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Zhang Ziyi family portrait
Zhang Ziyi is an international film star with excellent character and art, and has a huge influence on Chinese people around the world. In addition to the role of an excellent actor, Zhang Ziyi is also a good daughter of filial piety and a warm sister-in-law.
Zhang Ziyi's sister-in-law Yin Xu is also a well-known actor, starring in many film and television works such as "The Legend of Mi Yue", "Serial Fight", "Good Man of the Tang Dynasty", "Long Time No See", etc.
It is said that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with, and Zhang Ziyi's mother and daughter-in-law Yin Xu have also disagreed over trivial matters in life and the concept of parenting. With his own mother on one side and his sister-in-law on the other, what will Zhang Ziyi do? How did she become a daughter-in-law herself?
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Zhang Ziyi was born in Beijing in 1979, his father Zhang Yuanxiao worked at a telecommunications company, and his mother Li Zhuosheng was a kindergarten teacher. Zhang Ziyi's brother is called Zhang Zinan, who is 6 years older than her.
Childhood Zhang Ziyi
When zhang Ziyi was a child, she was thin and sickly, and in order to enhance her daughter's immunity, Zhang Ziyi's parents sent her to xuanwu District Children's Palace to learn dance when she was 8 years old.
Zhang Ziyi, who has a talent for dance, was admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy Affiliated High School in 1990, focusing on folk dance.
In 1994, Zhang Ziyi was selected by the school to participate in the National Tao Li Cup Dance Competition and won the performance award in one fell swoop.
Before Zhang Ziyi graduated, many literary and art groups in Beijing extended an olive branch to her, intending to recruit her as a dancer. Zhang Ziyi felt that dancing was a youth meal and wanted to engage in a more lasting job, so she decided to apply for the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama.
Zhang Ziyi "Stars And Lights" Poster (1996)
Zhang Ziyi and mentor Chang Li
The Zhang family's parents have concerns, worried that their daughter will not be able to enter the university and will not be able to find a job in the future. At the beginning of 1996, director Sun Wenwen wrote and directed the film "Stars and Lights", and came to the Beijing Dance Academy To select actors, and Zhang Ziyi was selected.
The film is based on a true story, in which Zhang Ziyi plays the sick amputee girl "Chen Wei". The experience of "electrocution" has further strengthened Zhang Ziyi's determination to take the road of performance. Parents also see their daughter's potential and no longer stop her.
In September 1996, Zhang Ziyi was admitted to the Acting Department of the Central Academy of Drama as she wished. Many people in the class have studied acting, and some are still child stars, and Zhang Ziyi does not seem to be outstanding among them, which makes her very disappointed.
For a while, Zhang Ziyi wanted to cry as soon as she saw the school card of the Central Academy of Drama. With the help of the class teacher Chang Li, Zhang Ziyi quickly adjusted and gradually became the top student in the class.
Zhang Ziyi's "My Father and Mother" Stills (released in 1999)
In 1998, Zhang Yimou directed the film "My Father and Mother". Among the many actors who came to audition, he selected Zhang Ziyi at a glance.
In the film, Zhang Ziyi plays the female number one "Zhao Di", and the two male actors who play opposite her are Sun Honglei and Zheng Hao.
With her wonderful appearance in the film, Zhang Ziyi won the Best Actress Award of the 23rd Popular Film "Hundred Flowers Award" in one fell swoop, and before graduating from college, Zhang Ziyi became popular in the country.
In 1999, on the recommendation of Zhang Yimou, Zhang Ziyi starred in "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" directed by Ang Lee, and played against big-name movie stars Zhou Runfa and Yang Ziqiong.
Zhang Ziyi and Yang Ziqiong
Zhang Ziyi's "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" crew
In the film, Zhang Ziyi plays the heroine "Jade Jiaolong". During the filming, she was hung by Wei Ya more than ten meters in the air, and sharp bamboo leaves passed through her arms, and the back of her hands and arms were full of wounds. "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon" reached a global box office of $215 million, and Zhang Ziyi was indispensable.
After graduating from college in 2000, Zhang Ziyi entrusted his acting career to his brother Zhang Zinan. Under the operation of his brother, Zhang Ziyi took over the filming of "The New Biography of Shushan Mountain", "Samurai", "Rush Hour 2" and other films, becoming an international movie star.
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Zhang Ziyi is not only an excellent actor with superb acting skills, but also warm and wise in life. It is said that the sister-in-law is difficult to get along with, but she and her sister-in-law Yin Xu are sisters in love.
Yin Xu was born in 1983 in Anshan City, Liaoning Province, with a height of 1.68 meters, she is dignified and beautiful. At the age of 14, Yin Xu left Anshan to study dance in Beijing, and was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy in 2000.
When she was a junior in college, she attended a friend party and met Zhang Zinan. Zhang Zinan fell in love with her at first sight and began to pursue.
The wedding scene of Yin Xu and Zhang Zinan
Zhang Ziyi's parents
On January 1, 2006, Zhang Zinan and Yin Xu were married in Beijing, when Zhang Ziyi was filming the film "Night Feast" in Arshan, Inner Mongolia.
On the day of the marriage of her brother and sister-in-law, Zhang Ziyi took a day off to rush back to Beijing. She gave her sister-in-law a diamond ring made for 200,000 yuan from the United States, and said in front of the guests: "Today is my happiest day, I wish my brother and sister-in-law white head and old age, love each other for a lifetime, happy for a lifetime!" Yin Xu tearfully spilled the wedding scene.
After marriage, Yin Xu lived with her in-laws. Zhang Ziyi returned home from filming in other places, and also lived under the same roof with her parents and brother-in-law.
In October 2006, Yin Xu gave birth to his daughter Xiaoyue in Beijing. In 2008, she gave birth to her son, Little Star. After becoming a mother of a pair of children, Yin Xu did not have the time and energy to take over the drama again, and every day when he opened his eyes, he circled around the children and the family, and there were many hardships in life.
Yin Xu
Yin Xu and Zhang Zinan
Two children, a big housework, Yin Xu and a nanny can not cope with it, and the in-laws are busy all day long. In the evening, the nanny went home, and all the housework fell on Yin Xu and her in-laws. Cooking, washing dishes, hygiene, coaxing children to sleep... Bit by bit, Yin Xu and his mother-in-law were tired.
When encountering a child with a cold and fever, the mother-in-law will nag and nag when she is in a hurry, and she does not pay attention to the way and method of speaking. Yin Xu thought that her mother-in-law was blaming herself, and her heart was full of grievances.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different personalities, eating habits, behavior patterns, and the concept of educating children. There is a lot of backlog of trivial matters, and Yin Xu and his mother-in-law sometimes stumble.
In fact, this is a normal family contradiction, every household has it, but Li Zhuosheng is a little difficult to accept. After Zhang Ziyi returned home, she couldn't help but nag in front of her daughter.
Zhang Ziyi and his mother
Many daughters encounter this situation and will be biased towards their mothers, but Zhang Ziyi has a lot of wisdom in life. She knows that her mother and sister-in-law are not related by blood, and they come together all by their in-laws, and if they are partial to their mother, it will aggravate the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Besides, there is no perfect person in the world, and my mother also has something wrong.
Therefore, Zhang Ziyi patiently comforted her mother: "It is not easy for my sister-in-law to marry in Beijing, her parents are not around, and now we are her relatives, and we must be more considerate of her." She gave birth to two babies in succession, and it was really not easy to circle around the children all day long. ”
Zhang Ziyi said this, and her mother did not squeak.
Yin Xu and her husband Zhang Zinan
Subsequently, Zhang Ziyi hugged her nephew to her sister-in-law's room and sincerely communicated with her: "Sister-in-law, our mother is getting old day by day, she loves to nag, you don't put it in your heart." Your contribution to this family, my brother and I know. ”
Originally, Yin Xu had a small knot in his heart, and after listening to Zhang Ziyi's warm words, the knot melted like ice and snow.
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In order to harmonize the relationship between her sister-in-law and her mother, Zhang Ziyi often said that her sister-in-law was good in front of her mother and good in front of her sister-in-law.
When it comes to the Spring Festival every year, and the birthdays of her sister-in-law and mother, Zhang Ziyi will buy gifts in advance, let her mother give them to her sister-in-law, and let her sister-in-law give them to her mother.
Zhang Ziyi and her parents
Every year in the autumn when the weather is sunny, Zhang Ziyi will also pay for a good travel agency to let the sister-in-law's family go out with her parents. Under the lubrication of Zhang Ziyi, Yin Xu's relationship with her mother-in-law became more and more harmonious.
Sometimes the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still have differences in educating the baby, and even quarrel, but both sides can accept it calmly and do not go to their hearts.
In 2011, Yin Xu had been married for 5 years, but relatives from her mother's side rarely came to the house.
Once Zhang Ziyi and her sister-in-law pulled a family routine and learned that a relative of her mother's family had come to Beijing to run an errand, but had not come to the house as a guest. It turned out that Yin Xu was worried that her mother's family would cause trouble to her in-laws' family and did not invite the other party to the door.
Zhang Ziyi said to Yin Xu: "Sister-in-law, this is your home, your relatives from your mother's family have come to Beijing from afar, how can you not let the other party come to the house?" Don't do that in the future. Yin Xu agreed.
Zhang Ziyi
Yin Xu and his college classmate Dong Xuan
Then Zhang Ziyi told her mother about this matter and reminded: "In the future, when the sister-in-law's mother-in-law's family comes to the house, you and your father should be warm, otherwise it will appear that we are not close to people." ”
Li Zhuosheng was actually a kind and loving old man, and after that, relatives from the daughter-in-law's mother's family came to the house, and Li Zhuosheng and his wife not only invited them to eat outside, but also prepared gifts for them when they left.
When they meet Zhang Ziyi at home, they will also send them local specialties from Beijing. The mother's family said to Yin Xu: "Your sister-in-law and in-laws are really good, and they are really cultivated as a person." Yin Xu felt a wisp of happiness in his heart.
Lubricated by Zhang Ziyi, Yin Xu and his mother-in-law lived under one roof for more than ten years, and there was almost no quarrel. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law treat each other frankly, and they have never secretly competed, and the atmosphere in the home is warm and harmonious.
Mr. and Mrs. Yin Xu and a pair of children
In 2012, her daughter went to elementary school and her son went to kindergarten, and Yin Xu's physical burden was reduced.
Zhang Ziyi encouraged her sister-in-law to make a comeback: "You are an excellent actor, and now that your children are older, it is time to go out and shoot." ”
Over the years, Yin Xu has trapped himself at home, in fact, there are regrets in his heart. Several times she dreamed of filming on the set, waking up in the middle of the night with tears in her eyes.
So Yin Xu began to sculpt at home to prepare for his comeback. However, her husband and mother-in-law adapted to Yin Xu's life at home and did not approve of her comeback, which made Yin Xu fall into distress.
After Zhang Ziyi returned home from filming outside, he did the work of his brother and mother respectively, and they finally agreed to Let Yin Xu go out to shoot.
Yin Xu stills
Yin Xu is very measured in his work, only taking over 1 film and television drama every year, and trying to take time out to take care of the family and a pair of children.
In the following years, Yin Xu starred in many popular dramas such as "Good Man of the Tang Dynasty", "Serial Fight", "The Legend of Mi Yue", "Long Time No See", "Mr. Love", "Yanxi Raiders" and many other popular dramas, which were deeply loved by the audience.
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Zhang Ziyi harmonized the relationship between her sister-in-law and her mother, in fact, she was also a filial daughter-in-law.
In 2015, Zhang Ziyi married the famous rock singer Wang Feng, and after marriage, she gave birth to a daughter and a son. Zhang Ziyi himself has two biological children and also brings his stepdaughter with him.
Wang Feng especially served Zhang Ziyi, and one of the most important reasons was that Zhang Ziyi was tolerant and took care of his stepdaughter Xixi as her own daughter.
Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng
In an interview, Wang Feng said emotionally: "Ziyi's patience and meticulousness for Xixi can't even do it, she is really a good mother without selfishness, and her heart is very sunny." ”
Soon after marrying Wang Feng, Zhang Ziyi will take her mother-in-law Gu Yuezhen to live with her. But the mother-in-law felt that the two generations still had to have their own space, so they insisted on living alone.
Her father-in-law had long since died, and Zhang Ziyi often went to visit her mother-in-law with her husband. She sent living expenses and pocket money to her mother-in-law, and bought food and clothing for her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law has diabetes, and Zhang Ziyi bought her a blood glucose meter and hypoglycemic drugs.
She calculated that her mother-in-law's medicine was almost finished, and she would buy it and send it over.
Zhang Ziyi couple with baby
In January 2020, Zhang Ziyi gave birth to her second baby. At this time, the new crown pneumonia epidemic broke out around the world, and Zhang Ziyi was confined at home.
In April of that year, her mother-in-law developed diabetic complications and was hospitalized in the hospital. Every day, when zhang Ziyi took advantage of his son's nap, he wrapped himself tightly and went to the hospital to take care of his mother-in-law.
She cut the apple into cubes and inserted a toothpick to make it easier for her mother-in-law to eat. She took care of her mother-in-law to take medicine, accompanied her mother-in-law to pull home cooking, and alleviated her psychological anxiety.
Although Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng gave their mother-in-law the greatest filial piety, the elderly Gu Yuezhen unfortunately died of illness in May of that year.
Wang Feng took his mother to do a program on tv
Talking about her mother-in-law Zhang Ziyi's tears fell like rain
Because during the epidemic period, Zhang Ziyi and her husband simply handled the aftermath of their mother-in-law, so not many people knew about the death of Wang Mother.
Before the mother-in-law left, she took Zhang Ziyi's hand and cried tears: "I really don't want to leave you, you are more intimate than my daughter, and I still want to be a mother-in-law with you in the next life." Zhang Ziyi caressed her mother-in-law's thin hand, and tears welled up.
Bidding farewell to her mother-in-law, Zhang Ziyi and her husband took the drama seriously and acted innocently, so as to miss the old man in heaven.
In January 2021, Zhang Ziyi's sister-in-law Yin Xu gave birth to her third child in Beijing. At this time, Yin Xu was already 38 years old, and Zhang Ziyi was both distressed and admired his sister-in-law.
Yin Xu and the three-child baby "Ruyi"
Mr. and Mrs. Zhang Ziyi with two daughters
Li Zhuosheng is also more distressed about her daughter-in-law, and she is over 70 years old and takes the initiative to take care of her daughter-in-law's confinement. Zhang Ziyi also often takes the child to visit her sister-in-law at her mother's house, and the three women sit around and twitter, talking and laughing, as if they are 3 mothers and daughters.
epilogue:
"Celebrity" comments: When I was an editor and reporter in a well-known media in the country, I interviewed Zhang Ziyi and her brother Zhang Zinan at the company of Zhang Zinan on Xueyuan Road in Beijing's Haidian District.
Zhang Ziyi in life is simple, has no star shelf, and is very nurturing. Generally, the reporter arrives first, and many stars enter the scene late even if they arrive first in order to highlight their identity.
Zhang Ziyi arrived a quarter of an hour in advance and took the initiative to thank reporters, saying that it was "hard." At the end of the interview, she also sent the author to the elevator entrance.
Zhang Ziyi was red quickly and red for a long time, which caused the jealousy of a very small number of people. Some media outlets weave up her fake news for eyeballs. So many netizens misunderstood Zhang Ziyi.
She is actually a kind, righteous, and caring actress. Once, in an interview with a media, Zhang Ziyi, who was wearing thin clothes, was frozen and shivering because the radiator in the house was broken, but she did not complain and insisted on finishing the interview.
Zhang Ziyi's success is not for no reason, condensing her wisdom, talent and efforts. She had the same opportunities as others, but when the opportunity came, she had the ability to seize it.
No actor will become popular for no reason, but their efforts are not seen. This sentence was said by Zhang Yimou, and it could not be more appropriate to use on Zhang Ziyi.
Later, the author attended the wedding of actress Yang Unrepentant and met Zhang Ziyi's sister-in-law Yin Xu. Yin Xu and Yang Bu regret are classmates of the Beijing Film Academy, and she also accepted an interview with the author and talked about her sister-in-law relationship with Zhang Ziyi.
Yin Xu is dignified and beautiful, very cultured, and also left a good impression on the author. Judging from the author's interview, Zhang Ziyi and Yin Xu are actors with good character and art, and it is not difficult to understand that they can love sisters.
It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with, and sisters-in-law are difficult to get along with But the story of Zhang Ziyi's affection with her sister-in-law and mother tells us: as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the sister-in-law treat each other frankly, when the other party is a relative and warms each other with heart, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can also love the same mother and daughter, and the sister-in-law can also love the same sister!
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