History is the memory of things that have been said and done. —Carl Baker
Many people have heard of "trial marriage", that is, lovers who are in love live together to see if it is appropriate and whether they can get married later. In fact, in the Qing Dynasty, there were also people who tried marriages, they were called "trial marriage gege", so what did they do, why do they say that their fate is so tragic?
The trial marriage style refers to the palace women who are sent to live with the horse for the sake of the real grid. Because Gege's status in the Qing Dynasty was very noble, they could not try it themselves, and could only choose the right palace maid to get along with the selected horse to ensure that Gege married a good person.
After choosing a horse, the empress dowager and the empress will choose a close palace maid to live with a dowry to live in the pony, and after staying for one night, the palace maid will return to the palace to explain some of the situation of the horse to the empress and the empress to see if the two are suitable.
In fact, the trial marriage style is not only the physiological function of the test horse, but also how the people of the horse are, hobbies, family atmosphere and so on. Mainly so that Gege can marry in the past and live a good life.
So what will happen to the fate of these "trial marriages" after the trial marriage?
One situation is that after choosing a donkey, he will marry gege together, and if he meets a good gege, he will let her serve the horse with her as a concubine of the donkey, but the sovereignty of the family is still in the hands of gege, and it is only the treatment of the inferior. If you encounter a bad character, you will be rejected, and you will even be scolded and die.
One is that because the horse is defective and not selected, then the gege naturally will not marry, and these trial marriage gege will be allowed to be rationed to the quasi-pony, if the pony is not willing to accept her, then she cannot return to the palace because of her loss of virginity, and can only be driven out of the house and exiled on the street. If the quasi-donkey is interested, then she will marry in, then because the horse has a physical defect, the life will be bad, if you encounter a bad one, you will also be scolded by the shy and angry donkey because you did not choose the horse, so the ending is very miserable.
In short, no matter what, their fate will be very tragic.