The phrase "good birds choose trees and perch" is not only reflected in the choice of objects that need to be served, in fact, in the treatment of marriage and love, both men and women should also have such a consciousness, only in this way the combination of two families is not a kind of reluctance, both people can have more opportunities to continue to develop and move forward, such as Gu Weijun's 4 wives in the 4 love, each brings him good luck, and Gu Weijun also walks to the peak with this, becoming the "first diplomat of the Republic of China".
Gu Weijun's first wife was Zhang Run'e, the Zhang family was a famous doctor's family, Zhang Run'e as the only daughter was the pearl in the palm of the family, Zhang Run'e's father was Zhang Hengshan, and Gu Weijun's father was Yuan Guanlan's guest, so the Zhang family and the Gu family had contacts from time to time, Gu Weijun basically grew up watching him, and although his literary cultivation was not good, but his ability to see the picture was very strong, he felt that Gu Weijun was not a thing in the pool, so he wanted to get married.
The Gu family is famous but not as rich as Zhang Jiafu, Zhang Jiafu is not as high as the Gu family's status, so the two sides are engaged at once, and then Zhang Hengshan treats Gu Weijun as his own son, because the Gu family is poor Gu Weijun almost let his children go to study business, but Zhang Hengshan tried his best to block it, and then not only spent a huge amount of money to let him enter the aristocratic school of St. John's University in Shanghai, but after he graduated, he sold part of his ancestral property to help him study abroad, and then introduced him to work under Tang Shaoyi when he returned to China.
In 1908, Zhang Run'e and Gu Weijun were officially married, during which Gu Weijun seized the opportunity to work hard, practiced English well, and later entered Columbia University, where he obtained a Bachelor of Arts, a Master of Politics and a Doctor of Laws degree in 4 years, and was also the president of the Chinese Students Association in New York and the manager of Columbia Monthly, which can be said to have laid a deep foundation for him to later become a prominent player in the diplomatic field.
Gu Weijun's second wife is Tang Baoyue, that is, the fifth daughter of Tang Shaoyi, the chief of foreign affairs, you can imagine what kind of status she has, and she and Gu Weijun met in a dance hall in April 1912, for Gu Weijun This is a free union, the advent of love, and the initial arranged marriage is not the same, obviously when he began to accept Western ideas, Tang Baoyue was the fairy.
In June 1913, the two married in Shanghai, the wedding was very grand, and because Tang Shaoyi was born as a young child in the United States, although Tang Baoyue did not have any experience in going abroad, he was also very Westernized, whether it was words and deeds or dressing, and this made Gu Weijun more satisfied, after all, if he went out to deal with it, he naturally needed such a wife, so he was very satisfied with this marriage.
Gu Weijun's life is also ready to hang, as mentioned earlier, after Gu Hengshan's introduction, he served as Tang Shaoyi's secretary, so for Tang Shaoyi he was both a subordinate and a son-in-law, so he also took more care of him, and Gu Weijun relied on his own wisdom and wisdom, but also took advantage of this East Wind, first to Yuan Shikai of the Nanjing government as an English secretary, and later to the Beiyang government's foreign minister Lu Huixiang as a secretary, thus shining on the modern diplomatic stage.
Gu Weijun's third wife is Huang Huilan, her grandfather is very wealthy, and to her father Huang Zhonghan's hands, her family is the richest overseas Chinese in India, Huang Huilan's mother was the first beautiful woman at that time, but because she did not have a son, she and her husband gradually drifted away, and finally she took Huang Huilan to London, but after all, she was the daughter of the richest man, Huang Huilan was dressed in fine clothes, compared to Gu Weijun's previous two, even very smart, can speak 6 languages, strong communication skills.
In 1919, Gu Weijun gathered at the home of his classmates, saw the photo of Huang Huilan placed on the piano, fell in love with it at first sight, after the introduction, the two met, and later fell in love, this time the emotional occurrence was obviously very satisfactory to Gu Weijun, and even in order to better pursue Huang Huilan, he reversed his work and transferred to London as a British minister, and later the two married in London in November 1920.
Huang Huilan is undoubtedly Gu Weijun's right-hand man in diplomacy, after all, she is superior in appearance and conversation, and even from childhood to deal with the world's dignitaries, the two stood together is undoubtedly a pair of Bi people, in 1922 Gu Weijun became the cabinet foreign minister, and he was only 34 years old at the time, and later from 1924 to 1927 was the peak of Gu Weijun's career, he was not only the chief of foreign affairs, but also the chief of finance, but also managed the cabinet.
Gu Weijun's fourth wife is Yan Youyun, also a rich family, although it is a rich family, but the family is very happy, and has received a very good education, she is obviously very outstanding, is a very early female student of Fudan University, often because of the fashionable dress to lead the campus trend, her first husband is also the Philippine Consul General Yang Guangxuan, talented, Yan Youyun followed him in and out of the Shanghai diplomatic field, but also very graceful.
During the period of nature and Gu Weijun intersected, but then because of various changes, in 1959 two single half a hundred people came together, Yan Youyun retired, focusing on taking care of this man who is 17 years older than himself, yes, at this time Yan Youyun 54, Gu Weijun 71 years old, but this does not prevent them from working together to grow old, this love is a love that makes Gu Weijun more smooth, after all, at this time, he needs gentleness and care the most.
And the two have been together for 26 years, during which there has never been a quarrel, only because Yan Youyun is really good to him in all directions, summed up as "good housekeeper, good nurse, good secretary", the design of the bedroom is fine to the pillow, which makes Gu Weijun have no hidden worries in life, so in the end Gu Weijun lived a full 97 years old, Yan Youyun is even more powerful, lived to 112 years old, known as "the woman forgotten by God", both became legends of the Republic of China.