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Women who are in love with brains should really wake up, because having money and beauty can never decide a person's personality problems. With people with split personalities, even if your life is bright and beautiful, the mental torture is unbearable.
Watching the TV series "Xiao MinJia", although Xu Zheng has been controlling Liu Xiaojie like a neurosis, he has also imprisoned her at home and not allowed her to work. However, in the eyes of many people, Liu Xiaojie deserves it.
Liu Xiaojie once had a failed marriage of flash marriage and divorce, married to Xu Zheng, she is already a second marriage. However, when she first agreed to be with Xu Zheng, she had not examined at all, whether the man who suddenly appeared in her life was good or bad in nature.
So that after getting married, her every move was limited, and even because of a business card, Xu Zheng was locked up at home and could not contact anyone.
The love brain will only be immersed in self-righteous happiness.
Liu Xiaojie had already discovered Xu Zheng's abnormality, and just when she was pinching Jin Jiajun's stomach, Xu Zheng warned her that time, she had actually found that Xu Zheng was "sick".
However, she prefers to believe that it is Xu Zheng's love for her, immersing herself in the happiness of being controlled. The reason why Liu Xiaojie is like this is like this, there are three factors:
First, she did not believe that a rich and handsome man like Xu Zheng was "abnormal."
In Liu Xiaojie's eyes, Xu zheng is a rich and handsome man. She has always been proud of herself since she was with Xu Zheng, and in the company, colleagues envied her, and life often brought her romance.
Seriously, women are always too naïve.
When a man treats himself a little better, he gets carried away and thinks that the whole world is a good man. Even if she sees a man full of shortcomings, she will choose to ignore it, just because this man has money and beauty, and she can cover up all his faults.
This is how Liu Xiaojie views Xu Zheng. She knew that Xu Zheng's personality was wrong, and she realized that he was not just jealous, but she did not believe that a good man like Xu Zheng would have a character defect.
But unfortunately, this time Liu Xiaojie was going to hurt herself again.
Second, the first marriage was too unfortunate and she needed love.
The short marriage between Liu Xiaojie and her ex-husband Tong Bin was like a joke, she never knew what Tong Bin was busy with, and Tong Bin didn't care about her.
In that marriage, Liu Xiaojie only had a certificate, nothing else, and finally gave herself the name of a second marriage.
In fact, it is very uneconomical.
Because her ex-husband didn't ask her questions, she longed for love in that marriage. As a result, this longing was carried over to the next relationship. Therefore, there is her dependence on Xu Zheng.
Xu Zheng has shown an abnormal state many times, and Liu Xiaojie still pretends not to know, because she does not dare to break through the barrier and is afraid of losing Xu Zheng's love.
She needs to be loved too much.
Third, I am reluctant to give up my rich and handsome husband.
Xu Zheng earned enough face for Liu Xiaojie.
In the company, Xu Zhengtian drove a luxury car to pick up Liu Xiaojie from work and generously invited her colleagues to dinner. Including the first time to invite Liu Xiaojie's sister and brother-in-law to dinner, he chose an expensive restaurant, which can be said to have made Liu Xiaojie earn a sense of happiness that she has never had before.
Many girls who love brains often can't see reality because of the sense of superiority given to them by men. Even though I have felt the discomfort brought by this relationship, I am not willing to give up a rich and handsome man.
Some women will choose to ignore all the shortcomings of the other party for the sake of men's money, even if it is the harm they have caused to themselves, they will forgive.
Liu Xiaojie is like this, When Xu Zheng obtained the certificate, he did not tell her family, this abnormal attitude, it was already a kind of harm to her, but she was unwilling to have this relationship and connived at Xu Zheng's abnormal behavior.
Self-deception is exclusive to women with love brains.
Liu Xiaojie signed a male author, Xu Zheng immediately blackface, he never cared about her work, and what she wanted to do. In Xu Zheng's heart, he only cared about his feelings with Liu Xiaojie.
In order not to provoke Xu Zheng to be angry, Liu Xiaojie deleted the contact information of the male author she had just added, thinking that as long as she followed Xu Zheng in everything, he would not be nervous.
But in fact, Xu Zheng did not dare to see any clues at all, even when she and Chen Jiajia met, she had already said many times that she was a female author, and Xu Zheng still had to quietly follow them.
Liu Xiaojie has sacrificed herself in order to be with Xu Zheng, and her work has also been greatly affected, but Xu Zheng's abnormality has not changed because of her understanding.
And Liu Xiaojie did not refute Xu Zheng, so she deceived herself and was with him, expecting him to change his personality.
Saying that Liu Xiaojie deserves it, in fact, it is not only her self-deception that she is unwilling to face Xu Zheng's "pathology". More than that, she was also very dishonest in front of Xu Zheng, always leaving evidence of Xu Zheng's anger.
She knew that Xu Zheng was very concerned about her connection with Qian Feng, however, when she was at a classmate party, she did not shy away from suspicion, and let Qian Feng put her arms around herself when taking pictures.
Although, in their classmate pile, that position is a memory and a habit, after all, she is married, and she can't get too close to the man who has had a crush on her for ten years in a place where her husband can't see.
It is also reasonable that Xu Zheng will be angry when he sees this scene, and when he really loves someone, other men will be unhappy.
At the door of the nursing home, Qian Feng felt that he should avoid suspicion and would rather wait for the car than hit her free ride. However, Liu Xiaojie seemed to have forgotten Xu Zheng's vinegar jar and specially invited Qian Feng to sit in her car.
As a result, Qian Feng's business card landed on the car, and Xu Zheng grabbed the handle. Moreover, when Xu Zheng asked her, Liu Xiaojie really should tell the truth, even if Xu Zheng would be angry, but at least she was not ashamed.
However, Liu Xiaojie chose to conceal the truth and deceived Xu Zheng into saying that she and Qian Feng had not been in contact for a long time.
The more Liu Xiaojie lied, the more Xu Zheng thought that there was some relationship between her and Qian Feng, which was common sense. Moreover, Xu Zheng's personality has great flaws, and after being provoked, he has no ability to judge right from wrong.
Qian Feng has been around Liu Xiaojie for more than ten years, she can't not know that Qian Feng likes her, but she just can't look up to Qian Feng, and she wants to enjoy him being good to herself, so she can only pretend that she doesn't know anything.
When Qian Feng made his mind clear, Liu Xiaojie pretended to be ignorant and ugly. Since it is clear that she will no longer have anything to do with Qian Feng in the future, live a good life with Xu Zheng, and when she sees Qian Feng, she should take a detour, which she has done very badly.
Even though Xu Zheng was wrong, Liu Xiaojie was not innocent. Love the brain, and "green tea", deserve to be imprisoned.