Figure | Back to twenty years old
Text | miki porridge (mikizhou99)
Is your life boring? Then you can learn from me, look at your own annual bill -
Expenditure on education is 39W. Wow, I never found myself so rich before;
More than 40,000 shopping expenses are all for Lego, Ultraman, and various fancy stationery for the daughter;
Continue to look, skip the gas and electricity bills for daily life, costume beauty more than 7000 ...
I was shocked that the money spent on myself in the past year was not enough to buy a bag before marriage...
In the past year, I have 81 meals, spent 6700, an average of only 82 yuan at a time, I can't remember what I ate?
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This is the typical life of a middle-aged mother:
Their own days are strictly broken, and the degree of eating and wearing is minimalist. Hanging in the closet are antique Uniqlo, the colors are dark blue and camel that will never go out of fashion; a bottle of Chiel's full face cream on the dresser, from spring and autumn to winter and summer...
Then give the money you earn to the child to spend.
So, do you dare to have children?
No birth, is the following style of bill -
The post-90s bill, although it earns less, is willing to spend. I'd like to understand what it's like to spend every penny on myself, right? When I watched "Love Is Delicious" before, the most envious thing was that the three heroines did not have children. If you are not happy, you can get a divorce, and if you break up, you can immediately find a home, if the life of a child is so easy, even if the husband and wife have made up their minds to grit their teeth with each other, for the sake of the child, they always have to worry about the division of property.
Divorce lawsuits come and go, and in the end, only lawyers win.
Young people who do not have emotional entanglement will have a better sense of happiness. Just like Liu Jing, who is single in the play, he says that he goes to high-end restaurants to eat every month when he earns money, and does not consider whether there is a deposit at the end of the month, and pulls the famine.
Life, wait until you have enjoyed the delicious food first.
Sigh, I've never been to a fancy restaurant.
Before marriage, I think it is too boring to go to dinner alone, after marriage, I have a child to decorate and buy a car, and I don't even have time to go on a day trip to the outskirts of Beijing, and I have stayed up until now, and I have become a lifeless person who only wants to make money every day, and only deserves to watch all kinds of high-end restaurants in the circle of friends.
There was even a hint of jealousy, why did I eat potato chips late at night and write manuscripts to earn more than my own money, but you were doing a seafood feast?
Not happy, I secretly ordered a bunch of kebabs in the middle of the night and used fat to repair my bitter body and mind. (Oops~ found the origin of my 82 yuan meal consumption.) ）
Sometimes, it is not reluctant to spend, it is really no time to spend, raising two children and working, the information in the brain is stuffed to explode.
How can young people have this experience? 15 years ago, I always like to laugh at a colleague, she talks Zhang Guan Li Dai, Li Hua hua to the mouth is Zhang Hua Hua, Jing Ke can really be said to be a corgi. The whole group was trained by her to become a small expert at correcting mistakes.
Ten years later I can't laugh. Because after giving birth to two children, I found that I also began to talk nonsense, obviously knowing that It was Du Fu who exited Li Bai, and every time I said that the electric seat heating was an electric chair plus seat...
If you want to say yes, it is not impossible, you need to calm down and make a bunch of thoughts.
But where does the old mother have time to calm down and think? The mouth urged the boss to pack up his school bag, pushed the second brother to take a bath in his hand, and sent them to the bed to start cleaning up the toys on the ground...
In the end, lying on the bed will not think of the husband, where is the plaster placed, to a waist health post to save the old life. So wholeheartedly, the wax torch turned into ashes to raise the baby, and a group of old experts chased after the ass and beat them:
What is the use of raising children to spend money alone, or to accompany them more;
When parents do not read books, they cannot educate children who love to read books;
Raising children is a matter for parents, how can they still throw the responsibility of educating children to the school?
Then push the link of a family education lecture series and look at you quietly, do you learn or not? All kinds of parenting professionals who can't pick up children now have to team up to pick up their parents.
And then there are demographers.
To say that an expert is an expert.
Knowing that the post-70s generation is about to be demenopausal, from a medical point of view, it can no longer be counted on;
The consumption level of the post-90s and post-00s is too high, and 40,000 yuan is not enough to live in a high-end hotel, and it is even more impossible to count on;
The post-80s generation, who can only rely on thrift and thrift, seem to be so short of money and work so hard to raise children.
One second you are still scolding you for not educating your children, and the next second you are spending money to ask you to have more babies. It's just that they really look at the wrong parents after the 80s. Is it true that we are people who care about 40,000 pieces?
What we lack is 4 million!
A mother left a message in the background, saying that she spent 26800 on the baby's orthodontics. There are also OK mirrors that many children need to wear now, which is simply a bottomless pit.
Now the money for applying for classes is saved, but the parents' tuition fees are not spent at all.
Being able to enter the cattle school is the ancestor of Gao Xiang, a large number of quality and talent resources, but if you want to join, you must have a foundation, there is no certificate for blowing, playing and singing, and people do not accept it.
If you can't go to cow school, it costs more money. Parents are like mirrors, knowing that the end is likely to be useless, but they still have to take their children to break through. If you don't break in, you have no chances, you can only buy it with money.
The post-80s generation has learned everything and has not learned how to spend money. Growing up under the poor education of his parents, he listened to stories that he didn't eat chaff and throat vegetables in those years, and he had to go to school after hiking dozens of miles.
When parents should suffer hardships, let their children go to school to change their fate, and do not know what kind of fate to change. So if you have some savings in your hand, you will desperately give it to your child.
Spending a little more will give you a little more protection, to protect your children's future studies, jobs, marriages, and now even to buy your children's mental health — buying gifts, drinking milk tea, taking them on a vacation to relax, and seeing a psychologist.
The cost of raising children, where have you heard of after 50 and 60? So now only they are full of great enthusiasm for having children, but they can't give birth to themselves, and they have to urge the next generation to give birth.
On the contrary, the post-10s have seen through all this, and it is not easy to raise children.
The eldest of our family, while trying to avoid writing homework and messing with my parents, also has a mirror-like insight into the pain of parenthood.
Halfway through the quarrel, he dried his tears and said that he had decided that he would not have children in the future, and he would have to spend money and be angry.
It seems that if you want to urge the third child, the last hope is only left after the 80s. But, this group of people who only spend 7,000 yuan a year on themselves, is there still room to be plundered by life?