Talk to you about the topic of heart, do you remember the day of the Wenchuan earthquake? That night, everyone's hearts were tightly linked.
Dig Sauce remembers that the surrounding area was shaking for a while and then stopped, and everyone thought that the nearby construction site was drilling the ground.
It wasn't until half an hour later, when the news came, that we learned that a huge natural disaster had just occurred that had destroyed countless families.
The prosperous town was reduced to ruins in an instant, and now that more than a decade has passed, we have not forgotten the beauty and tenacity of those earthquakes. The fist of the child who was still holding a drill knife before dying and trying to save himself.
The back of the thin boy who had walked with his sister on his back for more than 10 hours to flee the disaster area.
The wife was in labor but had to endure the encouragement of the transfer because of the earthquake.
Those tears and cheers after each digging out of the rubble of living life.
That year we met many people born again from the TV news. More than a decade later, what happened to the familiar faces of that year's earthquake?
Digging sauce recently brushed the Kuaishou documentary "The Great Mother and Daughter", and Liao Zhi, a dancer who lost his daughter and legs in the 2008 earthquake, reappeared in people's vision.
Many people may not be familiar with her, before the earthquake, she was young and beautiful, dancing smartly, and had a daughter who was 10 months old, which was simply a template for a happy life.
A relentless earthquake left her losing her daughter, her legs broken, and she plunged into the abyss of pain.
13 years later, how is she doing now?
After watching the documentary, I found that she had long since come out of the disaster and had two cute babies in a family.
At the same time, she also made short videos to share her life and encourage people with disabilities to integrate into society.
At the same time, she also returned to her hometown, and for the first time, she talked to her mother Bai Jiarong about the pain of childhood, trying to untie the knots of her heart for many years.
Digging Sauce not only felt sorry for her encounter in the earthquake, but also moved by her change, and praised her and her mother for resolving their resentment with love.
"I am a victim of Wenchuan and a volunteer from Ya'an"
Now Liao Zhi, wearing a prosthetic limb to walk with the wind, doing speeches and opening a company, seems to live no different from ordinary people, but in fact, she can transition from the earthquake victims to the current state, completely to death.
On the day of the earthquake, wenchuan was shaken, and Liao Zhi, his daughter and mother-in-law were pressed under the wall, and a steel bar was inserted into the soles of her feet.
More painfully, the vibration just stopped, and the mother-in-law told Liao Zhi that the daughter worm had "fallen asleep".
Then the mother-in-law was also waiting for the process, breathing weaker and weaker, and passed away on the spot.
Two relatives died one after another in front of him, making Liao Zhi almost collapse.
She gave up the idea of living and stopped shouting.
Fortunately, Dad kept her with affection. When aftershocks came from time to time, everyone else was evacuating, but Liao's father refused to leave, "I want to go, I buried my child inside." ”
At that moment, Liao Zhi suddenly realized that "my daughter has fallen asleep, but my father is still waiting for her daughter outside", for the sake of her parents, she decided to live, so she resumed dialogue with the outside, and finally waited for rescue.
The rescue process is also very dangerous, because the steel bar passes through the soles of the feet, Liao Zhi is almost "pulled" out of the hard, the blood flows to the ground, and the bones can be seen.
At that time, she was still thinking about her daughter and wanted to see her last time, but the operation was urgent, and she was immediately sent away by ambulance.
At this time, losing her legs seemed less painful than losing her daughter.
On the way to the hospital, she calmly said to the rescuers, "I definitely can't keep my legs."
When she arrived at the hospital, the doctor told her that she could only amputate her leg and asked her if she wanted to discuss it with her parents.
She said, "I'm already a mommy child, I have the ability to make my own decisions," and signed the surgical consent form.
But is it true that a person who dances for a living loses his legs so calmly?
Liao Zhi said that she was actually not so strong, and kept talking during the operation, afraid that as soon as she stopped, she would tremble all over.
After the operation, Liao Zhi once thought that it would be okay to let others push her in a wheelchair for the rest of her life.
But once when there was no one at home, she couldn't even go to the toilet, and she slipped and fell to the ground, and she was determined to learn to "walk".
She shut herself in the room, put the music to the loudest, and kept practicing. When you fall, you roar and get up to continue learning.
So soon, she stood up again and strode towards her second life.
Five years later, when the earthquake struck Ya'an, Sichuan Province, she had gone from victim to volunteer, carrying supplies with others and visiting the affected people.
She also recalls the process happily: when there was not enough space in the car, she would remove the prosthesis and hold it in her arms, and other volunteers quipped that "it is better to prosthetic legs."
For her, prosthetics and suffering are part of the body. Instead of avoiding talking about it, it is better to make a small joke and face it easily.
"No one is born indestructible, at least I am not"
Faced with a bereaved woman with a broken leg, she actively faced it, returning to walking at the speed of light, and even volunteered in the event of another disaster. Some people praised her optimism and happiness, and some people felt strange, had she completely forgotten her daughter?
She didn't, and after many years, when Zai Ci talked about her daughter again, she hid her face and cried bitterly, no mother would forget her child. It's just that she always takes the initiative to face it and draws strength from sadness.
She became more optimistic and stronger.
In this documentary, Liao Zhi also mentions her "unwilling to touch" childhood shadows.
When she was a child, her parents often quarreled and even fought.
The mother Bai Jiarong has a strong personality, but the husband is casual and idle, and the two can sometimes quarrel over the small things they have not found.
After the quarrel, Liao Zhi would often be pushed out by his father to persuade Bai Jiarong.
Saying that it is persuasion is actually to block the fire. Bai Jiarong, who was still angry, would get angry at Liao Zhi and say that it was not interesting to be a person.
This made Liao Zhi always feel angry at her mother, thinking that she should not let a child bear this.
But at that time, she was too young to bear her mother's anger and then digest it herself.
Now that she is older, these emotions still remain in her heart, and she feels that it is time to talk to her mother and untie her heart.
At the beginning, it was not easy, Bai Jiarong had a calm personality, did not like to talk, and in recent years she has been fascinated by reading philosophy books and trying to use philosophy to solve the pain of unhappy marriage and the death of her granddaughter.
So Liao Zhi took her husband and children home, put on makeup and earrings for her, took her to cut her hair, recalled the scene when her mother accompanied her to give birth, slowly let her mother soften, and talked about things when she was young.
Bai Jiarong said that at that time, she was angry with the child and would feel taken for granted, but in fact, she was very irresponsible and did not consider the child's feelings.
Seeing that his mother began to loosen, Liao Zhi talked about the saddest memories of his childhood, that is, there was a time when Bai Jiarong suddenly ran away from home.
In fact, at that time, Liao's father felt that his wife would "starve to death outside as soon as she went out", but Bai Jiarong felt that her ability was more than that, so she left home to work and wanted to prove it to her husband.
At that time, people around them thought that Bai Jiarong would not come back, and they laughed at Liao Zhi, "Your mother doesn't want you anymore."
This is undoubtedly the most real joke for a child
Fortunately, in the end, Bai Jiarong still gave in. In fact, she has found a good job and can already live another life, but Liao Zhi called and begged her to come back, and she cried on the other end of the phone and finally returned home.
After his mother returned, Liao Zhi seemed to grow up overnight.
She is like a happy switch, always making the family full of laughter, in fact, sometimes she may not be so hi, but try to make her mother feel happy and no longer leave home.
Bai Jiarong felt that their home could be maintained until now, also because of Liao Zhi.
In the past, when she recalled her childhood, Liao Zhi would always carry a hint of anger, but after saying it, she found out how difficult it was for her mother to turn back.
More important than remembering the anger at the time, she felt that it was more important for her to find that her mother really loved her and would be willing to come back.
The two cried as they talked, and Liao Zhi said that this was the first time they sat down to talk about emotions.
At this moment, they are mother and daughter, but also sisters, no longer busy talking about careers and work, but paying attention to each other, untying the knots of the past, and sincerely embracing each other.
For Chinese, love and emotion are always hard topics to say. Just like Liao Zhi and Bai Jiarong, they have lived together for more than 20 years in repression and mutual incomprehension.
But they are mother and daughter who love each other, and they will go and return one by one, and one will endure silently. In the end, they used a dialogue to vent their emotions that had been suppressed for many years.
From avoiding talking about brave analysis, they have completed the transformation of mother-daughter love, which is remarkable.
"I became whole in love"
After the earthquake, Liao Zhi and her first husband divorced.
In fact, when she was pregnant, she found out that he had cheated on his neighbor. She said divorce on the spot, but for the sake of the children, she did not.
After the earthquake, they all lost their daughters and "mothers", and Liao Zhi broke his leg, but his ex-husband was depressed all day, and in turn, liao zhi comforted him and told him that he could consider having another one.
But no amount of comfort was helpful, and the ex-husband moved in with other women, so Liao Zhi decided to divorce him.
After that for 5 or 6 years, Liao Zhi did not fall in love again.
Until one time when she changed her prosthetics, she met Wang Qifan, a Chinese prosthetic technician. Wang Qifan was born in Taiwan, went to the United States to study, and came to Shanghai after graduation.
He fell in love with Liao Zhi at first sight and began to pursue Zhan Ka fiercely. But the Liao Zhi he gave was not a rose and a feast, but self-confidence and equality.
Before I met him, Liao Zhi would always put a flesh-colored hard shell on the outside of his prosthetic limbs when he went out to make his legs look more realistic.
Wang Qifan grew up in a foreign country, and the local prosthetic people are calmly appearing on the street and do not need to hide themselves, so he told Liao Zhi not to care about the eyes of others, want to wear short skirts and short skirts, and expose their legs if they want to.
Others say that he is very loving and tolerant of Liao Zhi's flaws, he disagrees, feels that he and Liao Zhi have always been equal, he just found the person he feels is the best.
They climbed rocks and ran marathons together, and experienced many things that outsiders thought people with disabilities "couldn't do".
He also encouraged Liao Zhi to "stink and be beautiful" and discussed with her how to add rhinestones to her prosthetics and change colors so that she could go out beautifully.
At the same time, he gave her the greatest sense of security.
When considering marriage, Wang Qifan had a long conversation with her, saying that he should give priority to Liao Zhi's idea, and if she said that she would not be born, she would not be born.
If they have children, they will also tell the children that they have a "worm" sister on them, hoping that everyone will remember her.
Liao Zhi believed Wang Qifan, and this time she was also right, they got married, and later gave birth to a daughter and a son in 16 and 18 years.
Because of his encouragement, Liao Zhi finally accepted himself completely.
She was not afraid to expose her defects in children and would even let them help with wearing prosthetics.
Children will not be inferior because of their mother, but will rush to get tools to help her adjust the elasticity of her prosthesis.
When the strange children saw her steel legs and felt curious, Liao Zhi did not mind being looked at, but would encourage them to touch the prosthesis and promote the public's understanding of the prosthesis.
She also started doing public welfare to help other people with disabilities integrate into society.
Or share your experiences and lives on the short video platform, take your peers to dance together, and be a hot girl in the field.
When they walk confidently on the road, everyone will understand that disasters and illnesses may rob a part of the body, but they can never take away a heart that loves life.
Liao Zhi is like the Internet version of the "Blade Warrior", using himself to prove that people with disabilities have unlimited potential, can choose their own path, and enjoy the life they want.
From the tragic mother who failed in marriage and lost her legs and daughter, to now standing up again, she used her prosthetic limbs to walk out of the family's happy and successful life, and also used courage to face the defects of the original family, reconcile with her mother, and reach a reconciliation with the past, she is the real heroine of the counterattack life, this "unique" great!
Life will inevitably encounter difficulties and water reversals, I hope that when the beautiful girls fly against the wind, they are also as firm as Liao Zhi, self-reliant in adversity, and when the difficulties are over, it is Pengcheng Wanli.