Author: Number One Emotion
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Everything has its two sides, even if it is the love that countless people yearn for, there will be harm if there is beauty, there will be hypocrisy and hypocrisy, and there will be envy and there will be unseen light.
Especially two people who already have a family, even if the love is sincere, they can't get the blessing of others, and they are not qualified to talk about love. However, extramarital affairs still occur from time to time, and two people have always been in a situation where they are in love but cannot be together, but they cannot forget.
In fact, many people hold the psychology of luck, thinking that a momentary betrayal will not be detected, but after they are caught in it, they realize the mistakes they have committed, and it is not only two people who are hurt, but their respective families.
Some loves should not be touched, just their own momentary curiosity and flukes, and they may not be able to be happy after they are really together. Therefore, there is only one best way for two people with a family to come together.
You think that you have met true love, but in fact, you have met the wrong person at the wrong time, and you already have a family with each other, and there is no need to torture each other together.
With someone who should not be loved, the final ending will not be good, you may be able to experience a momentary freshness, but this is not to talk about any sincere love, maybe you have paid the truth, but you can not confirm the emotional attitude of the other party, it is likely to just play with you.
Love has a bottom line, as a married person, it is more responsibility than betrayal. You should always remind yourself not to take any chances of stepping into an affair, otherwise you will eventually be punished.
Imagine how a person who is willing to betray his marriage and be with you can be sincere about your feelings? Two people who already have a family and express sincere feelings for each other are a joke in themselves, and if they have been obsessed, what awaits each other can only be hurt.
Therefore, don't take the harmonious family as a child's play, otherwise you will not be able to get sincere emotions, and your family will face brokenness and be denigrated by the people around you. Two people with families, coming together, are actually facing love that does not belong to them, and they must learn to force themselves to let go.
Since you have a marriage, you should use most of your emotions in the family, rather than casually moving to other people of the opposite sex, let alone emotional, which is itself an irresponsible manifestation.
Marriage has gone through a period of time, there may be some rifts, but this is not a reason for betrayal, you should do more to repair, to enhance the feelings between husband and wife, rather than with another person who has a family.
The best way for two people with a family to come together is to let go, and both the disconnection is the beginning of letting go. Insist on it, even if it is difficult to forget for a while, but for the sake of the family should also insist on breaking the connection.
If you can't do even the minimum disconnection, and always break the connection, you will only push yourself into a dilemma in the end, especially after things are exposed, no matter how you choose, you can no longer have a happy marriage. We should live a down-to-earth life, gradually return to life, and make the marriage happier.
Since you have chosen marriage, you should not touch the extramarital affair, love your partner wholeheartedly, and protect your family well.
Two people with a family have come together, and they must also put it down in time, starting from the simplest disconnection, rather than indulging in it all the time, which will only destroy each other's family and bring harm to each other.
Extramarital affairs are the bottom line of marriage, and people with families come together in themselves is a mistake, the best way is to put it down in time, the idea of luck in the cradle, so as not to fall deeper and deeper, and finally to the point where they can't control it, bringing unbearable harm.
Therefore, the best way for two people with a family to be together is to learn to let go and break the connection in time, so as not to cause the breakdown of the family and your unintended consequences.