The helplessness of the little people

There is such a person, he is a rural worker in Zhengzhou, in a small restaurant to do the cook about 6,000 yuan a month, and then well, after a period of time he found an object, the object seems to be a teacher, teaching Chinese in the experimental training institution, about 4,000 yuan a month, and then he in order to pursue his wife, decided to buy a house for two people, the house is about to pay back this month, is the so-called housing loan, about 4,000 yuan per month, That is to say, his wife's salary must be put in to pay this so-called housing loan, then his own money, used for a family is still enough, and there is a balance, a month about 1,000 yuan of accumulation, and then he gave birth to a child, his wife's salary is gone, his wife does not have. So it is more difficult to expect his money to support his family, so his mother plans to come to Zhengzhou to find a job and earn some money to help him, but his mother has no culture to come to Zhengzhou, and she can't do anything, so what to do? Right? Even the work of the supermarket cashier his mother could not do it, and then his wife came to do the work of this cashier, and probably everyone knew at that time, last year this was zhengzhou flooded, the supermarket was flooded, his wife lost her job, plus this new crown virus, when the epidemic was more serious, there were many restaurants in Zhengzhou that were closed, they all went out of business, he also lost his job, so what to do now? Now in order to pay off this mortgage, it is a mortgage, he uses the credit card money to repay this loan of the house, then now the credit card is locked up again, and it can't be used to see, and the bank seems to have sent him what email and sent him a message to tell him, if you don't pay back this mortgage again, this house will be confiscated, auctioned, and now I still feel that this day does not know how to do, do not know how to live this day is too difficult, work without a house? He said that if this is the case, how will his daughter face him in the future, how will he face his daughter, how will his daughter call him, he really does not know what to do, then my evaluation is that you don't want to punch your face and be fat, don't do something beyond your ability, no one in this world will hurt you without this ability. No one in this world will care about you and will hurt you. Only your parents, when you have no money, your parents will lend you money, other people will not pay attention to you, that is to say, you buy a house this thing is beyond your ability, but then again, you do not have a house who will marry you, this is a paradox, so this thing is too difficult, this is a sadness of the little people, really a sadness of the little people. There is no house and people do not marry you, with a house you can not afford this mortgage, the house is still confiscated, that is to say, you do not do some things that you can not afford, you should consider clearly before buying a house, in case you can not repay the mortgage what to do, there are many things you have to consider in advance, no one cares about you, no one will hurt you, you can not repay this mortgage, sorry, the bank will confiscate your property, no matter how natural, You don't have the conditions to buy a house, you can't buy this house, can't you rent a house? Of course, no girl will marry you when you rent a house, but what can you do? This is the sadness of the little people. You're all right now, the house is about to be confiscated, what do you say you do? Basically there's no way to fix this thing, unless you buy a lottery ticket and win five million, but this kind of thing is impossible and impossible.