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Hello everyone, I'm Xiao Bei.
It's getting colder, pay attention to keep warm. The days of freezing hands and feet have come to a season that is far away from the bed.
Recently read a lot of articles, analyzed a lot of accounts, but also constantly self-reflection, why am I not like this? Why am I not like that?
Later, I wanted to understand a truth, that is, this is all fate! There is also a point in one's own emotions, the subconscious mind.
Missed a lot, missed a lot, start now, want to achieve, want to catch up, must pay redoubled efforts.
What I am seeing at the moment is the result of others accumulating a few years of experience, and the height reached after a few years of hard work by others, which I, as a newcomer, are trying to achieve, which is obviously impossible. Even if God appreciates food, even if he is talented, this is too exaggerated.
I'm still self-aware, and I'm not a gifted person, 5555.
Knocking yourself again and again, stripping yourself again and again, although painful but very refreshing. Only when you feel pain will you deepen some of your impressions, and will you make your numb self wake up, and you really missed a lot.
In the beginning, I wanted to calm myself down by writing and not be too impetuous.
As a result, I slowly began to like the feeling of hitting the keyboard, so I wrote more and more, wanted to express it, shared it, and now writing has become a daily routine for me, a way to express myself.
At the same time, it can be seen from it that through continuous practice of writing, one's own changes and progress in some aspects, deficiencies and deficiencies in some aspects.
Writing is not a panacea, it is because I want to write, which prompts me to continue to learn, to learn through learning, and to output again, which is a benign process and self-feedback.
No matter what kind of books I read and what kind of words I write, my head is activated during this time, and my mind is also activated during this time.
But this is not enough, and it is still far from the ideal state.
This road is a long way, and if you continue to walk, you will wear out a lot of shoes. If I want to continue to explore and move forward, at least I will continue to prepare the right shoes for myself to go all the way, to reduce the damage to my feet, and to look forward to going further and flatter.
In addition, clothing, food, water, and various auxiliary tools are required.
Survive, go on, walk well, live well, keep reading, continue writing and sharing, need more materials.
Where is the extra time wasted? I just felt that every day was tight, just blinked my eyes a few times, and the day passed.
I myself often mention in articles that "control emotions and not be a slave to emotions", but I will also be inadvertently led by emotions. Sometimes it is unconscious, unable to immediately find out and quickly adjust.
There will always be a period of time, either under the reminder of others, suddenly enlightened, or under their own conscious contemplation, suddenly Mao Sai suddenly opened.
Turns out I shouldn't be like this, but should be like that...
Wrongful roads, detours, and even twists and turns, detours are common things.
A straight road to the end, this kind of thing is difficult to encounter, at least, not yet.
I hope that I will take fewer detours, but the fact is that some roads must be taken, some things must be experienced, whether it is my own set, or others set up a set, I have to experience it to have some understanding and wake up.
So many cases, reminders, is not to see, always feel that they will not meet, read so many years of books, but also know that history is always so strikingly similar, but still "go astray". Only by personally standing in front of the "South Wall" did you know how to turn back.
That's the experience that must be experienced.
Practice and theory should be combined, and no matter how many theoretical and technical books are read, they will not play much role in a short period of time, but after systematic learning, sooner or later there will be a place of use.
The so-called opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared. A good opportunity has come, I have no ability to catch it, and to miss it is to miss it.
Every road traveled in life will not be in vain, and you are working silently to achieve a better self.
Wait, the next opportunity to come, please catch it.
Why many recommended content, ranking so high, like so many people like to like, why the current fashion trends, sometimes can not understand, that is the public chose them, the public's preferences in the choice and recommendation accounted for a large proportion.
How we choose and control the content we create is obvious.
What direction does the author choose and what hot spots to chase, which is according to the public's preferences? What is the public chasing? The author goes to his liking? To get a hit, or to maintain the author's original intention of creation, adhere to the original, and have always insisted.
Many people are thinking and sighing, and they also write out many questions and publish them as articles on the vast platforms to seek answers. In fact, where there is a standard answer, everyone is the same, in a whirlpool.
What matters is what kind of route you want to choose at this moment, what kind of field you want to stick to, and what kind of effect you want to achieve.
Many people are shouting, no one reads their own articles, no one watches their video works;
Many people are complaining, recommending high-heat works, can not look directly, too garbage;
Many people are wondering, what is the difference between themselves and the public?
Even many people don't understand why they do self-media so much on the street, what to do, graphic videos are also the same.
How to say it, this phenomenon.
"Entertainment" has gained a large number of advocates and squeezed out some of the "professionalism".
"Net sense" is a god-like existence, some people are very sensitive and can grasp it, and some people, such as Xiao Bei, cannot grasp it very well.
Xiao Bei belongs to people who are less enlightened, and they have come to half black on this road.
People in their spare time, after work, more is entertainment, all kinds of entertainment. Some people will continue to improve themselves in their free time, and some people will relax and entertain. Shake off the pressure and shake off the worries.
I don't want to be constantly at work, the pressure is always contained, so some of us prefer to enjoy a stress-free entertainment. At present, this network era and the era of big data traffic are more prominent.
I feel like it's a process, a phenomenon. When a state and a phenomenon reach the extreme, it will disintegrate and turn around. Like, before the age of 30 (casually give an example of age, do not specifically refer to a certain type of person, please let go), all day long muddled, spend time and wine, get by and live, but after the age of 30, some people will suddenly change, maybe because of one thing, maybe they hate this life and so on. The other part of the population may continue until they are 35, 40, 50, 60, or a moment before death.
The rest of the people start to wake up very early and keep trying, they understand that there are no shortcuts in life.
There are also some people, life is open and hanging, life is wonderful, how can we, eyes look at it. Know that it's someone else's life, not your own.
It is not very useful to think so much, it is better to improve yourself and prepare for the momentum.
Different lives, different paths, make up our world, rich and colorful.
Xiao Bei also hopes to become powerful and become rich, hahahahaha.
So now I don't complain, don't cry bitterly, don't give up lightly, don't boo, just hope that God will open his eyes, see my efforts, occasionally give me a little cheat, occasionally give me a Bole, and remember to spoil me, hee-hee.
Don't make me wait too long.
Even if the article is rejected, complained about, disliked, do not be too angry, their own gap is on the surface, not to write a few articles can step up to the sky, I am afraid is not a wizard, hahahahaha.
As I mentioned earlier, I will also be in a bad mood and lazy. This is too normal, I am flesh and blood, not a steel warrior, not so powerful self-control.
Just like you and I who know that they are losing weight, they will also steal meat and quack behind their backs. I didn't know the sky was high and the earth was thick, and I said wildly that I wanted to cut the valley, but it took less than three days, because I was too hungry to eat. These are the living us, this is what it is.
Advocating all kinds of "self-discipline", all kinds of self-discipline lists, that is someone else's life, not your life that is forced by self-arrangement and coerced by anxiety. Even if you do, it won't last long.
Any plan that is not realistic, that does not proceed according to your own situation, is only a plan, and will not become your perfect achievement. Just meet some people to do the plan cool!
So how do you get stronger, become powerful, become rich?
01
Or start by quitting swiping your phone.
Mobile phones are becoming more and more important in our lives, and going out with a mobile phone can basically be satisfied. Convenient and fast, it also makes us rely heavily on this thing.
Imagine once the phone is out of hand, the phone is out of power, what to do? It is estimated that all kinds of panic immediately followed. So let's start by quitting mobile phone addiction.
Stay away from shoulder and neck diseases, do not bow your head, and harvest health.
When you start working, stay away from the phone and slowly increase the length of time, from ten minutes, twenty minutes, half an hour or even longer to control the length of time you brush the phone.
The usual leisure time is also as far away from brushing the mobile phone, but the habit of lying down to brush the mobile phone is slowly changed, try to read, go outdoors, go to a favorite movie, party with friends and ask everyone not to take the mobile phone of the kind of party.
Slowly get used to the time without a cell phone and keep it going.
02
Use your leisure time to improve yourself.
We interrupt learning for a variety of reasons. But we can also use our leisure time to improve ourselves and start new learnings, as long as you want, as long as you make up your mind, nothing is impossible.
Modern people, everyone is busy. Even so, there are also a little free time, just need to take ten minutes, half an hour, an hour a day to study, and stick to a period of time will be rewarded.
By continuously learning, you will improve a lot more than those who do not learn.
Fragment time is also time, so why not make good use of it?
Wouldn't it be cooler to focus on improving your ability to have market value and cultivate your ability to earn a high income?
Almost all the rich people are constantly learning to improve themselves and maximize the effects of time, so don't focus on so-called tasks, but focus on scalability.
For example, the main business + side business + sustainable income, etc., not just stay on the single income of the main business.
Always ready to accept new things, learn new knowledge, and keep learning.
03
Take advantage of the young, accumulate more work experience, do not be afraid of trial and error.
It is difficult for us to decide whether we are suitable for this job in the first job, and it is difficult to build a coffin for ourselves when we are very young, and implement it for a lifetime, there is no moth in the middle, Xiao Bei does not believe.
Of course, if you get into the system very early, this is a different matter, not the same discussion.
04
Face everything and don't fool yourself.
Deception is a bad behavior, especially in yourself, covering your ears and deceiving yourself is actually a very stupid behavior that is not worth advocating.
And, of course, it's lofty.
What kind of person you are, you must recognize clearly, and at the same time, you must clearly understand your strengths and weaknesses. In this way, we can plan our future life and work more objectively and accurately.
Admit that your skills are inferior to others, do not shame people; ordinary people who have just graduated have no money and do not lose people; there is no shame in buying a house and a car; life will not be smooth sailing.
When we encounter difficulties, we will find a way to solve the problem, cross this hurdle, although life will not shine brightly, but it will also leave you with a strong ink.
Even if it goes well at the moment, it won't be long before there will be some problems, some obstacles, and difficulties that make everything less smooth. Although it will not be windy and waves, it will never be flat.
We can plan ahead, but we don't have to worry too much about the unknown.
It's a good habit to bring dry food with an umbrella and can be kept.
05
Be rich and give yourself the best hints.
Who doesn't want to be rich, say no, I don't believe!
Either parents or generations of people carry the weight forward, obtain a lot of wealth, they are born to be rich second generation, or through hard work to achieve it themselves, or suddenly won the lottery millions or tens of millions.
But before you become rich, there will be a thorny road. Most of us are on the road to riches in this way. You know, getting rich is not a nine-to-five, but an all-weather lifestyle.
If you have some thoughts in your heart, you will have the motivation to work hard, and how can a person who does not want to become rich work all day and all day.
06
Build multiple revenue streams and stay away from bad debt.
A single income can no longer meet our living needs. The outbreak is all the more emblematic of this problem, with people beginning to think about how they can increase their sources of income.
When encountering major disasters, you can ensure your basic life and will not be completely chaotic.
Then we should develop a correct view of money in ordinary times, clearly know our financial situation, do not avoid our own debt situation, and reduce debt when we can.
Give yourself positive psychological cues, make money hard, try to make money.
Write at the end:
Xiao Bei must also continue to work hard, keep learning, and constantly move closer to the rich.
The road of life, the road to success, will not go straight forward, there are always twists and turns and obstacles.
Good Night
2021.10.20
Xiao Bei. Chongqing