Schopenhauer once said: "One of the most special weaknesses of human nature is that it cares about how others perceive itself." ”
In life, we always care about what others think of us, always afraid of doing wrong, dressing inappropriately, and being looked at differently by others, but think about it yourself, as long as we live as we like, it is enough, don't care
It doesn't matter how others treat you, the rest of your life is short, try to live as you like.
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Don't wronged yourself and catered to others
In this world, there are always people who like you, and there are always people who don't like you. Therefore, don't be too concerned about other people's opinions, be yourself, keep a good heart, and at the same time maintain your own personality, and be a principled and temperamental person.
Sometimes, we always live in the eyes of others, because others are depressed or in a high mood for a word, and the evaluation of others is particularly important.
There are two girls around me, one always cares about other people's views, obviously does not like to do, but because others change their own ideas with a word, always in order to cater to themselves and change their own ideas to do what they do not like to do, while the other girl, always do themselves, dormitory dinner, do not want to go to go, not afraid of offending, always do what they like to do, will not change their own ideas because of other people's words, Which girl who always wronged herself to cater to others was very depressed, always because others were depressed, and the other one lived a life like herself. Life is diametrically opposed.
Therefore, don't wrongfully cater to others, don't care about other people's opinions. And your own ideas to live as you like.
Yishu once said:
"In the short decades of life, the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others."
Even if you pander to it, those who are hypocritical will still not remember your good.
The rest of your life is short, just follow your heart.
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The rest of your life is short, don't get too tired
You don't live to please others, as long as you are happy, you don't have to pay special attention to what others think of you; everyone is working hard and redoubling, and you have no reason to resent the world while wronging yourself.
A life is really short, don't care about other people's eyes. Those who are often successful are able to rest assured of their face, do not care about the world, live according to their own ideas, never care about other people's opinions, think too much and always lose some opportunities, and cannot grasp the hard-won opportunities.
So, do whatever you want, the rest of your life is so short, do what you like, don't bind yourself.
Now we are always very tired because we care about the world's vision, but there are really many such people who live a good ancient poet who lives a dashing life, lives freely, and lives as they want. "When you go to the end of the water, sit and watch the clouds rise" This is Wang Wei's casual encounter, "The Son of Heaven does not come to the ship" This is Li Bai's stubbornness, and Tao Yuanming, who preceded them, is also a unique person. He did not bend his waist for five buckets of rice, hung up the crown and returned to hiding, in the chaotic world, he could still maintain his original self, maintain a leisurely and self-satisfied appearance, pursue a quiet life and inner peace, and create many popular poems in the hidden mountains and forests, living the way he wanted.
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Follow your heart and live as you like
The rest of your life is very expensive, try to live as you want, may you wear sneakers to sweat like rain, you can also wear high heels dashing and beautiful as flowers, live up to youth, do not live up to yourself.
Don't change your mind and do what you like because of someone else's words and actions, people who like you will still like you.
I would like to say: don't change yourself because of anyone, don't wronged yourself and cater to others. The rest of your life is short, be yourself the best.