Do you become humble in love because of a man? In the relationship, many women will willingly sacrifice themselves for this man, but as everyone knows, such an approach will only make themselves bent.
In the world of feelings, women do not have to humblely please a man, because only when you know how to be the best version of yourself can you meet good luck in your emotional life.
Each of us is a magnet, and the kind of person you are will attract what kind of person.
If you want to get a man, you don't need to please, and these "routines" will be more useful.
"Husband, do you not love me, why do other people's holidays have a sense of ceremony, but you are not willing to change for me." 」 This is not the first time that Wang Hui has made such a request to her husband, but in the face of Wang Hui's statement, her husband has not changed in the slightest, but on the contrary, he still thinks that Wang Hui's idea is some unreasonable trouble.
Married to her husband for 7 years, Wang Hui has never received a gift from her husband, even if it is a marriage proposal diamond ring, it is also bought by her husband, but even so, Wang Hui has never blamed her husband.
After marrying her husband, Wang Hui soon became pregnant with a child, which also made the feelings between the two change, after giving birth to Wang Hui, lettuce has also undergone great changes, in order to be able to save her husband's heart, Wang Hui chose to change, but all this for Wang Hui's husband, there is no effect at all.
Every time there is a festival, the husband will choose to avoid seeing, and even consciously or unconsciously avoid Wang Hui, which also makes Wang Hui's heart very sad.
In fact, in the face of feelings, women do not want much, as a man, should give enough women more care and love, when necessary, should also give women more sense of responsibility, because only in this way, the feelings between you will become more solid, women are actually very good.
As a man, as long as you use a little more heart, you can find the softest place in a woman's heart.
Men must always become a woman's dependence, because only in this way will the love between you become more powerful, and the sense of ceremony is also an expression of a man's love for a woman, so that love will be more meaningful.
In love, women do not have to be humble, love themselves well, the other party will love you.
Smart women know how to do this.
01.
Give men space
In due course, women also want to give men a certain amount of space, because if you always limit each other in the name of love. Even if the other party is fully monitored, then the other party will find it difficult to breathe in such an environment, and over time, he will want to escape more and more.
Properly blank love can be maintained for a long time, good feelings, have a relatively safe distance. Not too close, not too far.
Interaction between people is inherently respectful of each other. If you always use your own attitude to force the other party, then the control of your love name will eventually become a burden to him, and smart women should know how to keep their distance from their other half.
If your love makes a man feel stressed and miserable. Then over time, he will also want to escape from your control.
02.
Can't touch a man's privacy
Happiness psychology tells us that it is not difficult to knock on the door of happiness, and happiness is actually not difficult.
In the world of feelings, everyone will have their own privacy, if the other party is not willing to tell you his inner secrets, then you do not need to ask too much, because if there is no certain privacy between two people, then it will also make two people lose curiosity about each other.
After many people are together, they will think of changing each other in their own way, but in fact, this approach is often wrong, because everyone will have their own living space, if you restrict each other too tightly, over time, the barrier between the two of you will become higher and higher.
Properly respect each other and leave some space for each other to breathe, so that your love will be more long-lasting, which will make your love more beautiful and sweet.
03.
Controlling emotions:
The principle of emotional judgment priority tells us: deal with emotions first, deal with things later.
Women in real life, to learn to control their emotions, if your emotions are always fluctuating, then over time, you will also be because of a little unsatisfactory, and the family will be wolf-smoke.
Many women feel that they are working hard for this family, so many times, they spend the rest of their time venting their emotions.
Everyone will have joys and sorrows, which is undeniable, but temper will not solve the problem, it will only hurt your physical health. Many times, women have to learn to control their emotions.
Only in this way will you not anger the other party, if your emotions are always fluctuating and emitting negative energy. Then, your lover will also stay away from you, first of all, we must be aware of our emotions, and secondly, we must learn to calm our emotions. Only later can you change your aura.
Women are not good at rational thinking by nature, so they are more likely to be emotional in many cases, but it is also because of these reasons that it is easy for them to run into walls in their feelings. Therefore, a woman who knows how to control her emotions can make men more liked.
Women in the relationship, to learn to use their own wisdom to solve problems, but also to learn to use their own wisdom to retain a man, rather than humble prayer, it is better to let a man see your changes, such a life will become happier, if you bloom, the breeze comes.