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Zhang Dinghan is known as the "goddess of ancient costumes",
She once played the first daughter of wulin Zhuge Mingyuexin in "Tianya Mingyuexin", and as soon as she appeared, she was very stunning.
Then she played the role of Gan Nineteen Sisters in "New Gan Nineteen Sisters", who has a superior mind, superb martial arts, heavy love and righteousness, and obeys the orders of the master, which is quite well received, and in "The Legend of Wu Mei Niang", she is even one person who plays two roles:
Among them, one is the virtuous and virtuous Shude, the noble and atmospheric empress dowager, and the other is the small family jasper, Chuchu moving Zheng Wanyan.
Zheng Wanyan stills
Zhang Dinghan is not from a science class,
She was transformed from a dancer to a film and television actress, but her plasticity is not bad at all compared to professional actors.
The costumed "chivalrous image" she played was bright and moving, and she changed into Datang makeup and showed the national color of Datang classical beauty;
In life, she is more fashionable and changeable, and she is spontaneous and dashing.
Zhang Dinghan Wang Zhifei
But she also had tangles, when she was being put on a stand.
Zhang Dinghan's husband is the well-known actor Wang Zhifei, the two are related to the drama, fall in love because of charity, and then make a promise for a lifetime.
People familiar with Wang Zhifei know that he had a marriage and a son, and then had a seven-year relationship with Zhang Xinyi.
So why would Zhang Dinghan fall in love with such an uncle and have children with him?
Wang Zhifei
This may be a divine destiny.
01 Fate is destined
Wang Zhifei, born in 1965 in Beijing, China, Hui, his parents are deaf and mute, so he has a deep affection for deaf and mute people since he was a child, and is determined to help these people as much as possible within his ability in the future.
The idea of becoming an actor was at the age of 10, when he was in the school, a teacher wrote a drama script, and Wang Zhifei had the honor of becoming one of them.
In the process of rehearsal, he knew the professional terms such as scripts, props, and dragon sets, and also knew the profession of an actor, so he decided to become an actor.
After going to high school, under the strict requirements of his teachers, Wang Zhifei developed the habit of observing things and recording his views and feelings at any time, which laid a solid foundation for him to act and shape characters in the future.
At the same time, it also doomed his future fate with Zhang Dinghan.
In 1984, 19-year-old Wang Zhifei was admitted to the Drama Troupe of the China Railway Cultural and Industrial Troupe.
At this time, Zhang Dinghan had just turned four years old and was still a carefree little girl in kindergarten.
In the drama troupe, Wang Zhifei was sent to the Central Academy of Drama for further study because of his good image and acting quality, and became classmates with Juanzi, Fu Biao, Lin Jinglai and others.
Jiang Wen
When Wang Zhifei entered the Chinese opera, it coincided with Jiang Wen's graduation,
At the graduation report performance, Jiang Wen's class performed a drama called "Family Events".
Among them, Jiang Wenna's performance of fully publicizing his personality made Wang Zhifei very shocked.
In 1987, after graduating from Chinese opera, Wang Zhifei adhered to the principle of only receiving three or four plays a year, acting steadily, and performing a road that belonged to Wang Zhifei.
Wang Zhifei at the time of "Highlighting the Siege"
In fact, Wang Zhifei's acting road is quite smooth, but there is a saying in the circle that "drama celebrities are not popular".
In 1987, Wang Zhifei, who had just graduated from Chinese opera, participated in Yin Li's "Good Dad Bad Dad", in which he played the teacher Chen Ping, which won the first prize of the Children's Television Series and the Outstanding Screenwriter Award of the China TV Drama Feitian Award after the broadcast.
Later, he participated in Chen Baoguo, Chen Daoming, Ge You's "Beiyang Water Division", as well as more than a dozen film and television dramas such as "Book of Swords and Vengeance", "Intruder", "East Look, West Look", "This Life Is Difficult to Return" and so on.
In 1999, in the military drama "Highlighting the Siege" starring Du Yulu, Zhang Zhizhong and Zheng Xiaoning, Wang Zhifei played Tang Long, a young commander of the A Division with modern military concepts, and won the Audience Favorite Supporting Actor Award at the First China Golden Eagle Television Arts Festival with this role.
Stills from "Stand Out"
This year, Wang Zhifei was 34 years old, and his career went to a new level.
At the same time, he also found a good wife in personal matters and had a four-year-old son, who can be said to have a double harvest of family business at this time.
02 Variable
But it is also with the busyness of his career that Wang Zhifei's relationship with his wife has a gap because of the lack of separation, and the feelings of the two are more and more estranged, which eventually leads to divorce.
After the divorce, the son was raised by Wang Zhifei.
Wang Zhifei's son Wang Ye
Wang Zhifei, who lost his marriage, put more energy into the creation of dramas, and he starred in more and more plays.
At this time, Zhang Dinghan, who was 19 years old, was transforming from a dancer to a film and television drama actor.
From the song and dance troupe to the drama troupe, from the stage to the screen, they will soon meet.
In 2000, Zhang Dinghan co-starred with Chen Baoguo, He Saifei and Si Qinggaowa in the family ethics drama "The Gate of the Great Mansion", in which she played Bai Jiali, the daughter of Yang Jiuhong.
Stills of the mansion door
Although this is Zhang Dinghan's first TV series, she has performed well without acting experience.
At this time, Zhang Dinghan definitely did not think that he would one day meet Wang Zhifei and later became his wife.
Zhang Dinghan because her mother likes to watch Wang Zhifei's plays very much, she often follows them, and after her transformation into a film and television actor, she has always regarded him as her predecessor on the road of drama.
In 2002, Zhang Dinghan played Zhu Yuanzhang's concubine Song Jingfei in "Queen Bigfoot", which was her first attempt at ancient costumes, and in the same year she also starred in the period emotional drama "Fairy Tale of the Ancient City" directed by Zhang Jinzhan.
Zhang Dinghan
03 Encounter
After starring in several film and television dramas, Zhang Dinghan's path as an actor has become more and more advanced.
Needless to say, Wang Zhifei's acting career has skyrocketed after winning the award.
In 2003, Wang Zhifei starred with Meng Guangmei and others in Gao Qunshu's "Metamorphosis".
Zhang Dinghan was also fortunate to participate in the role, she played Gao Xiaowen in it, but the two did not have many opponents in the play, so the two did not have any intersection
In "Metamorphosis", Wang Zhifei played Li Xiaolu
Wang Zhifei was a full 15 years older than Zhang Dinghan, and she was still a child in his eyes.
Therefore, the two are simply colleagues in the same crew, and Zhang Dinghan only treats him as a senior.
In the decade since, the two have not been in touch at all.
In the past ten years, Wang Zhifei's love life has also undergone great changes.
Wang Zhifei and Zhang Xinyi
First divorced with his wife, and then when he collaborated with Zhang Xinyi on "The Wind Blows the Clouds", he fell in love because of the drama,
Then the two began a 7-year relationship.
The play is Zhang Xinyi's debut into the show business circle, born in 1981, she was only 23 years old at the time, full of youth,
Even if she and Wang Zhifei are a full 16 years apart, they can't stop the two of them from falling in love.
However, the relationship eventually ended under a statement by Wang Zhifei.
As for this difference between teenagers, talking for a full 7 years, preparing to enter the relationship of marriage and marriage, why it will go to the point of breaking up, the outside world is full of opinions, and we do not know what the truth is.
Only 7 months after the relationship ended, Zhang Xinyi admitted to her relationship with Yang Shupeng and registered her marriage in 2013.
Poplar Tree Peng
But Zhang Xinyi's marriage with Yang Shupeng lasted only a little over a year before ending.
Fortunately, in the end, she met Yuan Hong, cultivated the right results, and Wang Zhifei also met Zhang Dinghan and harvested happiness.
04 Reunion
After "Metamorphosis" in 2003, Wang Zhifei and Zhang Dinghan had no contact for ten years.
In the past ten years, Zhang Dinghan has changed from an obscure actor to a well-known actor, and has starred in many dramas such as "Yangmen Tiger General", "Blade 1937", "Non-Father and Son", "Thirty Years After Marriage", "Goodbye Sunny Days" and so on.
It is reasonable to say that the two have not been in contact for ten years, and have not cooperated in film and television dramas, so it is difficult to meet again.
But fate is so peculiar, maybe this is the fate of fate.
The two met again at the school for the deaf and dumb, as mentioned earlier, because Wang Zhifei's parents are deaf and mute.
Therefore, he has a special affection for deaf and mute people, and after his parents have died in middle age, he can only transfer his parents' longing to those deaf children.
When he went to the school for the deaf and mute to meet Zhang Dinghan and learned that she had insisted on doing this for a long time,
He instantly felt that she was no longer the little girl she was then, but an adult, especially in the matter of helping deaf and dumb people, and when his own ideas had long been put into practice, there was a warm current in his heart.
For Zhang Dinghan, she had also heard some things about Wang Zhifei at that time.
She looked at him so low at that time, and then thought about how spirited he was, her heart was painful.
Wang Zhifei Zhang Dinghan
So the two hearts slowly approached, and during that time, Zhang Dinghan became a "confidant sister".
Wang Zhifei, who was at an emotional trough, was comforted by her, and the two fell in love and soon entered into marriage.
This marriage was originally not optimistic at the beginning, and even Zhang Dinghan's mother did not agree, although Zhang Dinghan said that she was an old fan of Wang Zhifei.
But in the face of her flower-like daughter-in-law marrying this man who is more than ten years older than her, or a second marriage with a child, she does not feel that this is a good son-in-law candidate.
Zhang Dinghan and his mother
05 Sincerely
For Zhang Dinghan, who has fallen in love with Wang Zhifei,
Her parents' opinions at this time did not matter, even if they did not agree, as long as she herself identified, they could not do anything with her.
But Wang Zhifei is after all a person who has experienced the world, he will not follow her wayward, he will find a way to get the approval of the future mother-in-law.
In order to make Zhang Dinghan's family feel his sincerity, he invited their family to have a meal, and at the dinner table, he said to Zhang Dinghan's parents: "I was divorced, I was discouraged by my feelings, since I met Dinghan, my heart is hot again." ”
Then he took out a folder with a plan he had made for his future life.
It customized what kind of living conditions he and Zhang Dinghan wanted to achieve every five years.
Zhang Dinghan's parents did not expect Wang Zhifei to come prepared, they carefully browsed his customized content, from marriage, having children, filming, buying a house and even the pension of the second old.
Although Wang Zhifei took the initiative to let Zhang Dinghan's parents see his sincerity, he did not directly obtain the approval of the second elder.
Zhang Dinghan's mother
Until Zhang Dinghan's mother ran to wang Zhifei's community,
After talking to the security guards and the neighbor's aunt, she inquired about Wang Zhifei's personality everywhere, and then she was relieved to hand over her daughter to her.
Subsequently, a casual conversation made Wang Zhifei hug the beauty.
At that time, they fell in love not long ago, Wang Zhifei and Zhang Dinghan chatted when the sudden whim, looking for three stores to see if there is a suitable ring for Zhang Dinghan, because Zhang Dinghan is very thin, her fingers are also very slender, to find the right one may be difficult.
Zhang Dinghan Wang Zhifei in the mall
06 Providence
But Wang Zhifei decided to gamble, he took Zhang Dinghan's hand and ran to the store, they found a whole three stores, and there was indeed no ring suitable for Zhang Dinghan.
You can imagine the complexity of the two people's hearts at the moment.
Wang Zhifei thought that the sky would not help me, and Zhang Dinghan's heart was even more entangled.
Can't get married if you can't find it? Or did you find it and marry yourself like that? Wouldn't it be a bit sloppy?
But really did not find the right time, the heart is still a little lost, watching the two people in love because they did not find the right ring and discouraged, the clerk is unbearable, she suddenly remembered that there is still inventory in the storeroom, maybe there is a suitable.
I didn't expect to find a ring suitable for Zhang Dinghan's finger in the storeroom, everything was really providential.
When Wang Zhifei got the ring, he knelt down on one knee and proposed to Zhang Dinghan, under the witness of the mall people,
Wang Zhifei successfully proposed marriage and rushed home to take the household registration book to get a certificate.
On October 6, 2013, the two held a romantic and gorgeous wedding.
The wedding ceremony was presided over by Zhu Shimao,
The wedding scene was full of stars, Zhang Jiayi Sun Nan and others as groomsmen, Guo Degang, Yu Qian, Gao Xixi, Liu Bei, Liu Zhibing, Li Mingqi, Wang Yaoqing, Ren Quan and many other big coffees all came to the scene to bless.
At the wedding, Wang Zhifei expressed his deep feelings to Zhang Dinghan:
When I felt that there was no home in life, you told me that you had a warm nest there to take me in, which made me feel warm and at the same time very touched, thank you, wife.
When the kite line tied with the ring was getting closer and closer in Zhang Dinghan's hand, Wang Zhifei emotionally said that he was the kite.
No matter how high and far he flew, the thread was dragged in Zhang Dinghan's hand, romantic and affectionate.
In addition to expressing their hearts to each other, at the wedding, the two gave each other a special gift, which moved the guests present to tears.
Zhang Dinghan hid from Wang Zhifei and spent a month and a half to paint an oil painting to him, which was a still from Wang Zhifei's acting career, which was the most handsome for Zhang Dinghan.
Wang Zhifei was surprised by this gift, because their time of contact was too short, he did not know that his wife was so talented and could paint oil paintings, and he later confirmed with Zhang Dinghan again that the painting was painted by herself.
Zhang Dinghan did not hesitate: "Of course, there are more surprises waiting for you in the future, and you will slowly find out that I am good." ”
Subsequently, Wang Zhifei also gave Zhang Dinghan a gift that was not like a gift, but for Zhang Dinghan it was a special gift, a gift that she could taste for a lifetime.
It turned out that Wang Zhifei's gift to Zhang Dinghan was a VCR, and in the video he ran all over the hospital where Zhang Dinghan was born, the coal mine literary troupe he attended and worked in, and even ran to Canada.
Looking for roots and sources, he went to trace Zhang Dinghan's past growth footprints,
At the same time, he expressed his deep love for Zhang Dinghan affectionately in it.
More than thirty years ago, he never thought that he would merge with Zhang Dinghan.
He thanked her parents for bringing her little swallow into the world and raising her, and he had not accompanied her every step of the way in the past, and I would definitely accompany you afterwards.
Zhang Dinghan was so touched by this special gift that in her own words:
"I had never received such a gift before, surprising and touching myself, but now I had, and very down-to-earth, the feeling of dying."
Indeed, anyone can be touched by this special gift, which is a heart rooted in a person's heart.
And anyone who faces his lover says to you: From now on you belong to me, and I belong to you, and I belong to you, and I belong to you to discipline.
07 Steady happiness
In the face of such an affectionate and romantic person, who does not have a heart beat faster?
However, Zhang Dinghan is really worthy of Wang Zhifei's treatment of her like this, because she is not only beautiful, but also very kind, and she is more tolerant and accommodating to Wang Zhifei.
When they got married, Wang Zhifei had no house and no property, only a work car, and the marriage room was still vacated by Zhang Dinghan's parents, that is to say, Zhang Dinghan was not a girl who loved money.
Wang Zhifei said, "Beautiful women can make men stay for a short time, and only wise women can make men stay forever." ”
In his heart, Zhang Dinghan is a smart woman, because she never wanted to change her, but infinitely humble him.
Wang Zhifei said that when he reached middle age, many concepts and habits were difficult to change, but Zhang Dinghan never blamed him, but was infinitely tolerant of him, which made him reflect:
People and girls let me, my big masters are so much older than others, and they are so kind to others, isn't this bullying people girls?
So the final result is that Wang Zhifei doubled down on letting her and treating her as a treasure, so he always felt that Zhang Dinghan was a wise woman.
Zhang Dinghan mother and baby
After marriage, Zhang Dinghan's career went to a new level,
Filmed "New Gan Nineteen Sisters", "The Legend of Wu Meiniang", "Guardian" and other dramas, and at the same time ushered in the crystallization of their love.
In 2015, Zhang Dinghan gave birth to a lovely daughter.
Wang Zhifei, who was over fifty years old and then became a father, was overjoyed, and he held this little cotton jacket in his hand and felt painful.
In order not to miss the moment of his daughter's growth, Wang Zhifei pushed off some dramas and spent more time with his daughter.
Even if he was busy and tired, he insisted on telling his daughter bedtime stories.
Sometimes in order to help his daughter understand, he will also role-play, giving full play to his role as an actor.
Sometimes he was so tired that he went to sleep and was woken up by his daughter's "snapping", and he wouldn't get angry.
A family of three
Looking at his Weibo, in addition to normal work publicity, most of them record happy moments with their daughters.
As a mother, Zhang Dinghan is naturally extremely happy,
In her Weibo, most of them record the daily life of a family of three, and between the words are the love for this "uncle", she sometimes calls him "Dabao", of course, no matter how the title changes, the only constant is the love between them.
From the drama of ten years ago, to the love of charity ten years later, into marriage, although fast, but at the right time to meet the right person, everything is just right.
Now that they have been married for eight years and have given birth to a lovely daughter, the feelings between them are still so deep,
Wherever they go, they hold hands wherever they go, they are like-minded, doing the same love of actor work, insisting on doing public welfare,
In addition to donating 680,000 yuan in prize money at the wedding to the China Lions Federation for the rehabilitation and treatment of deaf and mute children, they also took a word from their names to form the "Han Ai FeiYang" fund to continue to help those in need.
Outside of work, they are a loving couple, mutual respect, mutual tolerance, and a happy family life.
Balzac said: "The happiness of marriage is not entirely based on prominent status and property, but on mutual respect." ”
Zhang Dinghan and Wang Zhifei became acquainted because of drama, fell in love because of charity, and then flashed marriage naked marriage, supported each other, and tolerated each other.
In his heart, she is not only beautiful but also very wise woman, and he is willing to stay for her forever;
In her eyes, he is a handsome and patterned husband, as soon as he knows him, he feels warm, willing to put on a wedding dress for him and have children, which should be the best look of love.
Zhang Dinghan Wang Zhifei celebrated his birthday with the children
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