Shock: Facing a sudden change in life

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On December 10, 2021, today I accompanied My Mother to the local cancer hospital for a B ultrasound examination, and the results showed that the left thyroid nodule was grade 4b, and the grade 4b lesion refers to the moderate suspicion that the lesion is malignant, and it is recommended that the patient should undergo a fine needle aspiration biopsy, or direct surgical treatment, and decide whether to do enlarged surgery according to the pathological results. At that time, she was also shocked to hear this result, and Her mother's mood was also very lost, and tears once swirled in her eyes. (In fact, from the moment my mother entered the B ultrasound room, I was particularly nervous, and my heart was silently praying, and my mind was actually a blank). But there is really no better way, and we can only face this reality.

Coming out of the outpatient building, my mother and I did silently in the car for a long time, and suddenly felt that people were vulnerable in the face of illness for a moment. As a husband, you can only constantly comfort the mother, the examination, the operation ~ by discussing the follow-up things with the mother, slowly breaking the frozen atmosphere.

On the way home, Flash's mother has been looking up relevant information on the Internet, and I also sent the examination report to my classmates in the hospital for inquiry. Fortunately, the answer was not as serious as I thought, but I could not take it lightly. Maybe The flash mother also found some information on the Internet, and the mood was not as bad as when she just got the results. Although I still didn't say a word, my expression was no longer so solemn, and my heart was quietly relieved. After all, mentality is everything, no matter what happens later, at least keep an optimistic mindset.

In fact, the moment that made me break through the defense today was when my mother suddenly said to me in the car: "This operation costs money!" "At that moment, I really felt like a failure, thinking back to the more than four years that My mother had married me, from spending a lot of money to now being meticulous, and even struggling for a long time for the postage of 10 yuan." But I ever thought that she was also the treasure in the palm of her parents' hands, and the little princess in her parents' hearts. Will be for me, October pregnant, Shun turned in the ghost door closed once, thinking about this, I feel that I am really sorry for the mother, although I regard her as a queen in life, but materially I am very poor, I did not enjoy the treatment of the queen at all, which is also the place where I feel the most indebted to her.

Although she is not good at expressing herself, I know that she loves me and loves our family, which is also the motivation for me to fight for it. I will continue to check with My Mother Next week, and I believe that everything will go in a good direction. Yesterday is good, can not go back, tomorrow is difficult, life must continue, adjust the mentality, there is no obstacle that can not be passed! Come on! [Light the peace lamp] [Light the peace lamp] [Light the peace lamp] [Light the peace lamp] [Light the peace lamp] [Light the peace lamp]