preface:
The level of happiness of each of us basically depends on ourselves and also on our personality.
But many people overlook this, and we use luck and money as indicators of luck.
In fact, those who are really good know the positive meaning of taking advantage of competition.
They will also see the strengths of others and strive to surpass and catch up.
Instead of blindly jealousy of the other party in your heart.
A really good person, they not only have IQ but also emotional intelligence, self-control is also very worthy of our learning.
So those who are good rarely regard others as enemies.
Because they can use better advantages to create more sense of identity.
In life, whether it is good or evil, it can teach us some truths.
A true master is a good person in the eyes of a good person, and there are no enemies around him.
After all, life is very weak, and when it is strong, it is strong.
There will never be an enemy, and we must treat all the people of this world as our benefactors.
When we are full of gratitude and hope for everything, we will find that life will get better and better.
When a person thinks that he still has an enemy, he will tolerate the other party.
When a person still has hatred in their hearts, such people can say that it is very pitiful to live, because they live in grief every day.
Who is the enemy? He is just a shadow of our eggs.
So our original nature is good, so we don't have to make enemies everywhere.
When our enemies become human, we will find that they teach us to take it step by step toward enlightenment.
Value judgment
We always see the effort and effort of others in life, but they struggle with procrastination and laziness.
Because of the influence of society, each of us wants to be the best we think we are.
However, we Dragon Kings only see the good in others, but we don't see how the other party gives.
People's sense of superiority and self-identity arises from being in a certain evaluation system.
When you're at a low level, it doesn't necessarily mean you don't have the strength.
So at this time, we should not lower our self-value judgment, but stimulate ourselves to cheer ourselves up.
It's a very anxious cycle of death, and if we can't get out of it, it's getting worse and worse.
So at this time, we must see through ourselves and help ourselves grow.
Reduce the evaluation of those around you
When we unconsciously want to evaluate a person, we mainly ask ourselves some questions.
What qualities do we have in this person that we ourselves have, so why should we judge others?
This approach will attract our attention so that we and others can solve it directly.
In this way, we can also see clearly what bad behaviors we have in ourselves that are the same as others.
At this time, we must quickly correct and reduce the evaluation of others.
Of course, we should no longer care what others say about us.
When we really put our posture right, we will find that our own lives are very meaningful, rather than needing to be known to others.
They are really people who live thoroughly, they have a broad heart, and they can also accommodate the things around them very well.
Because their inner pattern is very large, life will become more transparent.
Treating others as enemies is an act of self-aggression
If we don't have the real ability, no amount of self-consolation is just a mirage.
Therefore, excellent people rarely regard others as enemies, because they are at an advantage in the social value judgment system.
So the better people are, the more they know what the positive implications of taking advantage of competition are.
They see the merits of others and strive to transcend them, rather than blindly jealousy and belittling in their hearts.
In doing so, we will only slowly lose ourselves.
One day you will understand that there is no enemy in the hearts of those who truly live and understand.
At this time, we will only learn from others because they are good.
When we are strong enough in our hearts, we will find ourselves stronger and stronger.
The more thoroughly a person lives this life, the more wonderful it will be found.
Do what you love and do it again, live where you like, and live the life you want.
In this way, we live out the essence and meaning of life.
Conclusion: Those who really live and understand have no enemies in their hearts, this is transparency.
People who have hurt us, we have to learn to let go, and this kind of harm will never hurt us.
And don't go near anything you don't know,
Only in this way will we live a very happy life every day, and we will feel relaxed when we wake up.
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