Let's look at the next paragraph "Holding the virtual device, such as holding the surplus, entering the virtual room, such as someone.".
Be careful when holding things, even if you hold empty utensils, as if they are full of things, be careful to prevent falling or breaking. Entering an unoccupied room should also be like someone is there, not casually. This is very critical, it is about the living habits of our families. We now see that many people are easy to break the bowl when they serve the bowl, and often break the dish, because he has not achieved the "holding the virtual device, such as holding the ying". It has damaged its own blessings and wasted its own money, and if it is not good, it is possible to scratch your hand.
I have a friend who, when he was in the countryside, took a bowl of freshly boiled hot corn soup and hurried toward the dinner table. He had a two-year-old who came up to him and bumped into him. He was originally two hand bowls, as soon as he saw the child bumped, he hurried to use one hand to help the child, but he did not expect that the other hand was not stable, so he poured hot porridge on the child's neck, and as a result, the child was burned, and now there is a large scar on the neck. You said that this hurt others, and you had to pay for medical expenses. Hurting your own children is not only spending money, but also lifelong guilt. Whenever he sees this scar, when the father will think that because of his own carelessness, he will cause so much pain to the child, and his heart will be uncomfortable. I have met many families who are accidentally scalding and hurting their children, so we must be cautious and careful in our daily lives.
Here's a story of Bo Yu. Yu Boyu was a doctor who defended the country during the Spring and Autumn Period and was a very ceremonial person. One night, Wei Linggong and his wife were admiring the moon in the courtyard, and suddenly heard the sound of a carriage, but when they passed the prince's door, there was no movement, and after a while the sound of carriages and horses sounded in the distance. It turned out that It turned out that Yu Boyu had passed by here by car, and the etiquette at that time stipulated that the minister passed by the door of the monarch and had to get off the car to show respect, and Yu Boyu would never abandon the etiquette because it was no one saw it at night. From this small matter, we can see that Yu Boyu is very cautious and courteous.
When we do things, we can't do things because someone is there, we can't do the head of the Tao, and no one is there, we can't do it in place. There are a lot of people now, and the more people there are, the better they behave, the more positive they are, and they seem to be very polite. But when no one is there, his original form is revealed, which shows that what he did in front of people is false. Just as we do with our parents, when our parents are not in front of us, our respect is the same. Only in this way can we truly develop good habits over time, cut off evil habits, and enhance our personality charm and moral cultivation.
Let's look at the following talk about "cherishing material life and cultivating kindness." There was a friend who used to climb mountains a lot, and he had one thing that made us sound very touched. In the process of climbing the mountain, he encountered a spider web tied to the sidewalk, he told the children: we come to climb the mountain, we are guests, these animals are the owners, this is the home of the spider, we should not destroy people's homes. So we're going to take a detour. At the same time, tell the children, who is the master of the mountain climbing today? The mountain is the master, and the flowers, grass, and trees are the masters. We were guests, and it was also wrong for guests to go to the host's house and yell at them. We often say that the earth is my home, we must love nature, do not destroy the ecological balance of nature.