2014 was Huang Haibo's nightmare and a major turning point in his life.
Not long after his public relationship with his girlfriend Qu Zhazha, on May 16, he was detained for prostitution.
For a time, the former "national son-in-law" became a scumbag spurned by everyone.
Negative reviews hit like a tidal wave, and Huang Haibo's reputation career also completely collapsed.
However, at this time, Qu Zhazha resolutely married him despite the advice of his family and friends.
After marriage, she used her thin shoulders to prop up a home for Huang Haibo.
Qu Zhazha was born in 1982 in the beautiful Changchun, Jilin Province, and is an authentic northeastern girl.
Qu Zhazhai's personality is outgoing and cheerful, because he has been particularly loved by his elders because of his beautiful appearance since childhood
Her parents have always regarded her as a treasure in the palm of their hands, and they have cultivated their daughter's talents since she was a child.
The little qu grid danced like a dancing elf
Because of his talent, he was admitted to the Chinese Dance Department of Beiwu with the support of his parents.
The dancing girls are in good shape, especially temperamental, and qu zha has a lot of suitors during their school days.
Some boys, in pursuit of her, often waited at dawn to bring her breakfast downstairs in her dormitory
But at that time, Qu Zhazha did not have the heart to fall in love.
Qu Zhazha has always had a seed of acting in her heart, so when she graduated in 1999, she began to prepare for the chinese opera examination.
Being an actor is Qu Zhazha's biggest dream, and there is no shortage of actors in the show business who have learned to dance
For example: Jin Chen, Liu Shishi, Yang Yang, Tong Liya, their development is very good.
Therefore, Qu Zhazha wanted to change careers to become an actor, and the first step was to learn acting first, so he worked hard to get into Chinese opera and learn professional course knowledge.
With dance skills and professional performance knowledge, Qu Zhazhai thought that his acting path would be a bright and bright one.
Who would have thought that after graduating in 2005, reality would give her a blow.
There are more people in the circle than she can act, and there are more people than she can dance.
Quzha, who came from an ordinary family, had no network resources, and he was dumbfounded as soon as he graduated.
At that time, Huang Haibo's superb acting skills in the two works of "The Years of Burning Passion" and "The Eight Precepts of the Pig with High Star" were already a well-known actor in the circle.
On the other hand, Qu Zhazha also played some small roles without names in various crews.
It was not until 2008 that Qu Zhazha got the role of "Ning Wushuang" in "Detective Di Renjie 3" that he received a little attention, and the road to acting began.
If the Yellow Sea Wave at that time was a bright star in the sky, then the Quzha fence was a street lamp that had just lit up on the street corner.
There is a long distance between the two.
As the old saying goes, "Heaven pays for hard work." Although the background of the qu grid is not strong, it is good enough to work hard.
Qu Zhazha's aura was favored by director Qian Yanqiu, who invited her to star in the Di Renjie series again
As a result, Qu Zhazha became the niece "Ru Yan" in "Divine Judgment Di Renjie".
Since then, he has taken over the filming of "Falcon 1949", "Plain Beacon" and "Lonely Island Flying Eagle" and other dramas
Interestingly, Qu Zhazha and Zhang Zijian have cooperated in many dramas, and Zhang Zijian has a high evaluation of her.
The two people have collided with each other many times to create a good spark, and these roles have also made Qu Zha Grille a certain fame in the circle.
She and Huang Haibo met at a party organized by friends in the circle.
A group of people drank and laughed to match them, and Qu Zhazha had heard about Huang Haibo and loved to watch his plays very much
In Qu Zhazha's heart: "He is a talented predecessor."
Huang Haibo did not know much about the qu grid, but he was also attracted by the bright-looking and agile girl in front of him.
Qu Zhazha's straightforward and unpretentious personality is particularly pleasing, so the two try to make contact.
In the comings and goings, the two hearts got closer and closer, and Qu Zhazha and Huang Haibo fell in love.
But this love, they did not dare to open, at that time Qu Zhazhai's acting career had just started, and falling in love would definitely have an impact.
However, Huang Haibo's career is in the most popular stage, and dramas such as "Daughter-in-law's Belle Epoque" and "Indelible Fan" starring him have won many awards in the industry.
Huang Haibo, who looks ordinary, has made a way in the show business circle with his acting skills of entering the wood and has become a well-deserved powerful actor.
So the two discussed: "For the sake of career, first fall in love!" "At that time, Huang Haibo was almost forty years old
Qu Zhazha is also in his early thirties, and they are running to get married in this love.
After the run-in, both people decided that they were the ones who wanted to spend their lives together, so they went to see the parents of both sides.
Seeing that the two children are actors, have a common topic and love each other so much, the parents on both sides are very agreeable, so the two began to live together.
Although Huang Haibo is 6 years older than QuZhazha, quzhai is the one who is most worried about in life, and he has to take care of his daily life.
At the beginning of 2014, not long after the Spring Festival, the two were photographed by the media holding hands in and out of the community, so Huang Haibo announced their relationship.
"Huang Haibo's girlfriend" became Qu Zhazha's biggest title.
At that time, Huang Haibo's new drama "Let's Get Married" created a miracle in ratings, and as a hot "national son-in-law" and a popular actor, his every move was highly concerned.
Not long after the official announcement of the love affair, Huang Haibo was exposed to the "scandal", and this news became a first-line melon at that time, which caused a sensation in the entire entertainment circle.
2014 is a life-changing year for both Quzha and Huang Haibo.
On May 16, 2014, Huang Haibo was arrested for a moment of confusion. After trial, he confessed and was transferred to the detention center on the following day.
Because the scandal that Huang Haibo is caught in is not a general scandal, but a piaochang
For a while, the halo was like a mountain, all the negative bad comments came one after another, and the audience could not accept this good man on the screen, and would actually do such a thing and then scold the "scumbag",
At this time, Huang Haibo's reputation was infamous, and the so-called friends who usually surrounded him avoided it.
And Huang Haibo's commissioned studio issued an apology and did not stop the scolding
His ex-girlfriend Mo Xiaoqi even posted on social platforms about him, saying: "Thank you for not marrying! ”
Many people look at the dynamics of Qu Zhazha with the attitude of watching a good play, and they all want to see when her decent girlfriend will leave.
After all, the trees are scattered, and the old saying is that husband and wife will fly separately when they are in trouble! Moreover, Qu Zhazha is just a cohabiting girlfriend.
The attitude of who became a qu grating surprised everyone
After Huang Haibo was transferred to custody and education for 6 months after fifteen days of administrative detention, she not only did not leave, but also promised to wait for him to come out.
During Huang Haibo's custody and education, Qu Zhazhai would visit him as soon as he had the opportunity to visit him.
Looking at the haggard lover Qu Zhazhai's heart was broken, across the window she affectionately "touched" Huang Haibo's face: "Good transformation, I wait for you to come out!" ”
Huang Haibo's father is a veteran soldier, and when he learned that his son had an accident, he fell ill in a hurry, and Qu Zhazha rushed to take care of it after he knew it, and chatted with the old man to enlighten him.
In order not to let Huang Haibo worry, Qu Zhazha hid this matter and fulfilled his son's obligations for him.
In November 2014, Huang Haibo came out, and his girlfriend Qu Zhazha waited early at the door of the detention center to greet him.
That day, Qu Zha put on light makeup to clean up, after seeing Huang Haibo, she hurried up to meet him, without any unnecessary words, she gave Huang Haibo a hug.
After many days, she finally embraced her lover again, and Huang Haibo firmly hugged her red eyes.
Qu Zhazha smiled and said to him, "Go, let's go home!" ”
With the help of his girlfriend, Huang Haibo returned to normal, but his acting career was completely stopped.
No one dares to use a bad artist, the bad comments on him on the Internet are still continuous, and Huang Haibo has become a street rat that everyone shouts and beats.
During that time, Huang Haibo's state was very poor, he did not dare to read a little news on the Internet and was unwilling to go out, let alone receive the drama and no income.
Qu Zhazha's parents advised her: "You hurry up and break with this man!" You are not allowed to contact again! ”
But Qu Zhazha refused to listen, and she identified this man, and had long been determined to be with him no matter what happened.
So Qu Zhazha took the initiative to say to Huang Haibo, "Let's get married!" ”
Huang Haibo looked at the girl in front of her, she smiled at herself like a little sun, and under that bright smile, it seemed that those stains were nothing.
Huang Haibo nodded with moist eyes.
"If your parents don't agree, they will hide it and marry him no matter what!" With this belief, Qu Zhazha and Huang Haibo married abroad.
I didn't dare to invite a few friends, because the wedding dresses worn by The no money Qu Zhazha were borrowed.
But that day, she was so happy, on this day she finally became Mrs. Huang.
Life after marriage is as difficult as expected, Huang Haibo has no income, and the two people can only live on their previous meager savings.
But fortunately, the two have love, have feelings to drink water, and Qu Zhai can still shoot dramas, and their little life can be considered to be passable.
At this time, Huang Haibo's acting career was ruined, and no one would use a bad artist to become a street rat that everyone shouted and beat
However, Huang Haibo, who has no drama and no job, is increasingly confused, does not trim the edge all day, and has not lost the spirit of that year.
Qu Zhazha did not want to see her husband so decadent, so he paid for him to open an acting training class.
However, due to various reasons, it has never been able to recruit students, and it is helpless to go out of business, and the two people have lost a lot of money.
The two men's lives became more difficult, and at this time QuZha was pregnant again, and the expectation of a new life rekindled their hopes.
In early August 2015, Qu Zhazha gave birth to a son for him, and the couple immersed themselves in the joy of being parents for the first time, but also felt the pressure.
Huang Haibo said: "From the first time the child cries, the pressure comes! ”
However, they have to bear not only this child, but also the old man in the family.
When his parents got older, their bodies were prone to problems, and Huang Haibo's father almost died of illness, but fortunately he was rescued in the end.
The old man opened his eyes and looked at his son and said, "My salary, grandson..." Huang Haibo knew what his father meant: "Leave the money to the child!" ”
He clasped his father's hand with red eyes, and the old man took out his pension to raise children for them, and Qu Zhazha was greatly moved, but also realized: "We can't go on like this!" ”
So not long after giving birth to the child, Qu Zhazha began to make a comeback filming, and Huang Haibo took over everything in the family.
Before, he couldn't even take care of himself, but now he learned to take care of his children, although his clumsiness often made his wife angry.
At this time, QuZhazhai began a busy filming life, and could only sleep for a few hours a day.
Most of the scenes received by Qu Zhazha were olive branches handed over by directors who had worked with Huang Haibo before.
Everyone saw that their life was difficult, and the drama at hand had a role she could play, and she left the opportunity to Qu Zhazha with the intention of being able to help a little.
The stronger qu grid did not disappoint the directors.
After Qu Zhazha's comeback, he successively filmed "Zhong Kui Catching Demons", "Returning", "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an", "Hello! Mother", many film and television works
She is in "Hello! Playing the eldest sister in "Mother Adult", after the early death of her father, she is the top pillar of the family as the eldest and the dependence of her younger sister.
This role makes Qu Zhazha very empathetic, unconsciously throwing herself into it, integrating a lot of her own feelings, and her emotional performance also played a lot of audiences.
If a reporter interviewed her, will she feel tired from her life now, and will she have complaints in her heart?
Qu Zhazha smiled slightly and said: "When my parents were in that generation, they were two people working together, and it is very normal for women to do their careers outside, I don't think there is any grievance!" ”
Qu Zhazhai's words touched countless people, and also made Huang Haibo very moved, because she not only supported the whole family, but also supported her entire world!
When he saw Huang Haibo fall into the frustration of the hopeless comeback, Qu Zhazha encouraged him to do behind the scenes, instructed the actor's acting skills, and supported him very much to do public welfare.
Qu Zhazha often brings him live on social platforms, knowing that Huang Haibo has a drama addiction, so he pulls him to shoot a small video.
Although the current life is not rich and noble, but under the management of Qu Zhazha, a virtuous wife, their small family is also living in harmony and beauty.
Xiaobian has something to say: There is a wife so husband who asks for more, Qu Zhazha interprets to us with practical actions what is true love, such a feeling is moving.