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Believe in each other's human beings
True confidants are just for the sake of a true heart to be with you. There are no other thoughts between each other, just because they believe and understand each other's personality, so they believe in each other unconditionally. Generally speaking, when people reach middle age, they have reached the age of "seeing the mountain is not a mountain", and they have a skeptical and critical attitude towards many things, and sometimes even the pillow person cannot fully believe it. But they dare to introduce each other as their confidants, which requires 100% trust, and this trust stems from the character of the other party.
Don't say ambiguous words
If it is a simple confidant of the opposite sex, at least it must be not ambiguous, and the two people just interact like ordinary friends. I am your blue-faced confidant, I understand your grievances and sadness as a woman; you are my confidant with a red face, and you can understand my hardships and heartache. On the road of life, we just get along as friends, generous and bright. Both parties can appreciate and pity each other, but never do anything out of line, never say ambiguous words, because they cherish the relationship.
Respect each other's marriages
When people reach middle age, true friends of the opposite sex will not interfere with each other's marriages. Regardless of the reason why the two of them regard each other as confidants, they definitely do not have admiration, just like two substances that do not cause chemical reactions, although the relationship is very good, but there is absolutely no spark. They are beyond the friendship between the sexes, so when the other person's marriage is happy and happy, he will sincerely bless it. When the other person's marriage is in a situation, he will be like a "healing emotional master", helping you to give advice and advice to save your precarious marriage.
Can share joys and sorrows
Sometimes, friends of the opposite sex are like this, and the two parties can share their joys and sorrows together, but these emotions have nothing to do with ambiguity, they just want to share these with each other from the heart. Because the two of them can be unscrupulous in front of each other, they seem so brazen. They may have the same strange "brain circuit", they understand the stems that others do not understand, and they all understand the things that others do not understand, which is the so-called friendship beyond gender, but this is definitely not love.
Nothing to get tired of being together
No matter how good a friend of the opposite sex is, he also has his own lover and his own family, so the sense of proportion and boundary must still be grasped. Because you are confidants, I believe that you cherish this relationship even more. Because you are of the opposite sex, you must also know how to avoid suspicion when necessary. Because your relationship is simple, you will not be concerned about each other and think about each other without meeting. Good friends are like this, gentlemen's friendship is as light as water, talking about the world when they are together, and being okay when they are not together.