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"The Thorny Brother" allows us to see one after another middle-aged and non-greasy brothers who are versatile, can sing and dance, have a good figure, have an elegant appearance, and all have real materials.
One of the older brothers disappeared from the screen for years, not because of inferior quality, nor because of incompetence, but because of the choice of being a full-time dad for the sake of the family.
He is Lee Seung-hyun, who has a charismatic personality on the stage, showing a cool and handsome temperament, can sing and dance, whether it is from the appearance of the dress or from the stage charm, even some small actions can be called impeccable.
Because of this, a bunch of fans were circled, and everyone said that they finally understood Qi Wei's happiness. I felt Qi Wei's happiness! And Qi Wei also responded, "My happiness is more than that!" ”
Lee Seung-hyun has been "circled" countless times, full-time at home with children depressed for more than a year, born to be grateful
▲ A man can understand the pain of having children in his wife
Lee Seung-hyun said that he is very grateful to Qi Wei for giving birth to his daughter, and he also knows that women have a limited golden age in show business, and his wife is also very pursuing a career, so he is willing to retire to become a wife. Lee Seung-hyun became the man behind Qi Wei!
And most of Lee Seung-hyun's content is also related to his wife Qi Wei, a good man who loves his family, his wife and children!
▲ In order to do a good job dad depression for more than a year
Lee Seung-hyun said that being a full-time dad is not his original will, and when he was a full-time dad for more than a year, he felt very anxious and depressed, and read a lot of parenting books.
Female postpartum depression, we think is the cause of hormones, in fact, as a mother in the waiting to feed the child, there will be a very strong sense of frustration, their own in the workplace, but in raising children is full of frustration and helplessness, so this gap is prone to depression.
The main reason why Lee Seung-hyun is depressed is because he hopes to bring his daughter better.
▲ Lee Seung-hyun educated his daughter very well
In our concept, "it is good for the father to live with the baby", but Lee Seung-hyun not only brought his daughter Lucky to be well-behaved and cute, but also very sensible, and it was very cute to dress up outside.
Before Lee Seung-hyun once took his daughter to participate in "Think of a Way, Daddy", Lucky's performance in the show can be said to be countless fans. The language expression ability is very strong, cute and cute, and does not waste food.
Still a very warm little angel: Lucky and Xiaojiu are soliciting guests, John is shouting on the side, and Lucky covers his mouth, causing John to sullen.
Lucky instantly realized that he had done something wrong, immediately apologized and used a tissue to wipe the little boy's tears, and invited Xiao Jiu to be a helper to comfort the little boy together.
Knowing mistakes can be changed, and it is very heart-warming, really an angel.
Lee Seung-hyun is a good father, and Qi Wei is also a good mother, husband and wife are each other in order to better achieve the family, in order to let the children in a loving environment like a fish, grow up better.
Lee Seung-hyun's daughter Lucky once asked her mother: Why doesn't Dad have to work! And the answer of the strong woman Qi Wei is worth learning from parents
Qi Wei was not proud to be the economic pillar of the family. She works outside the home and understands her husband's efforts very well.
Qi Wei's high emotional intelligence response to daughter lucky: Who stays at home This is not a problem, mom and dad have the responsibility to take care of you, all in order to give you a better life, if dad goes out to work, then mom has to take care of you at home.
Qi Wei's answer is worth learning from all parents.
If the mother is at home with the baby full-time and the child asks the father why the mother does not work, the father should also answer the same
First: Face up to every seemingly nonsensical question your child asks
Every question of the child has its own meaning, parents should pay attention to the child's question, and Qi Wei answered the daughter's question very seriously, and also let the child know that the mother knows me and understands me.
Second: Tell your child that mom and dad love him
For the child, cooking for him every day, coaxing him to sleep every day, telling him stories every day, in this little bit of care, can make the child feel the love of his parents for himself.
Usually, if her father takes care of herself, she can feel more love from her father.
And Qi Wei clearly told lucky: Mom and Dad have the responsibility to take care of you, that is, to tell your daughter in disguise that Mom and Dad love you.
Third: Tell your daughter to work for a better life
Some parents will tell their children: How can your mother buy you toys without working? Mom doesn't work how can she give you to school.
It will make children have a strong sense of guilt: Mom and Dad work so hard because of me, because I want to buy toys, all because I want to go to school.
But tell your child to work for a better life, and let your child realize that work can make life better. Thus feeling that work is a beautiful thing, because mom and dad work makes my life happier and better.
Fourth: Dad works, Mom has to be at home
Let children realize that whether it is at work or at home, it is equally important to take care of children. Dad works and mom takes care of him, mom works dad takes care of him, mom and dad are the same for the family.
Jing Mama has something to say:
The growth of the child needs the participation of the father and the mother, of course, there must be a primary, there is a secondary, whether it is the male or female protagonist, it is for the sake of family happiness and harmony, for a better life.
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