Walk through the heart-pounding spring, step through the hot and bright summer, spend the autumn that falls in the autumn, and come to the winter of drifting snow.
I don't know when it started, every year the days are like white colts passing through the gap, and it seems to be pulled infinitely by all kinds of invisible unknowns.
As soon as I looked up, the New Year's Bell was about to ring.
2021 is just like that.
Maybe you were upset because you didn't hold the hand of someone you liked; maybe you couldn't sleep late at night because of the pressure of graduate school; maybe you still regretted that you didn't spend the year well.
Life is in the sea, and servants come.
But no matter what happened this year, how much I experienced, at this moment, I just want to say like the warmth brought by this show.
"Nice to meet you"
In fact, this is not a new show.
In the first season last year, the pair of resident guests Zhou Xun and Aya gave me a big surprise -
The whole variety show is real and comfortable, like a breeze blowing, and like the prose poem of life.
If last year, the program was mainly to follow Zhou Xun Aya to visit the paradise-like life of young people, eat and live together, and discover life from the heart.
So this year, the second season of "Nice to Know You" focuses on "sharing the life stories of young people in the form of themes through urban narratives".
For example, how do social terrorists meet new friends, whether renters will treat the rented house as home, how to maintain long-distance love, and so on.
Every theme makes me feel like I live in the city, and every story makes people from the bottom of their hearts -
Love life from the heart
The most impressive thing is the issue of Renting Youth.
The guests visited the houses of shanghai youth living in different locations under different income levels, and felt how different the lives of people in the same city would be in this small grid of the big city.
Some people's houses can see the most prosperous scenery in Shanghai, while some people's houses can only see one acre and three points of land outside a small window.
The wonderful thing is that these young people have obtained a kind of "self-consistency" in their own houses, so they have found their own motivation and energy for life.
The short video blogger's house has an oversized floor-to-ceiling window that overlooks Shanghai's iconic Oriental Pearl Tower.
Obviously, the house is expensive.
But he felt worth it, because here he found his motivation to fight.
He believes that a good environment produces good results. Every time I see such a beautiful view, I tell myself in my heart that I deserve something better, so as to urge myself to work hard today.
The same house also gave him a sense of belonging to work in a foreign country.
I live in the city, not wander in the city.
In sharp contrast to him was the girl who lived in the attic. She is in a small space with low beams.
Aya heard her say that it was a shared house, and when she came in, she felt incredible when she came in and learned that there was only one floor here, how such a small place could accommodate two people sleeping together.
The girl said that the first thing she learned when she first moved in was how to avoid being hit in the head.
Her roommate affectionately named it "Anfu Shelter."
However, although the sparrow is small, it is complete. The little house can accommodate a group of friends to have dinner and even have a small dog.
The space is smaller, and the distance between people is closer.
Push open the window and shout out, you can communicate seamlessly with the little sister on the opposite door.
The atmosphere of this chicken-dog smell of old neighborhoods is really enviable.
It's real socializing that feels each other's temperature.
She said that she was very happy here, and she was also lucky to meet her current roommate, because the roommate was outgoing, so that the original introverted she also became more and more cheerful and made more friends.
You see, as Zhou Xun said, what kind of person you are with is really very important.
The tentacles of friends will touch every aspect of your life all the time, affect you, change you, and nourish you.
In this issue, what touched me the most was the story of Juan, the head of the show.
She lives in an old house on South Shaanxi Road. Because it is a historic building, every once in a while, someone comes up to wax and polish the floor of the house.
From the window of the room you can see an orange tree that bears fruit all year round.
One day, a white-haired old couple stopped outside her door, juan thought that the old man could not find the way, but the old man said that they had come to see her house.
It turned out that the couple were old tenants who lived here sixty years ago, and this place carries their memories.
Grandparents also told Juan their love story of that year.
It always felt like this was another romantic parental love that could be written into the book.
Juan had previously felt that marriage was impossible for her, but in this house, she saw such beautiful feelings, which made her feel that marriage might not be something that could not be considered.
She said it wasn't she who fed the house herself, but the house that nourished her.
This power is like a bright and warm orange light, shining warmly on everyone's body.
In this warmth, we not only reacquainted ourselves, but also reacquainted ourselves with those who are familiar and strange to us.
For example, lovers;
In the third issue, Zhou Xun and Aya met a girl who was silently crying at a psychological lecture.
After chatting with the thirteenth lady, I learned that the girl felt that after having a child, her relationship with her husband had changed.
From the time two people open their eyes to the time they close their eyes to sleep, the only time to rest before going to bed is for two people to play with their mobile phones in bed, and they are speechless.
The burden of life seemed to destroy the passion between them.
The program team gave the couple a chance to communicate.
The husband realizes that some things that he considers insignificant are very important to the wife.
At the end, Aya wrote a touching letter to the thirteenth lady, and there was a sentence in it that impressed me-
You look good when you laugh
The corners of the mouth are raised to reveal cuteness and happiness
The way you cry is heart-wrenching
It's girls for love
Helpless in reality struggling to have to grow up
Thirteen Niang couldn't help but cry when she read these words, her grievances and defenses at that moment were finally understood by someone who understood her long-term repression and pain.
With a big grin on the surface, she is actually very delicate and sensitive inside, and all she wants is that her lover can give her a warm hug when she is tired.
Thirteen Niang is not alone, she also represents thousands of mothers who are busy with their lives and spend day and night for their children.
Since when the lovers have become strangers, perhaps at this time, they need a chance to re-understand each other.
Also making people feel warm and healing is the observation and discussion of intergenerational relations in the fourth period.
The mother of the North Drift girl Green Green has never traveled to the city where her daughter works because of her saving sex.
But she has always worried that her daughter's life is not good, and her daughter is nibbling on instant noodles in a foreign country and living in the basement.
This time, Lulu lied to her mother that the leader liked her and had to come and meet her before tricking her mother into coming to Beijing.
Zhou Xun, Aya and flight guest Zhou Yutong pretended to be green leading colleagues to accompany Green Mother to Beijing.
Lu Lu said some of her heart in the interview, she said that there are brothers and sisters in the family, when she was a child, she felt that she had a particularly miserable life, her mother wanted to save money, and she never had her share in buying things.
Green Mother felt that her child had suffered and that she had done something wrong.
But green mothers are not actually not loving children, but sometimes, a bowl of water is really difficult to level.
Zhou Yutong shared a personal experience of his own.
She said that in the past, her sister also felt that her mother's love for her sister was far more than her own. Later, after having two younger brothers in the family, she found that in fact, when the first baby came out, the whole family liked it, but he couldn't see it himself.
When he can remember, you don't seem to care about me anymore, you snub me—
It's not that there's no love, it's just that the time to feel love is staggered.
The show not only presents these warm little stories, but also recognizes some different life inspirations in the views of the guests.
Live happily, don't bother to explore life, probably this life is actually much simpler.
It's like making friends.
Each of us wants to be liked by others, in order not to be hurt, some people choose one person, and some people choose to know more people.
Now a variety of social events are emerging: script killing, secret rooms, bar parties, ballrooms.
But no matter which choice you choose, if you feel uncomfortable in this, then instead of going to great lengths to join others, it is better to live a good life alone.
As Li Xueqin said, being alive is itself a way of socializing.
And this social show, the reason why it is so touching is inseparable from the tacit cooperation of Zhou Xun and Aya.
Aya is like a big sister next to her, so that people can relax their hearts and say anything from the bottom of their hearts to her.
She can always catch the emotions of different people in the most gentle way.
It's like a green mother who sees her daughter interview and says she thinks only her mother beats people. Aya immediately gently patted Her mother's hand and told her, "Say nothing, my mother also hits people." ”
And Zhou Xun's biggest feeling is still real and flexible.
Don't like the script to kill the truth to express, like swing dance with everyone happy dance, in Shanghai's old bungalow to feel a relaxed and comfortable life, and the owner's cat can dialogue, real and cute.
The chemical reaction produced by two people who are still and moving is so real and natural.
It is also because of this that we can better perceive the different life emotions of each person in the story, and find some small luck in their lives.
These little fortunes may just be lying on the ground and seeing a bright moon; hearing a favorite song; eating a mouthful of fresh meat mooncakes. With the passage of time, everyone's life has also quietly and silently undergone some changes.
Including the "K Society" and those of you who wait for the "K Society" every night.
Now, another year has passed, more than 300 days and nights, thank you for your constant company.
I hope that after reading this article, every life trapped in low-lying can pick up the flight, and hope that the cold days will heat up from now on.
People come and go in the world, and we have to always run forward.
With a smile -
Nice to meet you, 2022.