01
Some people, once missed, are a lifetime thing.
Some people, once they say goodbye, have nothing to do with each other in this life.
Some people, once said goodbye, are left with only sighs for the rest of their lives.
In "Later", there is a song that is particularly well written: "Unfortunately, you have long gone and disappeared into the sea of people." Later, finally in tears, I understood that some people, once missed, are no longer. ”
Missed and regretted, not only the love of the past, but also those who love us.
This feeling of "missing out" is believed to be particularly profound for the post-70s generation of Ben Five. Because they are a generation that grew up in the "miss".
Recalling the experience of the post-70s generation, I think of the heroic past, and also remember the past of pointing out the country and the country, stirring up the passion of words. This is the memory of youth brought to us by the years.
In particular, the memory of our hometown impresses us even more.
In the early years, the hometown was like pure and immaculate jade, although it had not been carved, but it gave people a special "familiar and intimate" feeling. Those were the hometown years accompanied by true feelings.
After middle age, although the hometown is like the beautiful jade that has been carved, it has long lost the purity and beauty of the past. All the true feelings became hazy and blurred.
After the 70s of Ben Wu, if these 4 people are missing in the second half of their lives, then their hometown will not be able to go back.
02
If there is no "parent", then the hometown will not go back.
There is a saying that is very realistic, parents are here, and life still has a place to come. When your parents go, there is only one way back in life.
When our parents are still around us, we can feel the warmth of life and smell the breath of our hometown. When our parents leave, then our life path will continue to freeze until the day when there is no warmth in our hearts.
When we are young, we always want to run away from home, away from our parents, thinking that that is maturity, that is independence. As everyone knows, this is just a young and crazy person.
When people encounter nails in society, we believe that we will understand that only parents in this world will worry about us, and other people are just hypocrites who play tricks on the scene.
There is always a saying on the Internet that no one in this world wants you to live well except your parents.
A hometown where parents care, that is a real hometown. And the hometown that lacks the care of parents is just a familiar place name, meaningless.
The parents are there, the hometown is there. When my parents go, my hometown is a thing of the past.
03
If there is no filial piety "child", then life will be sad.
In the past, when I was a child, I did not understand the feelings of my parents, only thought that my parents were too strict, and I did not understand the child's mood at all. In fact, this is the care and care of our parents for us.
Now that I have become the parents of others, I have slowly discovered that the original parents have managed so strictly, after all, it is their "good intentions".
There is a saying that "at first I don't know what the song likes, and then I listen to it, and then I am already the person in the song." ”
In the past, we always felt that if we wanted to learn to be independent, we had to leave our parents. Now we always feel that it is best for children to be independent, but it is better if they can stay by our side.
The so-called "parents are here, not far away, the tour must be good." ”
As parents, we ultimately hope that our children can be filial and can always stay by our side. However, this is nothing more than our wishful thinking.
You know, they will be like us in the past, eager to stay away from their parents, until they mature before they have an epiphany, it turns out that this is the truth. Everything is a cycle and cannot be changed.
04
If you lack a "partner" who loves you, your hometown is empty.
If there is love in the hometown, it must be the love of parents. If there is love in the family, it must be the partner's sincerity towards us.
When people are old, they no longer crave any sincere friendship, nor do they crave any luxurious love, but only want to have an ordinary partnership.
You accompany me, I follow you, both sides do not give up, the same weal and woe, advance and retreat together, struggle for life, for life and hand in hand, until the day of old age.
The most beautiful feelings in the world are called "growing old together."
In the past, the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance has long been turned into the dust of history, but the current bits and pieces have always been engraved in my heart. It's like a dry river re-ushering in a moist water source, like the bright moon in the sky accompanied by a slightly warm evening wind.
The hometown where you are with you is the hometown that is "touched by the heart". Your hometown without you is just a bunch of buildings, what can you count?
05
If you lack the "true feelings" of yourself, then you can't go back to your hometown.
People, the older they get, the more they become thin.
People, the older they get, the more they will become emotionally important.
On the one hand, there is thin affection, on the other hand, heavy feelings, why is it so contradictory? In fact, this is not a contradiction, but a kind of maturity.
Thin affection, that's for outsiders. The emphasis on feelings is for family and life. No matter how old we are, we must treat those who "love us" well.
In this pale and cold world, it is indeed not easy to find someone who loves us. It is possible that your love, after all, has not met those who can pin their hearts on them.
Therefore, for the family, we must love deeply. For our confidants and best friends, we must be sincere with each other. For our hometown, we must remember the stories of the past in our hearts and hide them in the sea of hearts.
After the 70s of Ben Five, you may wish to become the "true feeling" of yourself, which is the blessing of the second half of your life.
Wen/Shushan has deer