The busy, chaotic years of war were paralyzed by money and desire, and they forgot their dreams. Every man was once a teenager chasing the wind, but he was smoothed out by life, slowly breeding many shortcomings that could not be shaken off, bad habits slowly swallowed up their dreams, and they did nothing all day long, poor and destitute. What are the shortcomings of men who have not shown up?
1. In case of indecisiveness, hesitation and indecision will be young and fleshy, but compared to reckless behavior, the most fatal shortcoming for men is indecisiveness, encounter things mother-in-law, hesitation, such people often miss a lot of excellent opportunities, afterwards do not think so, even regret do not know. A man who does not dare to try, it is difficult to have greater achievements.
2. Lazy and procrastinating Some men, making plans are very good at it, but they are accustomed to procrastination, there is no courage to go further, and there is no determination to think about the pain and break the boat, the road to success is abandoned halfway, can not be persistent, lazy and procrastinating, and finally achieve nothing.
3. Three minutes of heat a good start is half of the success, many men have great enthusiasm for doing things, but often like three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, men who are not out of the air are full of interest at the beginning, but the successful result will not belong to people who only have three minutes of heat, a little bit of obstacle to let go, there is no enthusiasm at the beginning. Failure to follow through is often followed by failure.
4. Fear of failure
Some men, very face-loving, afraid of being rejected by others, afraid of failure, do not start when they are worried, barely start, but also arrogant, failure and self-pity.
Knowing that failure is the mother of success, still do not have the courage to persevere, just a random obstacle, they are afraid of failure, ridiculed, discredited.
5. Self-doubt
Complicated life, the requirements for men are very high, many people have become timid and afraid of things self-doubt people, and even habitually fall into this strange circle, can not face positively, will not be brave to pursue, encounter problems, self-doubt, often take "so difficult, it is likely not successful, do not waste time!" Or" It's not easy, forget it!" "Comfort yourself in a failed life.
6. Escape from the man who has not appeared, the biggest drawback is to escape from reality, daydreaming he is doing, fantasizing about good things he is doing, paying actions can not count him, encounter difficulties, do not take the initiative to find a breakthrough, think of sleepy thinking is for him, for his failed life laid an insurmountable obstacle, and finally choose to give up, nothing.
7. Make excuses, don't take responsibility
Men should have responsibility, whether it is tired or successful or unsuccessful, when encountering problems, they should be brave to carry up, but men who are not out of work are often the best at throwing the pot, the work is not good to blame colleagues for not giving strength, the family management is not good, the object is unreasonable, and the child education is not good to blame the child is not smart enough.
Anyway, the responsibility is not on him, it is all the fault of others, and it is the incompetent, the most vulgar excuse at first glance.
8. Refuse to learn
Every industry and every profession has its own operating rules, stepping into every line needs to be pious to learn, men who are not out of the ordinary, will not learn and progress, rely on their past experience for anything, do well, and feel that they are very great, do not do well, just not good at it, not that good life, can not accept new things, waste time in the game brush mobile phone clubbing promiscuity, for the improvement of character cultivation soul things but no interest, doomed to be a loser, eliminated by society.