The ancients said: "A gentleman who is poor should be a good worker, and do not lose his style and elegance." ”
A very poor person, as long as he is dressed neatly, can also be extraordinary.
When people reach middle age, they like to call themselves "greasy uncles and big mothers", and they really don't have to do this. If you have not yet reached the age of seventy or eighty, why should you become decadent?
Every day, remember to clean yourself up.
01
Clean your own room and live a cozy life.
If a house is not swept, why sweep the world?
The room is the starting point of life's ideals and a place to rest every day.
Hideko Yamashita once said: "Breaking away is a way to use the clutter in the house to sort out the waste in the heart and make people happy." ”
Look, how many dispensables are in your room? Occupying the place, it is still very obstructive, and even becomes a place to hide dirt and grime.
Years ago, I had a big bear toy in my room—a friend went on a trip to Sichuan, bought it and mailed it to me.
However, this toy, our family, does not need it, and the toy is too large to accommodate any cabinet. Therefore, it can only be placed in the corner of the house at will, and it slowly becomes very dirty.
I gritted my teeth and gave the toy to the neighbor's child.
I was relieved to see the child dancing happily. What's even more surprising is that since then, the neighbors have taken the initiative to say hello every time they see me.
Let everything in the room be used, and if you don't need it, give it to those who need it; if it's useless, throw it away.
Home, become spacious and bright, it becomes warm.
Of course, when cleaning the room, there is also refusal to "buy, buy and buy", don't let your cleaning become useless. Always remember that minimalist is the most beautiful.
02
Clean your own appearance, simple and noble.
Zhang Ailing said: "Sitting on the tram, looking up at the people standing in front of you, as many as they look, a non-vulgar appearance, but the nostrils are rarely clean." ”
At first, I thought that Ms. Zhang Ailing liked to be nosy, other people's nostrils were not clean, what was the obstacle to her?
Until one day, when I was listening to a speech, I found that the speaker was not dressed neatly and often touched his nose, that I had the same disgust as Ms. Zhang.
Many middle-aged people, there is no shortage of money at home, clothes and pants are brand-name, but not neat enough, the expression is very serious, and even stare at others with their eyes.
There are also people whose hair is getting thinner and thinner, or who are half bald. In order to cover the top of the "ugly" head, comb the hair to the side, and a gust of wind blows the hair out of order, which is more ugly than the "shawl".
One famous host said, "If you're too late to put on your makeup, try to smile." ”
Natural expressions are more attractive than branded clothes; you can't avoid the look of a big belly, but you can be disciplined to make your body less out of shape.
A person's dress should not be "expensive", but should be simple and clean, and at the same time, the haze on the face should be cleaned.
03
Clean up your relationships and be genuinely friendly.
When people reach middle age, the relationship is mostly a bit chaotic. He played multiple roles: colleague, classmate, partner, father, son, husband, etc. There are also some who become betrayers of their families.
The ancients said, "When the break is continuous, it is chaotic." ”
The relationship network is too complicated, on the surface it is "friends have more roads to go", but in fact, they are restricted by friends and even used by others.
For example, a man indulges in eating and drinking every day, wasting time and worrying his family. If you risk driving home after drinking, you are wrong.
There are only so many positions around a person, and if they are occupied by useless people, then useful people cannot get close.
Kick the excess relationship out of life, you will meet the real "network", you will have more time to spend with your family, do what you want to do, and constantly improve yourself.
Actor Han Xue, in order to be busy with work, takes the initiative to reduce social interaction, usually try not to look at the circle of friends, less brush Weibo.
Once, she was off work with a group of hosts and someone invited her to dinner, which she refused. The reason was that she had to go home and learn English.
In the "Immersive" program, Han Xue voiced "SpongeBob SquarePants" and spoke fluent English, which is admirable. Grades are inseparable from self-discipline - giving up socializing and strengthening learning.
People to middle age, the real network, is excellent self, do not know too late.
04
Clean your own mind and have a noble personality.
There is a word called "whitewashed chimney."
As the name suggests, a snow-white chimney on the outside, the inside must be black, can not hide from anyone.
This term, in ancient times, was used to describe those rich people who liked to lose their smiling faces and had a very vicious heart.
It can be seen how important the quality of consistency in appearance is for a person.
Middle-aged people are "models" in society, young people will learn from you, and the children at home will be proud of you. If you go a crooked way, it's messy.
As the saying goes, "Don't stretch out your hand, you will be caught." ”
The eyes of the masses are shining, and what your heart is like will be seen in time.
Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. Often reflect, throw away the crooked thoughts in your heart, and insist on being a good person, you will sleep soundly, your family will be peaceful, and your career will flourish.
05
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius traveled to a place called "Kuang" and was surrounded by officers and soldiers and local masses. Confucius's students panicked.
Confucius was fearless and sang loudly. He said, what are you afraid of when you are clean and clean and you have not made mistakes? Just leave it to fate.
After a while, the officers and soldiers took the initiative to confess their mistakes to Confucius, and they mistakenly thought that Confucius was a Yanghu who had done bad things.
It turns out that cleanliness is a person's greatest confidence.
When people reach middle age, they often meditate, clean up their past in life, leave the good behind, and discard the bad; clean up the surrounding things and change the living environment.
There is a way that a white cover up a hundred ugliness.
No matter what you have done, don't worry, do the current things well, adhere to social morality, abide by the law, and the future days will definitely get better and better.
When people reach middle age, greasy is useless, and cleaning is useful.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.