There was a boy with a bad temper and his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him to nail a nail in the fence in the backyard whenever he wanted to lose his temper.
On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails nailed each day decreased, and he found it easier to control his temper than to nail those nails. So, one day, the boy will never lose his patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it. Father also said that from now on, whenever he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail.
Day by day, the boy finally pulled out all the nails. He told his father about it. His father took his hand and came to the backyard and said to him, "You're doing a good job, my good boy, but look at these holes in those fences, which will never be restored to what they were before." Every word you say when you're angry leaves a permanent scar like these nails. It's like if you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say sorry, that wound will always be there. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain. ”
The revelation of breaking conventional thinking: People often cause eternal harm due to some stalemate that cannot be released. If we can all start from ourselves and start to look at others with tolerance, I believe that you will be able to receive many unexpected results. Open a window for others, that is, let yourself see a more complete sky. Because to let go of others is to let go of yourself.