Life is full of changes, anyone can meet, anything can happen. Under different circumstances, we must feel differently. Annoyances can also arise inadvertently. As people who pursue self-motivation and yearn for a better life, we certainly hope that our happiness and happiness will be more and more, and our troubles will be less and less.
So, we might as well get to the bottom of the matter, where do the troubles come from and how to get rid of them? As long as you understand this problem, I believe that your next life will be very different. Under careful analysis, the sources of troubles are mainly divided into the following four types.
First, troubles come from greed. Greed is human nature, and it can be said that as long as you are a person, there must be greed. Unless you have reached a certain level of cultivation and gradually entered the realm of the sages. Ordinary people must be full of greed everywhere, and their covetousness is different.
Some people are greedy for fame, some people are greedy, some people are greedy, and there are gluttony and sleepiness, etc. As long as they can make themselves feel comfortable, we all hope that the more it is better, and we will never be satisfied.
But if our greed only stays on the material level, you will be troubled continuously, because you will find that there will always be people who are more and stronger than you.
If we can change our minds and covet the transcendence of the spiritual level, you will be completely different. Your mind will continue to be sublimated, gradually leading to liberation, and there will naturally be fewer and fewer troubles.
Second, troubles come from selfishness. Everyone is obsessed with themselves. Whether you're strong or not, you'll think your points are perfectly right, and your words and actions are all right.
Because everyone's thoughts and experiences are different, and the specific manifestations of the three views are also different, if everyone stands in their own perspective and hopes that others will identify with themselves and do what they think, then conflicts will inevitably arise, and troubles will naturally arise from them.
As long as you know how to let go of yourself and think more empathetically from the perspective of the other party, you will find that everything is "reasonable", so where does the trouble come from?
Third, defilements come from attachment. The self mentioned above is a kind of attachment called "self-grasping." In fact, we are not only attached to me, clinging to my seeing, but we are particularly attached to many things.
For example, what is one's favorite, what one is particularly attached to wanting to have, what one dislikes, what one is particularly attached to wanting to leave, being too demanding of all people and things, being trapped in it, one's own heart cannot be detached from it, and naturally it will sink deeper and deeper, and once it cannot be obtained, or permanently lost, or not as much as one thinks in one's heart, we will fall into infinite troubles.
In fact, as long as you let go of attachment, no longer pay attention to the results, but pay attention to the effort in the process, the results of the situation to look at, you will find yourself incomparably relaxed, the results may be surprisingly good.
Fourth, troubles come from narrowness. Everyone has selfish intentions and thinks only for themselves in everything. Or for your own family, friends and family, etc.
We should let go of our prejudices and accept all people and all sentient beings with a broader heart, and you will gradually find that you are one with all sentient beings, and with a broad mind and able to embrace all things, your blessings will be unlimited, and your virtues will be incomparably deep.
When your mind is unrestricted, everything will suddenly open up. No matter how big things are, they are just sesame green beans, like a drop of water flowing into the sea, there will be no ripples at all. With such a state of mind, the troubles are naturally gone.