Bubble Brother No. 121 share
Author: Bubbles
Source: Bubbles says time management
Hello! I am a bubble brother, today is my 716th day of getting up early at 5 o'clock, the 1216th day of sports, the 1216th day of writing a diary, the 1216th day of meditation, the 1015th day of bookkeeping, and the 1611th day of reading. 1 month to lose 20 pounds, 3 months to quit 15 years of cigarettes, 1 year to read 200 good books, 1 year to tutor 1w+ students, become a partner of Haiyou Time Education Company, time management maker program quarterly best tutor.
Boys come in and girls can quickly paddle through. What is said next may contradict your three views, but it also reveals the true face of human nature.
How does a boy really mature?
【Start thinking with your lower body】
When a man begins to face up to his desires and admit that he is hungry for a human body, this is called maturity. Mature men's purpose is clear and realistic, but you young guys are not willing to admit that you are still half self-motivated.
[I will no longer easily expose my inner thoughts]
When you don't even shy away from showing the hole card, you have no value, and no one will cherish you anymore. Just as a TV series without spoilers is the most appealing, half-detached women are the most seductive. You never know a person's goodness or malice, whether it will be flowers or daggers that will wait for you when you turn around.
They understand that different classes of people have different points of view, there is no standard answer to everything, and it is possible to be right in different positions. When you look at things from a more inclusive perspective, many things that make you indignant suddenly become clear.
[I will no longer want to live in order to love someone]
I love you and I'll go and give for you, but I have my own bottom line. If I take 99 steps and you don't even take a step toward me, then even if I like you again, I won't continue. I don't lack love, so I dare to give up love that doesn't belong to me, and I won't be a spare tire that you will only think of when you are lonely.
[No longer self-centered, know how to consider each other's feelings]
There is a buddy around him who is such a model, every time his girlfriend comes to menstruation, he will prepare a few boxes of warm drinks in advance.
[I will no longer go to white prostitution, know how to respect the intellectual achievements of others]
Treat everyone with kindness and be grateful for the results of others' efforts. What others do may not be perfect, but it does not prevent you from affirming that his efforts, a compliment of your own, will become the warmth that others need in their hearts.
It's like when you see a good article, silently like it to show your approval, and treat everyone around you with your own kindness. You will be happier.
Where you will go, who you will meet, is not certain. It's like you met me today, it's all predestined.
I am a bubble, and may we all live up to this encounter.
Write at the end
Maturity is learning to let go, learning not to care, learning to be kind to yourself.
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