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The daughter said to her father, "I want to sign up for an interest class to learn to draw." After the father looked at the balance of the card, he helplessly said to his daughter: "When Dad pays his salary next month, he will report to you for work, okay?" ”
The daughter muttered a small mouth and said disapprovingly: You say this every time, but you still can't do it. After saying that, he ran back to his room, leaving his father alone to hurt himself.
Where will the daughter know that her father in her 40s, who has no skills, lives every day like a thin ice, afraid of losing his job. In the face of the leader's difficulties, in the face of the exclusion of colleagues, in the face of customer incomprehension, he can only tolerate. It's not that there is no temper, it's just that I don't dare to have a seizure.
He couldn't take risks, and he didn't dare to take risks. Today, he has both old and young, once unemployed, the mortgage and car loans are unsupported, and the family can't even eat, let alone give his daughter a picture class.
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Why do you live like this? Thinking back to when I was young, I wantonly squandered my time, got by, and regretted not being in the beginning.
If you had spent time reading novels, playing games, chasing dramas, chatting, etc. on self-improvement and learning a skill, you might be able to have more competitiveness today.
When I was 30 years old, I thought about resigning because I was dissatisfied with the status quo, and I tried to struggle hard, but I never plucked up enough courage and continued to stay where I was, muddy until I was in my 40s.
Nowadays, even if you are unwilling, you can only continue to live repeatedly according to the past days. The only difference is that there is more and more anxiety and more worry. I don't dare to get sick, I don't dare to go out, and I don't dare to express my true self. The saddest thing is that they can't give their families the life they want.
When you look at the leader spending money like flowing water, the luxury car and the beautiful house are all available, and the children have everything they want, it is really harmless not to compare. But who can blame all this? Who called you unmotivated before? Who told you to get by before? Who told you that you didn't have a plan for your life before? Whoever told you to mess around all day was still so natural.
Choose to be comfortable at the age of struggle, choose to mix when you should work well, choose to withdraw when you have the courage to resign, do not chase when you have dreams, and step by step let your life lose the initiative, only to find that everything has long been more than enough and insufficient.
Losing the initiative of life, the next can only live every day trembling, like walking on thin ice. This is the sadness of adults! Time is gone, and it is dusk to figure out.
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Take advantage of youth, if there is a dream, go after it; take advantage of youth, and don't give up hope; take advantage of youth, don't let people lose the initiative step by step; take advantage of youth, don't choose comfort. I have worked hard, I have struggled, I have struggled, even in the end I have achieved nothing, at least I have no regrets.
Be the master of your own life, may you and I live as we want.
Introduction: Sweet Mom, a sentimental, penitential and good at observing life. Welcome to exchange and discuss in the comment area.