Throughout the ages, there have been many sayings, which come from life and act on life, and the fields it involves are extremely extensive.
In the eyes of the ancients, it was believed that "men should marry when women get married", marriage is an indispensable part of life, and marriage is a major event in life.
Of course, there are also many sayings about marriage, such as "men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man", this saying warns people about the importance of marriage and mate selection, about marriage and mate selection, the ancients once said - "Marry a wife Mo marry a cocked mouth, marry a man do not marry a heavenly barrier"
First, marry a wife, don't marry a cocked mouth.
Similar sayings have also been mentioned in the past, such as "men look at the nose and women look at the mouth, a lifetime of wealth and less right and wrong", "men are afraid of the waist of the water snake, women are afraid of small pouts", etc., the "cocked mouth" mentioned in this common saying is actually the meaning of pouting.
The aesthetics of ancient and modern times are different, in the eyes of the ancients, women should be virtuous, so the external image is dignified and elegant, and it is never allowed to pout. Nowadays, times have changed, and people think that girls pouting is a kind of pampering and cute performance.
Nowadays, people's eager dress, in the eyes of the ancients, can be said to be what kind of system. Nowadays, some women have to make up pouts even if they are not born with pouts.
Because the ancients did not have a scientific explanation for many natural phenomena, the ancients were more superstitious, coupled with the influence of the Confucian "Mandate of Heaven", the ancients were very obsessed with appearance.
The ancients thought that women's pouts were not good, half because they did not conform to the aesthetics of the ancients, and half because of their faces.
In the eyes of the ancients, women", "cocked mouth", personality will be more eccentric, and temper is not easy to ponder, is a model of girls' hearts. Girls with this personality have also annoyed many boys now.
Because you may provoke her at any time and anywhere, and just like the monk Zhangji is confused and can't find the reason. Even if you are cautious in everything and think twice about every word, you may offend her.
Marriage accompanies a lifetime, men and women live together, the ancients believe that marrying a girl who "pouts" will inevitably have quarrels after marriage, and even some quarrels are inexplicable.
As the saying goes: "Home and everything is happy", if the wife is not ventilated, noisy and noisy all day, and has a small temper at both ends for three days, the days will be very sad.
Second, don't marry a man who marries Tian tian lei.
The second half of the proverbial sentence is mainly to figure out what is called "daily base", the so-called base, in fact, refers to playing mahjong.
Mahjong has a long history, and it is more common to say that mahjong originated in the Ming Dynasty when Zheng He went to the West. Because mahjong is square, like a piece of brick after a piece, when playing mahjong, it is four houses in the east, west, south and north, and the mahjong on the desktop is like four walls, so the market also jokingly calls playing mahjong as "building a city wall"
No matter what you do, you must not do too much, and the same is true of playing mahjong. In the eyes of the ancients, after a man became a family, he was established.
After the man gets married, he becomes the pillar of the family, shoulders the responsibility of adopting a wife and a child, and should work diligently every day to ensure that the family has enough food and clothing and prospers. Even if you are free, you have to spend time with your family, spend time with your wife, and teach your children.
If a man is addicted to mahjong before marriage, it is considered a deduction for mate selection. Of course, the entertainment activities of the ancients are not many, mahjong is one, and now people's entertainment activities have increased, so it is not only limited to addicting to mahjong, addicted to games, addicted to the Internet, etc., are the same truth.