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There is never a fixed standard for a good life, but there are traces to follow. The key to what kind of life a person will live depends on what kind of configuration he has.
Everyone has a life they yearn for, but many times they are obviously working hard, but they are still not satisfactory.
I agree with the saying: "Everyone is the architect of their own life." ”
There is never a fixed standard for a good life, but there are traces to follow.
The key to what kind of life a person will live depends on what kind of configuration he has.
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As the saying goes: "Reading thousands of books is not as good as walking thousands of miles, walking thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people, and reading countless people is not as good as guiding the way of famous teachers." ”
Life is like a tree, not pruned and not formed, if you rely on your own feelings to grope, it is very likely to go in the opposite direction.
Once there is guidance from a mentor, the possibilities are endless.
A good teacher teaches you to learn skills, teaches you to behave in the world, and makes you take many detours.
I've heard the saying: "What kind of person you can become depends on what kind of person you meet." ”
Mentors give you guidance, and good friends are also very beneficial.
Make different friends and see different landscapes.
Friends on the scene, when they are at peace, they are happy, and once they are lonely, they will often leave you.
True friends, embrace you with warmth, support you with sincerity.
They can send charcoal in the snow, but do not ask for anything in return; dare to speak out, without fear of hurting the peace.
Weak water three thousand, not as good as two or three friends.
Mentors and friends are nutritional products are positive energy, fortunate to meet, please be sure to double cherish.
Most of life's troubles are usually due to two reasons: one is to think and not to practice, and the other is to act blindly.
Thinking is the tip of wisdom, and when a situation occurs, it takes calm thinking to solve the problem in an orderly manner.
However, many times, spending a lot of time on thinking, subjectively exaggerating the influence of difficulties, but leading to difficulties.
Jobs once said: The biggest difference between doing things and dreaming is whether you can start acting right away.
In fact, the real meaning of thinking is to move forward better.
The biggest regret in the world is probably not that I did something wrong, but that I walked thousands of miles in my dreams and woke up still in the same place.
Instead of suffocating your head, it is better to step on your feet and let the action land one by one.
There is a saying: "A person's maturity is a sign that 99% of the efforts may fail, but still have firm faith and firm action." ”
Thinking is the precursor of action, action is the verification of thinking, thinking combined with action, the goal is clearer and more feasible.
Yishu said: "I want a lot of love, if not, I want a lot of money." ”
Man pursues nothing more than these two things in his life: to make a living and to make love.
Making a living makes you live well, and making love makes you live well.
Making a living is the greatest dignity of adults, the hottest appearance of life.
Seeking love, let you experience the warmth of the world, even if you exchange the gentleness of the world for a look back, it is worth it in the world.
Some people complained that they were doing a tiring job to make a living; they were exhausted and did not know whether to let go.
As everyone knows, the best state of making a living and making love is peering.
If chai rice oil and salt are too hard, add a little love and mood to make life more motivated;
If the wind and snow are too ethereal, use a steady struggle to let love stay permanently.
Life should be half fireworks, half poetry, making a living and making love nourish each other, will make you always tearful, always passionate.
For the rest of his life, "holding fireworks in his hands to make a living, and with poetry in his heart to seek love", he lived his life vividly.
Haruki Murakami once said that suffering is never a pleasure, but although it is very difficult in front of you, it may blossom in the future.
Life is full of five tastes, and if you want to taste sweetness, you must first learn to suffer.
Unwilling to suffer hardships, maybe every day is very easy, but the days will become more and more difficult; not afraid of hardship, maybe it is difficult to survive at the moment, and the days will be better and better in the future.
Don't choose to be comfortable at this age of hardship, accept the baptism of storms, and sharpen the courage to take responsibility.
Only if you are willing to endure hardships can you become strong; only if you are willing to suffer losses can you become strong.
Writer Mudd said: "It is easy for one person to win over another, that is, to learn to lose." ”
There is no white light in the world, and there is no loss in vain.
People who are not afraid of losses, know how to think differently, give advantages to others, and their popularity will get better and better, but they will win more gifts.
Those who are willing to suffer losses will not be able to suffer losses after all.
Although you bear hardships and nourish your heart, I hope that you will be able to endure hardships and happiness as soon as possible; although you will cultivate virtue by suffering losses, I hope that you will eventually receive blessings.
Energy will flow like air, be kind to others, and others will treat you in the same way.
Those who are good at understanding others and being kind to others have a magical charm that makes people can't help but want to get closer.
The so-called tolerance is not to tolerate and indulge, but to let others go and make themselves more flexible.
No one is perfect, appreciate the merits of others, is to understand and respect others.
Life is not easy, do not care about gains and losses, nothing can bother you.
The wise will be humble, and the good will be tolerant.
People who know how to be tolerant, in addition to having a good heart, also have kindness from their bones.
Mark Twain has a saying that goes well: kindness is a universal language that allows the blind to "see" and the deaf to "hear."
The power of kindness is infinite, even if the heart is as strong as steel, it will instantly turn into tenderness around the fingers.
When you choose goodness, though the blessings are not coming, the evils are far away.
Learn to be tolerant and the world will become vast; with good intentions, life will always be happy.
We often hear such feelings: "It is difficult to be a person, it is difficult to be a person" and "what people do", which shows that being a person and doing things is a compulsory course for everyone's life.
Yu Minhong once said this passage:
Be a person who tries to go as low as possible, let others, meet interests and reputations as far back as possible, and leave the greatest room for yourself. We must have our own opinions and goals in order to do things well.
Be like water, be sensible, know the measure, be accessible and kind, and be down-to-earth.
Not necessarily beautiful, but it must be dignified;
Do things like mountains, have courage, have motivation, unswerving, calm and resolute.
It may not be perfect, but it must be unashamed.
Someone once said: If you don't do things as a person, you will never be able to do things; if you don't do things, you will never be an adult.
Being human and doing things complement each other.
There must be principles in being a person, and there must be a bottom line in doing things.
Being a person determines your upper limit, and doing things determines your lower limit.
Will be a person who knows how to do things, cultivate like water bosom, cultivate like a mountain spirit.
There are often such tips in life: the system configuration is too low and needs to be upgraded.
In one way alone, it is difficult to keep up with the ever-changing rhythm.
The same is true of our lives, which cannot be obtained once and for all in a static way.
If you feel that life is not going well, you must adjust and improve yourself.
Only by constantly updating and iterating and refreshing ourselves can we be more intelligent and transparent, and deal with the ever-changing changes of the world with ease.
Source of this article: Ten O'Clock Reading
Author: Ten Points Signed Author Xu Xiaoxu
WeChat Editor: Wang Yuan
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