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"Lady Hu Zhu", starring Yang Mi and Chen Weiting, has recently announced the finale.
The three heroines in the play, Tilan, Fang Haishi, and Garnet, represent three different ways of life, and interpret three different values for us to treat emotions, none of which is the best, nor which one is the worst, but we can learn some truths from it, so that our subsequent lives go more smoothly.
I believe that whether it is 20 years old or 30 years old, women will have some confusion and encounter some difficulties in the face of emotional love, but as long as we distinguish between right and wrong, we will make our lives better and better.
The delicate emotions between these three women who knew earlier than later shared with everyone, hoping that in our busy lives, there will be a beautiful warm light.
First, it is important to learn to express.
In the play, Fang Hai is that after being saved by Fang Zhu, He worshiped Fang Zhu as a teacher and learned from his teachers for more than 20 consecutive years.
Between the lonely man and the widow, in the twilight of the dynasty, Fang Haishi gradually developed feelings, and when she was in her twenties, she also bravely expressed her feelings to the master.
At first, I was only concerned about the safety of the master, no matter how late, I would wait for the master to return, just like a good wife and mother, every day to light the lights and wait for her husband to return.
Later secretly learned embroidery, embroidered a purse to the master, although the craftsmanship is not very exquisite, but after all, this is her own stitch and thread embroidery, in order to express her heart's affection, she bravely gave it to the master.
Seeing that the master did not have any response, she simply opened her heart and said the three words face to face: "I love you".
Fang Haishi constantly changed his ways, expressing his love and emotions to the other party, and finally touched Fang Zhu.
Although Ti Lan was not as bold as Fang Haishi, she also expressed her love to Di Xu through her own way, boiling soup for Di Xu, making snacks, and carving dragon tail gods. He will also express his emotions according to Di Xu's meaning: "Will accompany you to the end of time." ”
In contrast, the garnet side is not so beautiful, in the play, Fang Zhuoying is very enthusiastic in love with the garnet, and it is to send rabbits, but also to send bracelets, but also to accompany to see the sunrise, but also to accompany the fishing, even if the IQ is stupid women, they all know what the other party wants.
Garnet also loves Fang Zhuoying, for the sake of Fang Zhuoying's future, she would rather sacrifice her own life, but she did not express it from beginning to end, if it were not for Fang Zhuoying's strong love for her, it would be difficult to form a pair in the back.
If Garnet can express his love to Fang Zhuoying before suspending his death, Fang Zhuoying's progress on the grassland may be faster.
Zhang Chengqian in the play also loves the local sea market, but he did not express it from beginning to end, and finally got along with a faint friend, if he can express it, maybe the relationship will go further, and they will become good confidants.
In our work and life, it is very important to clearly express our ideas and let the other party understand their own meaning as soon as they hear it.
Second, between women and women, there are real feelings.
Ti lan, from the first day of being rescued, knew that Fang Haishi was a woman.
Garnet, from the size of the clothes and the sound of walking footsteps, has been judged that Fang Haishi is a woman.
But they have never exposed Fang Haishi, not only because they are all women, but also because there is true love between them.
This kind of love is not the kind of love that men have for women, but a kind of love for each other.
You're doing well, I don't envy jealousy and hate.
You are not having a good time, in addition to pouring out your money to help, I am also sad and anxious.
Fang Hai City, knowing that Ti Lan, who lives in the palace, is not happy, sends rabbits, sends hunting dream bells, and every time he goes out, he will bring corresponding gifts back to her.
Fang Haishi, in order to fulfill Garnet and Fang Zhuoying, risked his life in the middle of the night to break into the palace and asked His Majesty to order the marriage.
Compared with heterosexuality, the feelings between women and women are more harmonious and deep.
Because women understand women better, hobbies between women, and careful thinking between women, only women are more likely to resonate.
The love between women and women is a fickle feeling, and the valuable thing is that when faced, dare to reveal the natural opportunity, you can be pure and unadorned yourself, which is a kind of thick and thin feelings. The deeper the love, the more it exerts its strength on seemingly small and uncontrolled things.
The woman's heart is also softer, more empathetic, and easier to empathize, and two women can stay together, they can speak freely like close friends, or they can be intimate like sisters.
In this era of etiquette, this true love is very rare in ancient and modern times.
When people are in the scenery, applause and following always come easily. When you are down, the person who holds out his hands to you is the one whose soul depends on you.
Third, if you want to get a man's heart, you need to be on the same frequency with a man.
In the play "Lady Huozhu", there are three pairs of CPs, Tilan and Di Xu, Fang Zhu and Fang Haishi, Fang Zhuoying and Garnet.
Ti lan and Di Xu, at first, made people particularly angry, but in the end, they lived and died together, not only Ti Lan deeply understood His Majesty's heart, can hit the essence of His Majesty's moody state, but also can stand on the same front with His Majesty, His Majesty in order to save the lives of the people looking for the world's prescription, and Tiran is now in the palace to study all the medical classics.
Fang Zhu and Fang HaiShi, Fang Zhu put his home country and the world first in his life, hiding everywhere and restraining his emotions. And Fang Haishi is the same, for the sake of the overall situation, she is willing to enter the palace as a concubine, after the death of Tilan and Di Xu, she re-becomes Lady Huizhu, listens to the government, raises the prince as an adult, and always has a relationship with her beloved throughout her life.
Fang Zhuoying and Garnet, Fang Zhuoying at first in order to be with Garnet, willing not to take the throne, and Garnet for his future, willing to fake death, and finally won the favor of Fang Zhuoying's life.
If you want to win the hearts of men, you need to stand on the same channel front with men, the common direction and goal, there will be a common language, the same heart can be the same flow, the same stream can communicate.
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