Today's society is indeed more tolerant than ever, but there are still mustards in the past of men and women, especially men.
There may be some men who say that they will not take a woman's past to heart, but after they really know a woman's past, they will sometimes move this out to say things or make fun of it.
So why do they care about women's pasts, you know? Men care about women's past, mostly stemming from these 3 kinds of psychology, can you read it?
1. Originating from the complex
In fact, men's requirements for marriage partners and simply developing a girlfriend relationship are not the same, the biggest difference is in their possessiveness, most of them want their marriage partners to be flawless, and only girlfriends are mostly indifferent.
Although some men say that they don't mind, in fact, their hearts are not tasteful, they still mind, and even some men pay special attention to this matter, and feel that they can't get over this hurdle in their hearts, so they propose to break up.
2, worry that women will be more casual
Many men's double standards are very serious, on the one hand, they hope that their girlfriends can be together with themselves before marriage, on the other hand, they cannot accept that women have intimate relationships with others before marriage, and even more will habitually think that a woman who can be intimate with men before marriage is a casual woman.
Of course, most men still have such concerns, afraid that they will not be able to accept their hearts after marriage, and they will not live a good life with themselves, which is actually their double standard psychology.
3, afraid that women can not let go of the ex
People have feelings, in fact, men and women, they will also be afraid of the other half and the shadow of the ex. And men know better that women attach great importance to their first time, and even remember and impress the first time of the man.
Therefore, for men, they will be afraid that women still have feelings for her ex, and this is what men usually can't stand, and women who can't stand themselves still have other men in their hearts.
So, whether men care or not, women are advised not to mention it to your man about their past. A new relationship should not mention each other's past, let alone dwell on each other's past, let the past things pass.
Today's society, although much more tolerant, but in fact, women are still more harsh than men, so also advise all women to know how to protect themselves, must consider more about the situation you were in at that time, think about whether he can give you a future, or whether he is a person worth trusting for life? If you can't, then don't give yourself up easily.
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