2 women serve a husband, but the relationship is the same as that of sisters, "threesomes" before death, and 3 people in the same cave after death
In China's feudal dynasty, there are many pieces of left behind. In the late Qing Dynasty, a foreigner wrote in his travelogue about the life of china's middle and upper class: a group of wives and concubines, and a pile of servants.
The four words of the flock of wives and concubines fully express the phenomenon of polygamy in that era. China is influenced by Buddhist culture, and since ancient times, there has also been the idea of men passing on the generations.
If the wife of the family did not give birth to a boy, it would not be long before she would take a concubine to continue the incense.
In the TV series "Great Song Ti Criminal Officer", there is a Li Tang murder case, in which the male protagonist Li Tang also took a concubine room because his wife did not come out, and finally almost made an unjust case because of this matter. This shows how deeply rooted the culture of three wives and four concubines is.
There was a time when palace fighting dramas and house fighting dramas occupied a large part of the market in China's film and television drama industry. This part of the TV series always revolves around a large group of women, describing the story of the struggle between them, so it is inevitable to stay in the eyes of the audience, if a family is polygamous, there will definitely be the impression of competing for favors and jealousy.
However, this is not the case, Mei Lanfang in the Republic of China period, he had two wives at the same time in his lifetime, and these two women served a husband, but they were in love with sisters, and even after death, three people were buried in the same tomb.
origin
Mei Lanfang was born in the Liyuan family, with ancestral home in Jiangsu. He became famous at a young age and was a household name in the Peking Opera industry, and his fame was close to that of his current traffic star.
It was rumored that his tickets were hard to come by, and many people at the time were proud to see his plays.
Moreover, he was not only a very outstanding person in art, but also had a high degree of consciousness in thought. During the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, he also made a lot of efforts for the country, and even gave up his performance of Peking Opera for a time.
It's such a boy, ask who doesn't like it. When Mei Lanfang reached the marriageable age, the matchmaker could be said to have almost broken through the threshold of his family.
Mei Lanfang, who returned from a study, met a beautiful woman in the flower hall of her home. She wears a short navy blue jacket, with a fair complexion and exquisite features. As soon as the two met, the woman crisply shouted her brother, and immediately let mei Lanfang, who was flesh and blood, fall in love at first sight.
This woman was Wang Minghua, and later under the mediation of Mei Lanfang's uncle, the two soon became married.
Because Wang Minghua's family is also a family of opera, the two have a lot of common language. After marriage, the two are also Qinse and Ming, and they are very affectionate. Within a few years, Wang Minghua gave birth to a pair of children for Mei Lanfang, achieving a "good" word.
The two who had just become fathers and mothers were also very excited. At that time, they felt that it was already good to have children and daughters, so they did not plan to regenerate, so Wang Minghua also underwent sterilization at this time. But the weather was unpredictable, and within a few years, these two sons and daughters had all died one after another.
Two waitresses and one husband
The Pear Garden family has always had a rule that men do not pass on women. Mei Lanfang is now childless, and Wang Minghua cannot be reborn, and this problem is particularly difficult.
Under pressure, Wang Minghua could only endure the pain and personally selected a good family woman for Mei Lanfang to give to Mei Lanfang. This person is Mei Lanfang's flat wife, Fu Zhifang.
Fu Zhifang's arrival did not make the Mei family miasma like the house fight drama, but because of her arrival, the family who was originally suffering from the loss of their children once again experienced laughter.
Fu Zhifang is a flag person, and she knows that she is to pass on the lineage to Mei Lanfang, and she has no emotional basis with Mei Lanfang at all. Therefore, when she entered the Mei family, she has always been disciplined and abided by her duties, and she has also changed her opinion of Wang Minghua, who was originally prejudiced against her.
Wang Minghua was also deeply pleased at this point, and she offered to move to the backyard in order to create an opportunity for Mei and Fu to get along alone.
It didn't take long for Fu Zhifang to become pregnant and give birth to a boy in her first child, which was also a completion of the task. Fu Zhifang's side also remembered Wang Minghua's kindness and knew that she could not have children, so she took the initiative to send the child she gave birth to Wang Minghua's yard, hoping to pass on this child to Wang Minghua.
When Wang Minghua learned about it, she was very touched, but she couldn't bear the separation of mother and son, so she politely refused.
So far, the two are really of the same heart and one mind, serving Mei Lanfang together, never blushing, and it is really the so-called living "threesome".
Death is the same as the cave
Among the three, Wang Minghua's body was the weakest, and he unfortunately suffered from tuberculosis later. During her illness, fu zhifang personally took care of her. Because she was sick for many years and was afraid that Wang Minghua was depressed, Fu Zhifang also went to the street to buy many newspapers, magazines, villain books and other books, and read them to her in front of Wang Minghua's bed to relieve her boredom.
Not only are the two sisters in harmony, but the feelings between these two sisters and Mei Lanfang are also harmonious and beautiful. Wang Minghua and Mei Lanfang talk freely about opera, and Fu Zhifang takes care of the three people's diet and living.
But no matter how harmonious the family is, it cannot stop the infidelity of men's thoughts.
Later, Mei Lanfang and Meng Xiaodong had an affair because of the drama, and Mei Lanfang once wanted to marry Meng Xiaodong into the family and give her a name.
For such a woman who appeared suddenly, the two ladies would certainly not agree. It is said that the triangle is the most stable, and the sudden appearance of a fourth party is what is going on.
Because Wang Minghua's health at that time was already very poor, he could not personally preside over the overall situation, so the second lady Fu Zhifang took the instructions of the eldest sister and her own inner thoughts and resolutely opposed Meng Xiaodong's entry into the door.
It is precisely because of the unity of the sisters that Meng Xiaodong was finally unable to enter the Mei family.
Despite his careful care, Wang Minghua was the first of the three to die. Later, Mei Lanfang also died, and it was originally intended to bury him as a martyr in the cemetery, but Mei Lanfang, who was dying, strongly requested that he be buried with Wang Minghua, who had long since died.
In 1980, Fu Zhifang died of a sudden stroke, and the children were buried with Mei and Wang.
These three people have been entangled for a lifetime, loved for a lifetime, and finally the three of them are in the same tomb, which is not a betrayal of this relationship.
brief summary:
Love doesn't have to be vigorous, like crazy, and finally come together, white head and old age. Like Wang Minghua and Fu Zhifang, this kind of silent payment, the long flow of fine water may be longer. Wang Minghua's empathy, deep understanding and generosity, Fu Zhifang's silent dedication, and no dispute are the foundation of a harmonious family.
In ancient Chinese mythology, there was once a story of "Empress Dowager Ying", and their touching emotions have been passed down to this day. Not all feelings are "from one to the end" to be happy, and in the absence of such conditions, respecting each other as guests and foaming at each other is not another kind of happiness.