People who really love you will be unreasonable with you in these things, don't know

There is a saying that throughout our lives, what we pursue is only a little preference for each other.

Deeply.

People who truly love you will involuntarily favor you in every way.

Even if you are not so reasonable at some point, he will be careful to cover up the past for you, and will not blame you, for no reason other than him, just because you are you, and he has a privilege in his heart that is different from others.

In the same way, he wants him to enjoy the same favoritism, the same privilege in your heart.

This privilege belongs to him alone.

Between the two of you, at some point, you can be unreasonable and overbearing with the other.

However, not all of them are unreasonable, all of them are annoying, and in the following cases, even if the other party is unreasonable, you will enjoy it very much.

01: When you are sick, you are unreasonable and forced to take medicine

People eat grains, and no one never gets sick all their lives.

Taking medicine when you are sick is a matter of course.

However, it is bitter. If it weren't a last resort, no one would want to take medicine. People are no exception when they are young, unless they really can't bear it.

Sometimes, it is not necessarily because you want to carry it, it may be lazy, lazy to pour water, take medicine, feel trouble; sometimes, it may be busy at the time, can not take care of, all kinds of reasons, even if you take medicine, but also eat the last meal and forget the next meal, can not eat on time and in quantity.

But if there is a person who loves himself, it is different.

You are slightly uncomfortable, and the person is nervous, hurting you, worrying that you are in pain.

If you are sick and have a cold, he will force you to go to the doctor, and the doctor will prescribe medicine, and he will force you to take your medicine on time. Hot water for you to pour well, cool in advance, all kinds of pills, capsules, will follow the doctor's instructions, a few tablets of each medicine for you to take well, eat which one after eating first, eat before meals or eat after meals, supervise you to complete.

You ate it in advance, no! After eating, it is not OK! Eat more, no! Eat less, no!

It's just that domineering! It is so unreasonable that it must be followed by the doctor.

At first, you think this person manages a lot, mother-in-law, like an old mother. But if you are managed by him, you will have a sense of intimacy and happiness.

In a big city, there is a person who hurts, and there is a person who cares about a small illness and a small cold, what a happy thing. He wasn't too idle to do anything to force you to take medicine, but he didn't care too much about you.

Think about who else in this world is willing to worry about you so much? Only the person who looks at you more seriously than himself will feel so sorry for you, manage you, and force you to be unreasonable.

Such a person, if you meet, secretly enjoy it.

02: When you stay up late, you are unreasonable and force you to sleep

When we were young, we were too playful, too deep and too excited to sleep, and our mother would gently pat us to let us fall asleep as soon as possible.

And once it has not been in a state, it will turn off all the lights at once, and tell us in the darkness that the wolf is coming, specifically to take away the child who does not sleep.

Inside is really strong and helpless.

After adulthood, I am used to staying up late, accustomed to all kinds of brushes in the middle of the night, and I can't sleep for a long time.

The next day, he had to be woken up by the alarm clock in the drowsiness, and he was extremely reluctant to get up and go to work, resulting in no time to eat breakfast and no full energy.

However, the work is that no matter whether you have breakfast in the morning or not, whether you have a good rest last night, the strong pressure will come down, and the body will slowly eat up.

But since one day there was someone who loved you, that all changed.

He doesn't allow you to waste your body like this anymore, he doesn't allow you to go hungry like this anymore, he doesn't allow you to work so hard.

When you are excitedly brushing all kinds of short videos and all kinds of messages in the middle of the night, he is also like his mother at that time, snapping away your mobile phone, throwing it aside, forcing you to sleep!

Then the next day, wake you up early and unreasonably force you to eat breakfast, even if you are not used to it, only to eat an egg, or only drink a small bite of porridge...

But, slowly, your body clock is adjusted, because you wake up early, you become sleepy very early at night and have to go to bed, but the next day before the alarm clock rings, you wake up naturally, and then you finish breakfast and are full of energy throughout the day.

Because he unreasonably forced you to sleep, your life became more and more regular, your ability to work became better and better, and you yourself became more and more excellent...

You begin to rejoice that you have met this "unreasonable" person.

This is the power of love, because loving you hurts you, and he will unreasonably force you to go to bed early.

03: At the trough, unreasonable force you to cheer up

In life, there are nine times out of ten who are not satisfied.

No one's life is smooth sailing. Encountering bad luck, encountering underestimation, encountering failure, is the norm of life.

Deep lows are painful, and it is the strongest to survive the lows and climb out of the lows.

However, the loneliness, helplessness, and deep sense of powerlessness at the trough are understood by those who have experienced it. Without a strong internal force to support, it is really difficult to survive.

At the low point, some people are far away from you, afraid of being affected by you; and some people fall into the rocks, afraid that you will not fall completely.

Only the person who truly loves you and cares about you will come close to you, force you to cheer up and pull you out.

Saving a person who is at a low ebb is not easy.

Because not only to save this person's situation, but also to save the deep despair in his heart.

As long as the people who truly love you and understand you know where your real pain is, and how to heal the pain in your heart.

He knows that you, who are in a low valley, need not comfort, not sympathy, but strength, the strength to climb out!

He then gave encouragement to you, and on the other hand, he forced you unreasonably, and perhaps you were temporarily more painful, but you were stimulated by the strength of the heart, and finally climbed out of the pit by his own strength.

Perhaps it is only the moment you climb out of the pit that you can truly understand how deeply the person who is unreasonable and forced you to cheer you up loves you.

04: Conclusion

I have seen a saying that people, all their lives, are looking for their missing other half.

Different people, some people are lucky and find it, some people meet others on the way to find it, and they never meet the person they really love again.

However, no matter what, when you meet someone who is unreasonable to you in the above three things, whether there is a reason or not, it must be someone who has you in mind, and you must cherish it.

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