The sun and the moon are like shuttles, and the fingers are waving.
We have gone through many springs, summers, autumns and winters, and we have memorized the truths of all sizes.
But later, we found that many truths require us to grow up to know, and we only need to experience them ourselves to understand.
1, friends are not many but fine
It is often said that one more friend has one more road.
In fact, this is not the case, many friends are just general friends.
People will meet many friends in their lives, and there are friends who have a serious impact on our lives and even our days; Have close friends who lend a helping hand in times of our difficulties and sorrows; There are friends who know each other and can laugh together; There are also strangers who meet and at most just say hello.
Hours and minutes, always thinking, the more friends the better, everyone should love themselves.
When we grew up, most of the so-called friends we knew were people we knew by chance in our homework situations.
And we often think that we think that we have identified the other party as our friends, but we don't know that the other party may regard you as a stranger.
How many are sincerely willing to pay for you, and can pull you in in your difficult times?
The saddest homework in life is: I found you by my side and wanted you to help me, but you avoided me.
Time will help you and I sift out some of the so-called friends, and an assignment can let you and I see which friends are worth making.
After all, in your and my lives, all that remains are real friends, even if it only takes one or two.
2, benevolence needs to be a little sharp
Hour by hour, parents and teachers always experience that we should be kind and sincere in our treatment of others.
But when we grow up, we find that benevolence needs to be a little sharp, just so talented to protect ourselves.
A person with a good heart and kindness to the world and to others is commendable.
Mercy is the rain and dew of life, the sunshine that pierces through the darkness, and the trust of the heart and the heart.
It is precisely because of kindness that the world is full of love, and the years are overflowing with warmth.
Kindness is an outstanding quality, kindness is a benefit, but it cannot be a defect for you and me.
Everything must have a degree, benevolence is the same, there must be a standard and a bottom line.
Be merciful and let us be gentle. But kindness also makes us a soft persimmon in the eyes of some people, very easy to pinch.
Effect, we tend to receive a lot of begging, we have no way to refuse, because we can't pull down the face.
But gradually, begging became demand, demand became demanding, and the silk of mercy was woven into a cocoon that bound itself.
Kindness, not giving away a rose, must have a lingering fragrance in your hand.
We must be understanding, but we must not pull out our claws.
3) Nothing is more important than health
The body is the capital of the revolution and the condition for the realization of all exaggerations.
If there is no healthy body, what is the point of all we seek?
In the hours, we often hear many celebrity success stories, know the importance of struggle, and struggle has become the most important subject in our lives.
However, when we grow up, we will find that no matter how much effect we get in the end, a body without health is all empty.
When I was young, I stayed up late and worked overtime, didn't mind my health at all, thought that I was still young, and my body could still resist, taking advantage of my youth to make more money.
Until one day, the body presented a problem, had a serious illness, went to the hospital, only to find that the money he had earned for a long time was not enough to stay in the hospital for a few days.
At this time, I will begin to regret, why not take good care of my body, but it is too late.
When you are young, it is right to preach hard work, but under the condition of ensuring your own health.
Life is finite, and it is precisely because of its limitation that it is precious.
A healthy body is more important than anything, and without health, there is no whole.
4, standing is more important than trying
Every hour, parents and teachers always tell us that trying is more important than anything else, and that if you try hard, you will surely be rewarded.
However, when we grow up, we are often faced with such a dilemma: people's efforts and rewards are often disproportionate.
Because the key to success is not 100% effort, especially in this fast-changing world, people who work hard are often not as agile as people.
In your days, you are often told that "selection is more important than extreme effort".
If you take the wrong step on the first step, no matter how hard you try behind, you will only go further and further down the wrong path.
There are several serious choices in life, and each time we make a mistake, it means that we have to pay more time and energy in the future to go back.
There is nothing wrong with this sentence in itself, but how to find the right choice is decided by the position.
Standing, deciding what we can see and what kind of choices we will make.
When we stand at the height of the trend to see the industry, stand at the height of the occupation to see the enterprise, stand at the height of the value chain to see ourselves, we will understand what we need
Concentrate on your homework and know what you need to learn and what kind of people you are working with.
At this point, we will have a clear understanding of how our choices will affect our future.
Time has quietly passed, we have gradually grown up, and in this process of growing up rapidly, we have all learned some truths that will always be understood.