Years ago. One day, my sister-in-law came to borrow money from my daughter, who was a few months old, and I insisted that I didn't, but in fact, I had it, and the amount was not large. Yes, my brother is addicted to gambling, I always think about brotherhood, blood and sweat money left hundreds and hundreds of him to ask or "borrow" to go, even I have no money and once led him to borrow money from my alumni under his earnest request. He said in public that he would pay his debts after paying his salary, but he proved with his actions that I had been deceived again! Scams like just saying that finding a good job would send a medical check have been used against me several times. That's a brother, even if you know that he is a ghost in the morning, it is difficult for you to harden your heart! Again and again, again and again, I finally saw through my brother's treatment of us as brainless fools, as damn stupid pigs, and finally realized that I should not continue to be stupid as stupid pigs, otherwise wouldn't that be really stupid pigs? So I decided to let go of this "brotherhood" in my heart. Since then, I have never paid him any money, no matter whether he runs to say that he has no money to eat or says that he owes money to others to pay back or how, I have told him "calmly" again and again: "I don't have it, you see I eat sweet potatoes and cook noodles, there is no money." "At most you'll go to dinner, or I'll take a few bucks for you to take the car back." A few bucks and a dozen bucks he went on. He finally found that he had personally gone out to deceive his brother that the road had gone to the end, and when he hit the wall, he used a new trick: send my sister-in-law to hold a baby to "borrow money." Anyway, my brother has already put it down in my heart, and he still has to "borrow money"! Facing my sister-in-law and my niece of a few months old, my heart was hard and my heart was sour, or three words: No. However, that time should be given. But he must have used this trick repeatedly after that, I know my brother! After that, he still gambles that I don't know, but he no longer "borrows money" from me, which is a progress. In this way, even if he can't change his bad habits, at least he doesn't dare to leave a few cents to eat anymore, because the old brother is already an iron rooster, and he can't pull out a dime.