In 2005, the anti-Japanese drama "Bright Sword" swept the country and became the dark horse of the year.
The regimental leader "Li Yunlong", played by Li Youbin, changed the image of the "Wei Guangzheng" of the previous screen hero, and is a "leper hero" who is hot-tempered and loves to explode and foul-mouthed.
This contrast is refreshing to the audience.
The sentence "The second battalion commander fired!" It also made Li Youbin completely explode, and the drama continued to be made since then.
When the career is in full swing, Li Youbin's emotional life also makes people pay attention.
After Li Youbin divorced his wife who had been with him for nearly 20 years, he went out of the house and married Shi Lanya with three marriages.
Nowadays, the stepson has become Li Youbin's pride, and the eldest son born to his ex-wife has become Li Youbin's heart disease.
Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi met at the Changchun Drama Theatre.
Li Youbin, who came from a worker's family, his parents are both masters of the watch repair factory.
Li Youbin also has an older sister named Li Yeping, the sisters and brothers have a high artistic talent when they were young, and their sister debuted much earlier than him.
Influenced by his sister, Li Youbin loved to perform since he went to school, and became a small actor in the school's drama troupe.
Once the troupe rehearsed the drama Mao Feng Huazheng, and Li Youbin, who performed stage, deeply attracted the leaders of the Cultural and Education Bureau.
Seeing that Li Youbin was talented, the leader recommended him to work in the unit.
At the age of 16, Li Youbin entered the Changchun Drama Theatre.
At the beginning, Li Youbin was young and inexperienced, and all he got were small roles with few words
But he was very satisfied, even if it was a few lines, he had to take it seriously.
When there is no drama of his own, Li Youbin "steals the teacher" in the background to see how others act.
After several years of experience, Li Youbin's acting skills have soared by leaps and bounds.
At that time, Zhang Ruiqi was a well-known figure in the stage, because the good people in the play were beautiful and there were many suitors.
Li Youbin also likes her, as soon as he heard Zhang Ruiqi's performance, whether he had a schedule or not, he waited in the audience early.
Many colleagues joked about Li Youbin: "Toads want to eat swan meat!" But he didn't care, and began to pursue Zhang Ruiqi in a bright and upright way, sending umbrellas and scarves when it rained.
Li Youbin's strong love attracted Zhang Ruiqi's attention, and she paid special attention to the boy.
With repeated contacts, Zhang Ruiqi was touched by Li Youbin's authenticity and enthusiasm, and the two people came together.
In 1984, Li Youbin married his beloved woman back, and the following year, Zhang Ruiqi gave birth to a son for him, named Li Xiaoke.
Li Youbin held the little doll nervously and did not know what to do, and his hands did not dare to touch him, for fear of breaking him.
The little couple who were mom and dad for the first time hugged each other and cried.
After the birth of the child, Zhang Ruiqi bid farewell to the stage and concentrated on becoming a housewife at home, serving her in-laws to take care of the children.
The family's economic burden immediately fell on Li Youbin's shoulders.
Li Youbin, who took on the heavy responsibility of the family, began to work hard to make money by filming.
Li Youbin first transferred from the drama troupe to the then popular film studio
But with his salary at the time, it was not enough to support the expenses of a family.
Li Youbin thought about it again and again and felt "drifting north".
Hearing her husband's risky decision, Zhang Ruiqi was a little flustered: "After going to Beijing, everything is unknown, have you thought about it?" ”
Of course, Li Youbin understood his wife's concerns, but he really didn't want to stick to the rules like this.
In 1985, Li Youbin starred in "Death Certificate" for the first time.
This made him firm in his heart to go to the film and television industry and decided to find a bigger and broader platform for development.
Although the days of North Drift are hard, the family of three is still very happy to snuggle up with each other.
Li Youbin returned home from work, and his wife had already prepared a table of meals waiting for him.
Whenever the son ran to hug him sweetly and shout "Daddy", the exhaustion of the day was gone.
However, not long after such a day, Li Shuangbin began to get busier and busier, and the family sat down quietly to eat a meal became a luxury.
In 1995, Li Youbin participated in the filming of the TV series "Bolshevik Brothers" and starred in the movie "Born out of nowhere".
This work made Li Youbin win the best actor award, and his acting career began to have a great improvement.
There are more directors looking for Li Youbin to shoot, and Li Youbin is busier.
In Li Xiaoke's eyes: "Dad is a very busy person, I haven't seen him for a long time."
The son's parent-teacher meeting was never attended by Zhang Ruiqi alone.
The school organized a parent-child sports meeting, other students were accompanied by their parents and mothers, and Li Xiaoke stubbornly sat on the side and refused to play no matter how much her mother persuaded her.
At this time, Li Youbin was filming in the hot air of the crew, he did not know the loss of his son, nor could he see his crying red face.
Li Xiaoke was sick and had a high fever. The wife stayed by the child's side and worriedly could not eat.
Hearing her son murmuring for his father, Zhang Ruiqi's heart was broken.
Li Youbin is a good actor, dedicated and willing to endure hardships. But not a good husband and good father
The effects of being away from home for long periods of time were endless quarrels and cold wars.
Gradually, Zhang Ruiqi could not stand such a widowed marriage and separated with her son and husband.
At this time, Li Youbin was facing a big turnaround in his acting career, and in 2004, he received an olive branch from the crew of "Bright Sword".
Originally, Li Youbin did not want to pick up, his body could not eat high-intensity drama, and family affairs made him very troubled.
Later, under the persuasion of his "friend", he took over the play.
Who thought that as soon as the drama was released in 2005, it set off a frenzy of chasing dramas, and Li Youbin became popular with the role of "Li Yunlong".
Li Youbin looked at today's achievements with mixed joys, and thought that after the red, the family's hard days would come to an end, and now the distance between the couple is getting farther and farther.
The career is hard, but the marriage has come to an end.
In 2006, Li Youbin and his wife peacefully broke up, and the two calmly received divorce papers.
Li Youbin looked at his wife's face, not knowing when she had a good face, she also had wrinkles, and suddenly felt sour in her heart: "I am sorry for you and my son."
Zhang Ruiqi replied faintly: "No one is sorry for anyone, just like this."
In order to ensure the future life of his wife and children, Li Youbin chose to leave the house clean.
Seeing his father pack up his things and leave the house, the son on the side could not bear it any longer, and he hugged Li Youbin and cried into tears: "Dad, you don't go, you don't go."
Zhang Ruiqi hugged the child in pain: "It's a problem for mom and dad, we don't love each other anymore, but we all love you!" ”
Li Youbin's heart was very unpleasant, and he endured grief to comfort him:
"Dad and Mom are separated, but we are still a family, and Dad will come back to see you."
Parents divorced, the most hurt is the child, this point in Li Xiaoke perfectly fulfilled.
After Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi divorced, Li Xiaoke, who lived with her mother, became a non-talkative and unwilling to watch her father's plays.
This year, Li Xiaoke wanted to take the college entrance examination, and the breakdown of his family made him unable to raise his spiritual study.
Fortunately, Li Youbin kept his promise to visit the mother and son from time to time, and gradually he became friends with his ex-wife.
This made Li Xiaoke secretly look forward to it in his heart: "Maybe Mom and Dad will still be together?" ”
This wish was completely shattered in 2008, because in this year, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya's love affair was exposed, and the two chose to get a license to marry.
Netizens exclaimed: "The two met as early as 2003 when they cooperated in "Jiangshan", and the couple who played them also had gossip! ”
Someone even pulled out: "Shi Lanya has been married twice, and now she is married to Li Youbin for the third time, and she still has a baby!" ”
Netizen: "And it was Shi Lanya who persuaded Li Youbin to take over the "Bright Sword", and their relationship was definitely not ordinary! ”
With the fermentation of public opinion, the rumors about "Shi Lanya stepped in, Li Youbin abandoned his wife and son at the expense of leaving the house" intensified.
This not only deeply disturbed the parties concerned, but also seriously affected Li Xiaoke's life
Classmates with good things even found him to "verify" in person, which made Li Xiaoke miserable.
Seeing that public opinion has hurt children, parents will certainly not ignore it
Here Li Youbin personally explained to his son, on the other hand, Zhang Ruiqi also posted: "Li Youbin and I are divorced due to emotional discord, and have nothing to do with Shi Lanya! ”
With Zhang Ruiqi's confirmation, public opinion gradually calmed down. Li Xiaoke then put aside the fact that mustard had accepted his father's remarriage.
But on the other side, there is another child who is very dissatisfied with this marriage, that is, the son of Shi Lanya and her second husband, Li Youbin's stepson.
Li Youbin and Shi Lanya are 13 years apart, and the stepson is very dissatisfied with this father, and never takes the initiative to talk to him at home.
Li Youbin saw that the little guy was not angry with himself like this, but instead asked for his opinion in everything like a friend, and never took the elder's shelf.
Gradually, the stepson accepted Li Youbin's love and asked him to pick him up and drop him off from class.
When Li Youbin is not filming, he will personally cook for the two women to prepare food, and the family of three will have a happy and harmonious life.
Sometimes when the stepson made a mistake and wanted to reprimand Shi Lanya, he would hide behind Li Youbin.
Because he knew, "My dad will take care of me!" "It makes him fearless.
Shi Lanya was worried that Li Youbin would spoil him, so she talked to him.
Li Youbin also realized that he could not be too spoiled by children, so he was strict with him in learning.
Li Youbin's rewards and punishments have made his stepson's grades improve by leaps and bounds, ranking at the top of the class, and others who have both good character and excellent character have seen people and praised, which has become Li Youbin's greatest pride!
Seeing that the younger son reassured himself, Li Youbin put his attention on the eldest son again.
Since his eldest son was admitted to college, Li Youbin felt: "When the child is older, many things are not good for the father to intervene."
In addition, he is also busy filming on weekdays, and he cares less about Li Xiaoke.
So Li Youbin specially called for his eldest son to come to the house for dinner, and instructed Shi Lanya to prepare something that the child loved to eat.
At the dinner table, the father and son talked about wine, and at the end, Li Youbin took out the red envelope prepared in advance and handed it to him.
Seeing that Li Xiaoke was a little confused, Li Youbin said: "You are now older, and you have reached the age of love, if there is a girl you like, you will boldly pursue, and you should be generous with others!" ”
Listening to his father say this, Li Youbin lowered his head and said, "Don't worry about it, I won't talk about it."
Li Youbin was a little surprised: "Where are the big guys who don't engage in objects?" ”
But Li Xiaokebei said that he did not believe in love: "You and my mother were in love at the beginning, but now?" Didn't it get to where it is now? ”
Li Youbin was shocked, followed by the pain of needle, he did not expect that his failed marriage with his ex-wife had such a great impact on his children.
In the second half of that meal, the grandfather and grandfather tacitly did not mention this matter, but after their son left, Li Youbin's eyes were red.
Afterwards, Li Youbin asked someone to inquire about his son's performance at school
Knowing that his grades are very good, there are also girls who confess to him, but he rarely communicates with girls.
Li Youbin decided to talk to his son well, so he went to his school, and the father and son walked on the playground to talk.
Under the persuasion of her father, Li Xiaoke decided to make a change and try to contact love.
It's a pity that they are together, but his attitude of not taking the initiative and not caring, but he let the girls run away, and Li Youbin hated iron and steel after learning about it!
In the blink of an eye, my son graduated from work, and he was not willing to talk about feelings when he was busy.
When his parents were separated when he was a child, all he remembered was his crying mother and his father who did not come home.
Later, his parents divorced, and the loneliness and pain of the single-parent family plus the harm of rumors became the shadow of "fear of marriage and love", which had too great an impact on him.
In 2015, Li Xiaoke was 30 years old, and he said that he was alone in his thirties, which upset Li Youbin and his ex-wife.
The two of them did ideological work for the child together, and also introduced him to the daughter of a classmate and colleague, who knew that he did not look at any of them.
At the age of 31, Li Youbin arranged a blind date for his son to marry, but there was no result
Now Li Xiaoke is 37 years old, and his unmarried marriage has become Li Youbin's heart disease.
The misfortune of the original family will cause irreparable harm to the child, so parents must be cautious when making decisions.
However, everyone's heart will definitely have an expectation of love, or one day soon, Li Xiaoke will meet true love.
The editor has something to say: Li Youbin as an actor, his career is successful, and his two marriages and two sons are now in a very different state, which also has a great relationship with him.