A friend told her about a real emotional experience.
They are introverts who are single to each other, and they meet at a dinner party between different friends. During the banquet, the boys were very silent, the girls did not like to talk, and they both ate quietly while listening to the people around them talking about the mountains.
After the dinner was over, everyone added WeChat to each other and said goodbye lightly.
Later, they met a few times at different dinner tables, smiled and said hello to each other.
Girls love food and often share some pictures of eating and drinking in the circle of friends. The boy would occasionally give a thumbs up and comment lightly.
I don't know what day it started, but the boy was suddenly keen to share his daily routine with the girl every day.
Like what songs he listened to, what delicious food he ate, where he went, what he did, even the colors he liked, how many small pets he had at home, etc...
It all seemed like trivial trifles, but the boy was happy to share it.
The girl had some hazy affection for the boy, but she hid it well. She responded faintly, not knowing how to determine the boy's intentions.
One day, the girl inadvertently mentioned a snack she liked to eat, but she didn't know which restaurant was the best.
So, from this day on, the girl can receive the boy's snack punch card record every day, and the message sent by the boy has pictures and addresses, as well as scoring evaluations after he finishes eating.
After two months of posting food records, the boy made a snack rating chart for the girl. It details the snack bars he selected as the most delicious, listed according to the delicious ratings from high to low, and carefully attached the address and whether there is a parking space sign.
Girls follow the list of boys to taste one by one. Every time she went, she would take a picture and send it to the boy, telling him whether he had eaten one bowl or two bowls, or which was especially delicious and she had specially packed it.
The days flowed like water. Although they do not meet often, the ambiguous affection between them spreads day by day. Occasionally, in the deliberate eye contact, there is an indescribable joy and loss.
No one had the courage to make that final deep breakthrough.
Until late one night, the boy sent the girl a song called "Proof of the Heartbeat.".
The girl listened to the song and looked at the lyrics:
"The distance between me and you, I can't see clearly at a glance, all the complicated emotions are inexplicably because of you...
Each time, again, you slowly approach and tell me, it's a testament to your heartbeat..."
The girl's heart was beating very hard inexplicably, and she held the phone and blushed and did not know how to reply.
Suddenly, a message from the boy popped up on the phone:
"I heard that to whomever you give your intense desire to share is to whom you give your enthusiasm and love!"
This time the girl no longer hesitated, she firmly called the boy's phone back ...
"Now, we've been together for two years and we're getting married soon." The friend finished talking about her experience and smiled shyly and sweetly.
Looking at her happy look, I suddenly remembered that sentence:
"The desire to share is the beginning of witnessing a relationship and the highest level of romanticism!"
So, do you have people who strongly want to share?