling knew that her parents had broken their hearts for themselves, and their parents had already produced a lot of white hair on their heads.
In order not to worry her parents, Tan Yiling actively adapted to life in a wheelchair. Later, she even learned to sweep the floor, cook, and wash dishes in a wheelchair, all of which made her happy. She always did what she could and didn't let her family worry.
Origins, fight fakes meet love
In June 2008, Tan Yiling's sister was admitted to the Beijing Information Vocational and Technical College, and after graduation, she chose to stay in Beijing to work as a clerk in a foreign trade agency.
At that time, Tan Yiling was already twenty-three years old. She no longer wants to live under the protection of her parents, she wants to have a job to support herself, and Luchuan County is too small and has few job opportunities.
So she told her family that she wanted to go to Beijing with her sister. Tan Yiling's parents are worried about their children, so they have not let up.
Tan Yiling's sister was very supportive after knowing her sister's decision, and she took a special leave of absence to go home and promised her parents that she would take good care of her sister. At Tan Yiling's request, her parents finally relaxed.
After coming to Beijing, Tan Yiling learned that jobs are not easy to find. Tan Yiling has no academic qualifications and is physically handicapped, and many companies have turned her away.
By chance, the director of a TV show found Tan Yiling, hoping that she could come to participate in the recording, the remuneration was very rich, Tan Yiling was afraid of being deceived, and did not agree.
Later, the director came to her many times, and Tan Yiling agreed to see that the other party was so persistent. This show is dedicated to recording the lives of some special people, and the director team recorded Tan Yiling's unsuccessful job search experience.
Tan Yiling, who has experienced many failures, is not discouraged in the slightest, and continues to cast resumes while making money at the subway entrance.
Tan Yiling saw that her sister was busy at work, and also took the initiative to undertake all the housework, cooking rice and stir-frying, she took care of it, and her sister only needed to be responsible for rest after returning home.
After the broadcast of this show, many people were touched by Tan Yiling's spirit of self-improvement and positive optimism.
A small number of people think that Tan Yiling is putting on a show, just to gain fame, as Gao Yuan, who was selling at a company in Nanjing at the time, thought so.
Gao Yuan is the only child in the family, his parents are skilled workers, and his living conditions are relatively superior. After finishing college in Nanjing, he worked as a salesman in a company.
Because he can speak the Tao, his salary is very high every month. He is tall and handsome, and many girls have a good feeling for him, but Takabuchi is obsessed with making money and has no idea of falling in love at all.
After Gao Yuan saw Tan Yiling's program, she was very angry, and she thought that Tan Yiling had acted so actively in order to win the sympathy of the national audience.
Gao Yuan, who has just emerged from society, is full of enthusiasm and feels that it is necessary to expose Tan Yiling's deception. So, he took a few days off with the company and flew to Beijing.
After that, he found Tan Yiling's home according to the address left by Tan Yiling in the show. At that time, Tan Yiling happened to be at home, and she warmly invited Gao Yuan in.
The witty Gao Yuan did not tell Tan Yiling that he had come to fight fakes, he told Tan Yiling that he had watched her deeds on TV and admired her very much, so he wanted to come to understand her daily life.
Tan Yiling was very touched to hear Gao Yuan's words, and she felt that it was not easy for this person to come to Beijing from Nanjing to see herself, so she wanted to make a meal to entertain Gao Yuan.
Gao Yuan just wanted to see tan Yiling's cooking details, and followed her into the kitchen. Tan Yiling sat in a wheelchair, washing, cutting and stir-frying vegetables very smoothly, and this series of actions made Gao Yuan look confused.
Tan Yiling prepared four dishes and a soup for Gao Yuan, and Gao Yuan sat down at the dinner table at her warm invitation.
Takabuchi, who only cooks instant noodles, is impressed by the delicious meals made by Tan Yiling, who feels that Tan Yiling is just physically deficient and that he is disabled in life.
After that, he saw the whole process of Tan Yiling wiping the floor and washing clothes. He admired this self-reliant girl, and the idea of taking care of her for the rest of her life came to mind.
A few days later, he returned to Nanjing to quit his job, packed his bags and returned to Beijing. After coming to Beijing, Gao Yuan rented a house near Tan Yiling's home and found a new job selling.
After everything was done, he came to Tan Yiling's house again and told Tan Yiling about his heart. After Tan Yiling knew Gao Yuan's idea, she directly refused.
She felt that she had not read a book, that she was physically disabled, and that Takafuchi was a college student and the only child in the family, and that the two were not compatible at all.
Tan Yiling, who has low self-esteem, feels that Gao Yuan has the idea of taking care of herself out of complete sympathy, and after that, she becomes indifferent to Gao Yuan.
Caesarean section without anesthesia
Tan Yiling's coldness did not repel Gao Yuan. Gao Yuan knows that Tan Yiling will go to the subway station to set up a stall at night, so Gao Yuan will go to help Tan Yiling every night after work.
He would bring snacks to Tan Yiling every night, and would help her sell things, and when he wanted to close the stall, he would crouch down and clean up with her. Gradually, Tan Yiling was touched by his persistence and her attitude towards him became better and better.
At this time, Tan Yiling still did not dare to be with Gao Yuan, and she felt that she was not worthy of Gao Yuan in any way.
After Tan Yiling's friends learned about Gao Yuan's affairs, they also disapproved of it. Because of the opposition from all sides, Tan Yiling did not dare to accept Gao Yuan.
Gao Yuan still went to help her set up a stall after work, as always, and he was convinced that he could impress Tan Yiling. Tan Yiling bought some trinkets, which can be packed with a box.
Once, the two saw that there were no pedestrians on the side of the road, and they were ready to close the stalls and go back. The two of them carefully stored the goods in the box, and after packing, Gao Yuan pulled the box in one hand and Tan Yiling's hand in the other.
The lights on the road shone obliquely on the two people, and the shadow of the box just blocked the shadow of Tan Yiling's wheelchair. At this point, the shadows of the two men looked just as tall, and they held hands like a normal couple.
Gao Yuan pointed to the shadows of the two and told Tan Yiling that we looked very compatible, and our height was similar.
After that, he knelt on the ground and confessed to Tan Yiling again, and he begged Tan Yiling to give him a chance to prove his intentions with actions.
Tan Yiling was very touched, because no one had ever said such a thing to her because of her health, so she put down all her scruples and came together with Gao Yuan.
Takabuchi's parents, after learning that their son had found a disabled girlfriend, immediately raised a strong objection. However, Gao Yuan had already made up his mind and obtained a marriage license with Tan Yiling without his parents' consent.
The life of the two after marriage is also quite sweet, and with the help of Gao Yuan, Tan Yiling has also become a salesman in their company. Tan Yiling's ability is very outstanding, and the sales commission per month is more than 15,000, which makes their family's life better and better.
After saving a sum of money, Tan Yiling discussed with Gao Yuan about having a child, because she knew that Gao Yuan liked children very much and would tease them every time she saw them. Under Tan Yiling's bitter pleading, Gao Yuan, who had originally opposed it, agreed to his wife's decision.
The two went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor told them that Tan Yiling could not give birth directly, only caesarean section, but she could no longer use anesthesia because of spinal cord problems, so it was very dangerous.
Gao Yuan persuaded Tan Yiling to give up the idea of having a child at that time, but Tan Yiling felt that she already owed him a lot, and if she could not give him a child again, if she left in the future, who would accompany him. So she conceived the child regardless of her own safety.
In May 2012, Tan Yiling was pushed into the operating room, and Gao Yuan waited anxiously outside.
He squatted in the corridor of the hospital and regretted over and over again that he had not persuaded Tan Yiling, and he felt that if Tan Yiling had an accident, he would follow him.
In the end, the strong Tan Yiling passed this pass, after more than ten hours of hard work, she and the child were safe, in order to take good care of this hard-won child, Tan Yiling quit her job and concentrated on taking the baby.
After the children grew up and were able to go to kindergarten, Tan Yiling once again took up the work of sales, she was warm and able to speak, and almost every month the sales champion was her.
Wake up from a dream
On November 3, 2021, Tan Yiling participated in the popular variety show "Job Seeker Season 2" on Shandong Satellite TV. In the show, Tan Yiling told her recent situation.
It turned out that Tan Yiling and Gao Yuan did not survive the seven-year itch in the end, and the two divorced in 2019. Soon after, Tan Yiling's company was structurally optimized, and she appeared on the layoff list.
According to the company, the main reason for the divorce between the two is that Gao Yuan cheated on him in marriage. At the time of the divorce, although Gao Yuan left the child to Tan Yiling, Tan Yiling, who had lost her financial resources, could not raise her son. In the end, Tan Yiling's desperately born son was picked up by her grandparents, and her relationship with her became more and more distant.
Although she has suffered so many blows, Tan Yiling is still strong and optimistic. She moved into a free government-provided rental house to look for a new job.
Later, she saw the variety show "Job Seeker", so she signed up for the show. Tan Yiling hopes to become a live broadcaster so that she can make money without going out.
When she earns money, she brings her son to Beijing to live with her, so that the relationship between mother and son will become intimate again.
The guests present were touched by Tan Yiling's tenacious spirit, and Liu Guorui, chairman of Tianyin Interactive, handed her an olive branch. At his invitation, Tan Yiling became an anchor under Tianyin Interactive.
Liu Guorui said that although Tan Yiling has not been exposed to live broadcasting before, her eloquence is very good, and she is also very humorous, which can attract the attention of the audience.
After Tan Yiling finishes her employment, the company will also provide her with professional training according to Tan Yiling's specific situation. In February next year, the training for Tan Yiling will end, and then she will be allowed to broadcast live.
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